The Reason Why Men and Women Will Never See Eye to Eye

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The Reason Why Men and Women Will Never See Eye to Eye

Introduction

This will be from a mans prospective so if you aren't interested in hearing that i'd suggest you leave.

This does not go for every man and woman, but in today's society you will see how men and women don't get along. From the time we were little, it always has been and always will be a competition. Here's why we are the way we are.

Childhood

The Reason Why Men and Women Will Never See Eye to Eye

It all starts when we're young, no doubt we are raised differently, taught different things, raised different ways. These ways contradict as we get older, and closer.

The way men are raised, we are raised to protect our women, we are taught that keeping a woman, and are family safe are our only priorities as a man. Treat them like princesses, basically put them above yourself, and when you don't follow through with this, you are seen as a coward. We are raised to be tough and vicious, the opposite of what women are raised to be. Women are raised and taught that she is like a princess.

"Ladies first"

"Open the door for a lady"

"Women get in for free"

"'Its her wedding/special day"

"sweet 16"

They are raised as treasures, they are taught they when it comes to men, to find the one who will treat you like a princess. What happens when that man doesn't exist? What happens when that men she finds is not the man she was promised she would have growing up? It's blamed on the man, men grow up to realize how easy women have it when it comes to the little things. It makes us dislike women.

Just imagine a man who told a woman he wanted her to treat him like a prince. Imagine a man asking a woman to open the car door for him. Imagine a place where only men got in for free and women had to pay in order to get in. You'd look at that man/men like they were psycho's... right?

Responsibility/Expectation

The Reason Why Men and Women Will Never See Eye to Eye

A man is expected to do a lot, especially in a relationship. I heard about this in school I don't really remember much about it but in modern days men were sent off to fight at war while the women a man's job until they got back. The women were relieved when their husbands returned not only because they missed them, but also because they were relieved to find out that they wouldn't have to do a mans job anymore. They were happy that they no longer had to get dirty like their men did everyday.

Imagine a woman having a job, paying bills, taking the man on a date and paying for it.

Sounds like the man is a lazy ass slob right? I'm not saying that this doesn't happen with some couples, but generally it just doesn't sound right. All this that a man is supposed to do for a woman. Some men just can't handle all that expectation, we are human beings too.

We want to feel that kind of special, we want to be taken care of the way we take care of someone. In today's society there's an argument whether the woman should help pay the bill when they go out to eat. There are women out there fighting daily to have the same rights as men, but the same women still have a problem with splitting the bill when they go out to eat.

The Reason Why Men and Women Will Never See Eye to Eye
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