i suppose it is a good idea in a way. for one it's a good idea to see if he's the type of guy to flirt with any girl. but then again she might not get the result that she wanted, if for example he does flirt back. I made a fake Facebook account for my boyfriend once and started flirting with him. but unfortunatley he was flirting and asking to meet up for sex and stuff. then uses the excuse when I confronted him about it that his was just going along with, but you DON'T go along with it no matter what. so that's one of the down sides of doing it. but then if he replies back saying sorry I've got a girlfriend and I don't want to talk to you ... then that's the upsdie of it. it's a pretty good way to see what type of guy he is, and to see if tell her about this "girl on Facebook" . but she needs to be prepared for the bad bits if he does flirt back
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Do NOT, I repeat, do NOT DO NOT DO NOT get involved. If she wants to "test" him or whatever kind of immature crap she's thinking, let HER do it. Do NOT get involved because I promise YOU will end up with egg on your face.
Personally, I would NEVER even THINK to ask a friend of mine to do anything for me in regards to my relationship. I don't want other people to be a part of it. Our relationship is just that, ours. If I thought my boyfriend wouldn't be faithful, I'd flat out tell him. Communication is key, not nasty, immature, vindictive scams that go behind his back. How old is your friend, 16?
is your friend really you?
you can test him with it if you like. sounds like too much effort, and if there is no trust in the relationship, then you already have problems.
i've never done it, but I do have a fake acct which I created once just because I wanted to check out my privacy settings. then I changed them accordingly.
and now I use it for farmville. hahaha
If she doesn't trust him, then how are they going to stay together in the first place? Like other said, he would probably dump her if he ever found out about it. I can't say I blame him, because I probably would too.
This isn't even really seeing if he's good boyfriend material. It's trying to make him fail her tests. He's a person, not a dog. Don't make him jump through hoops just to make sure he isn't cheating. If she has that little trust in him, then she should find someone else.
My father created a bunch of Facebook accounts just to add to his neighbors on farmville. Quite funny. He's become addicted to all those Facebook app games.
Onto your question:
No, its not a good idea. If she doesn't feel that she can trust him she shouldn't be with him, period.
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ive done it and its really quite simple. just make sure you don't steal anyones picture or info=)
she shouldnt feel guilty because doing this will at least put her mind at ease, since long distance relations can be very stressful. Either she does the fake account, or she's going to be stressing herself to the point where she might constantly call/or ask other people to check up on her bf.
-And for future reference...if a couple does not have trust in each other then maybe a long distance relationship is out of the question. =)
- and to anyone who disagrees, well...i would understand if my boyfriend did that to me. Though it means something is wrong in the relationship.Hii,
I'm not really sure what to think - I mean I can honestly see it from her side but this means that there is no trust in her relationship, and without trust a relationship cannot function properly.
It could very easily backfire and he may find out - chances are he will flirt as most guys do but it's harmless fun really. We all flirt whether it's intentional or not, but as long as he didn't actually act on it and it was just harmless flirting it wouldn't be anything to worry about.
But from my side I wouldn't because it could very easily make her loose complete faith in her relationship and make her extremely paranoid about him. And if she confronted him about it, it wouldn't look very good to say "Yeah, I made a fake account" Because then that makes her as bad as him really. :( Sorry if this was a little harsh.
Good luck with what your friend chooses though.
xxxxshe's just asking for trouble if she does. even if he doesn't fall victim to the trick, and he doesn't agree to hook up with your friends alias, she still won't trust him, it won't change anything. it may ease her suspicions for a short period of time, but eventually it will wear off and she'll think of some other tactic to catch him in a lie.
No. I think that there has to be a reason for her to suspect he will cheat and that's a problem within the relationship that is not going to be solved by something so immature.
Even if he did flirt back, what would she do? Flirting is mostly harmless anyway and doesn't always make someone a cheat.It's a tempting idea at times, but if he ever found this out I'm sure the relationship would be over. It's not worth the risk, she just needs to trust him.
If there is that little trust in the relationship, it's already doomed.
Either he cheats and she finds out, and it's over...
Or he doesn't cheat, and then finds out she doesn't trust him, and yes, you guessed it, it's over.Bad idea. If she doesn't trust him, then they shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. Plus, if he somehow found out, that would NOT go down well... What if he's not cheating?
Ive done this a few times because my friends bfs are baddddddd. and it only proved they are douches. and then my friend was mad because I backed her up?
it sounds like a good idea but not really.No that's a really immature and stupid thing to do.
Your insecurities are getting the best of you...don't play immature games with someone just because you are the one with the problem.
Yes I've done this wimy boyfriend andf he passed I think its a good idea just be prepared if he doesn't he fails
I don't. If you can't trust the person you're with, then what's the point? No offense to you or your friend, but that's some serious HS garbage.
Just write a keylogger. I wouldn't trust ones you can download.
My ex girlfriend tried this with me and I knew it was her cause she did it with her ex and I found the default pic on her comp. I wasn't cheating so it broke the line of trust in our relationship.
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