Does working out really help attract girls?

[Stephs12125]

I'm kind of shy to talking to girls I don't know and they don't really talk to me either. I was wondering how much it would help to gain a lot of muscle. Would more girls start talking to me? I'm currently on a workout plan. before I started I wieghed in at around a pathetic 120. I'm training over the winter for this summer and already I have an 8 pack which I had not shown anyone yet. I've also looking a lot bigger than before. I was wondering if this is really going to help a lot?

[omgwhatdoIdo]

At school it won't help you :/ I understand that you're shy, I'm very shy myself. But if there is a girl you like, you need to approach her. Girls won't approach you if:

1. you're not showing you're interested (sometimes)

2. You show that you like to be by yourself

3. You don't make eye contact, smile, or talk to her.

4. You seem distracted by your guy friends

5. Lack of self-confidence in yourself, so you don't dress as nicely as you can, you just don't care what you look like on a normal day.

EFFORT=INTEREST. remember that. The more effort you put into how you look, the more interest you'll get. Sure, your body may help you at the beach but not at school.

A girl WILL approach a guy who:

1. Always smiles at her

2. Looks into her eyes, make a lot of eye contact

3. Says hi to her, waves at her

4. Is nice when talking to his friends, social, shows off his personality

5. Dresses nice

6. Shows interest

Honestly, I don't care much for abs. I really don't, and I'd never get to see them at school. What attracts me is a guy who has a great personality, will approach me and be friendly, making small conversation with me and surprising me with his sudden interest in me.

If there is a girl you like, you should make eye contact, smile at her, say hi to her. Don't worry about talking to girls, usually they are very talkative and they will help to carry on a conversation with you if they're interested in you too, or just want to be friendly. Lets say you see this girl leaving her class and you like her, catch up with her in the hall and say "Hey what's up!?" she'll be stunned and answer casually in a friendly manor. Then, you ask her questions and say bye to her when she gets to her next class. Girls LOVE a guy that can make her laugh, especially if she's having a bad day. Make her laugh and you make her day better :) It goes a long way. Ask her if she'd like to go to the movies with you friday. It really isn't that hard to get the girl you like, you just need to look your best, catch her attention, show her you like her, approach her and be friendly, make small talk, become somewhat friends, invite her to go to the movies with you or something :)

The only way an 8 pack will help you, is boosting your self-esteem. That's it. But the better the self-esteem the better your confidence, and that will help you be more social with girls. When you're looking good one day, you tend to be more social knowing you look good and you gain more confidence. Take the risk, she won't be mean to you, just be friendly.

[iveth]

I agree with her. an a guy has to have some confidence

[KarKingJack]

Your gonna attract girls who like sporty guys, man. If your not sporty, they'll loose interest pretty quick.

To attract the kinda girls you want, which are the girls interested in you, you just have to improve yourself. Like, y'know, I lost weight, and adopted my in-vogue/gutter-fashion style, and worked on my hairstyle, and lah-de-dah, y'know, the faggy things I'm recognised for, LOL, and I attract girls who like, uh... Whatever kinda guy I am. But y'know, I attract the sort of... Glamourous and mentally ill.

You know what I mean?

Whereas I know a guy who lost a lot of weight, and got into that sorta home-grown army training sh*t, and going down the gym a lot, and now he's pulling birds out of sight. And they're the kinda girls who like to hang off the arm of a guy and grin a little, thinking 'ohhh yeahhhh', hahaha. And then develop a futile romantic relationship behind closed doors.

So, just, y'know. Charge head-first into your scene, and you'll glean what you glean, babyyyy.

[AnAnonymousPerson]

Anything that can give you more self confidence can help you with talking to girls. Confidence alone probably won't make them come flocking to you but it's not like they're going to run away if you start a good conversation with them. If you truly believe that you look pretty good then why should you be shy? I'm not saying you should get an ego over night and become a self-centered douche. Basically I'm saying that if you have confidence you won't doubt yourself and it will seem much easier to approach and talk to girls.

Personally I went through the same thing. I started working out built a bit of muscle, started to like the way I looked more, and now I just feel free to be myself and strike up conversations with anyone I want to because of it. (And no I'm not saying I'm a ladies man I'm just saying that self-image can help you come out of your shell)

[davishere]

Working out helps to a certain extent, but what really matters when it comes to picking up girls is your approach and your attitude (confidence). A guy who is a li'l chubby can pick up girls, if he has a good pick-up strategy, and can leave the dude with muscles behind. Good looking is not mandatory, but it is a li'l important, but ultimately it's your confidence and attitude that matters.

Don't be afraid bro, they are girls, they're human beings too, worst case scenario if you approach, she'd turn you down, but that's common, you shouldn't give-up before trying, right ? SInce you said that you have a nice muscular body, just man-up and approach a girl you like. Good Luck.

[Brando]

Working out itself most likely won't get you any more attention. The self-image that increases from working out is what gives you a higher self-esteem, which leads you to be more comfortable talking to girls.

Also, don't be ashamed to retain your reserved nature once you start bulking up. If you don't go around showing your body off and remain humble about yourself, then you might find even more success with girls.

[pinkxcutt]

Yah guys with super hot bodies...but they aren't cocky about it, and they don't even seem to realize how good they look...and they have a reserved personality...make them completely irrisistable.

[Anonymous]

Will a smoking hot body get girls to talk to you? Yeah... at the beach.

What working out will hopefully give you is confidence because that's the big thing you're lacking. It doesn't matter if you have an 8-pack or not, confidence is key to getting the girl.

[Voltaire]

It'll help, but only if you get some confidence. Girls aren't just going to walk up and start flirting with you because you're ripped. No hot chicks, at least.

[EddyMetal]

Not at all. I started working out to attract a girl. It was a big mistake. Work out if YOU want to, but don't do it to impress women.

[holly916]

i'm into girls so I don't know why I'm here

[AcEMasTeR]

Fuk yeah it will