Here are pictures, as general examples, what are your thoughts on them? (Ranging from okay, to too much, and any more thoughts you might have about what's too revealing, and what's just enough)
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Thoughts? As long as she isn't just shoving her assets in everyone's face it comes off as fun, playful and cute. I still says girls overthink this "slutty" term more then guys do.
If you have the confidence and can pull this off more power to you. Here is the difference between a slut and a fun girl.
A slut wears this and the is desperate for attention on top of it, goes to every guy trying to get reactions and actions.
A fun girl wears this, blushes occasionally, laughs and generally has a fun time being a sailor, cat, baseball player.
It's like flirting, I had a girl on Halloween tell me she was a vampire virgin and my line as a joke was "well we will have to take care of that" as I take her arm and walk off. She goes "no there is nothing you can do it just keep coming back" to which I reply "Well we will have to take care of that a few times". I laugh, she laughs we talk and have fun.
If I wasn't playing with words and kept driving the point that I wanted to "drive the point home" that is the difference between slutty and fun male or female.
Hope that helps.
Seductive answer. Youve changed my opinion.
Hmmmm... wow, yeah, you changed my opinion as well
I agree, sort of what I just said to the guys above! I agree, being a slut is less by how you dress and more by how you act. If you have great assets and wear something more revealing (especially a costume which is nbd on halloween), but you still act your usual self, then there's no problem!
And its true, girls are a lot more bothered by the girl with sexy costumes then the guys. Usually the fat girls (sorry jst being realistic). That's cause a pretty, hot girl with a sexy outfit is unbeatable!
I think it's all in good fun. It's a girls actions and decisions that defines them as a slut or other, not their clothes. I mean sure it's a bit too sexy for some, but I think it's all in good fun and just a way to get attraction and attention from would be suitors or simply a display of sex appeal.
What really matters is their decisions and their behavior the rest of the year, not one night.
Thats exactly what I just said to the guy above! That being a slut is less by how you dress and more by how you act. Completely agree here!!
I know this is asking for guys' opinions, but here's mine anyway.
These costumes are always modelled after p*rn stars, and the type of rubbish they wear, the fake boobs included.
It just is too much, it's like we're grooming young girls into these roles, and I'm not saying they are innocent, I'm sure one girl did it to step up the game, then the year after others stepped up their games, and now every teenage girl is thinking of coming as a SEXY witch, or SEXY nurse, or SEXY cavewoman, or a SEXY piece of poo.
It's all ridiculous to me, I know I would only wear one for my husband or boyfriend because I don't plan on turning every man on, just one, the one that matters, and also I don't plan on leading men, on becoming an object, and my self-confidence does not rely on the comments and approval of horny men to be in tact.
You see more skin at the beach than you do with these costumes. Would I let my teenage daughter out in one? No! But I also know that the practice of wearing something conservative out of the house and changing it up to something your parents wouldn't approve is as old as dirt. If they can't get their hands on a costume like this, they will make something up on their own to look sexy.
I think you just need to do your best as a parent to teach your girls that if you want to weed out guys who hit on you only because they would like to have sex, you should dress less revealing. As a mature woman I know that all the attention these costumes can get you is not the right kind of attention if you are hoping to attract a boyfriend. A lot of young girls haven't learned that yet.
I'm 17 and a junior in high school. I'm not ugly or fat and I've never worn a slutty Halloween costume. My opinion is if you wear something like that then your a slut. Doesn't matter if its a costume or not. It being Halloween isn't much of an excuse. Halloween is supposed to be scary or creative not dirty and repulsive. My Halloween costume last year was Ghost from Modern Warfare 2. I guess I have more self respect than most girls these days.
Oh and if a girl wears that to try to get guys to like her then those are the guys you do not want to like you. They'll like you for all the wrong reasons.
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Personally it bugs me that Halloween has sorta become stripper day for girls. I have a lot more respect and much higher opinion of a girl who goes in a scary or funny costume than one that makes her look like every other maybe-hooker-maybe-not girl on the streets on Halloween night. Coolest costume I've ever seen was a girl who was dressed as Samara/Sadako from "The Ring." Be original already like she did =) Besides most girls I've seen dress somewhat skanky year round anyway, so the "one day to cut loose" thing doesn't fly.
why would you want to wear a slutty costume I mean your a young girl I'm gonna take a shot in the dark on this one your either 14 turning 15 this year or you turned 15 this year I mean really enjoy being a kid it will be over sooner than you think I mean why not try something scary I mean that's what halloween is about right its not to make a porn movie or even to look like a porn star its to be scary well your old enough to make a moderately decent decision but my advise be a kid you got the rest of your life to be a woman and even then don't dress slutty have some self respect but for now trust me just be a kid
I think all three are way too revealing. I hate it that TONS of girls in today's society have no respect for themselves. Then they complain when men don't have any respect for them. Well it's really quite obvious why...
NOTE: I said TONS of girls not all. I know that there are some very respectable women in today's society as well. I'm talking about the slutty or "looser" girls...
It's not really men who are pushing the whole slutty costume thing on women, women do a fine job of pushing it on themselves.
It shows in Halloween costume sales, women want slutty, revealing costumes, so costume makers accomidate them.
Why? Because women know what most men want, so they give them small tastes of it then take it away all to tease them. It doesn't take long for men to get tired of it and so they start doing the same thing to women because men also know what most women want.
However, unlike men, women get all broken down and devestated because of it, thinking all men are assholes because they met a few that have been led on one too many times by women. Then women have the nerve to say all men are worthless perverts.
To answer your question, I like it when girls wear costumes like that, not so much at a Halloween party, but rather in either mine or her bedroom.
Slutty costumes aren't exactly rare anymore so most guys don't care. Of course they'll look but it's not like it's the greatest thing ever anymore. My thought would be wow she's hot. I wouldn't ever date her though. If she's wearing that kinda costume just purely to try to get guys with, I might gets AIDS just standing near her
I respect !
I feel you. (:
I think that anytime girls dress like that for a party including Halloween, - all three costumes, . they're needing attention and like to flaunt their stuff. In one way or another she gets a kick out of showing off her body. Actually, the theme of Halloween is being scary or at least funny, not as sexy as you can. So dressing sexy would be pretty showy and everyone at the party would take notice. That can spoil the fun because whenever girls dress that way for a party unless it's a dress as sexy as you can kind of party, it makes the other girls feel sorta uncomfortable and like their date is going to be keeping his eye on her. So all three costumes are a little too much for a fun party. .
Finally someone who realizes the point of halloween!
The only problem I have is that women don't know how to do sexy with out looking stupid at the same time. The cloths are cartoonish and overblown a collar has to be twice the size of a mans collar almost a comic take on it as if women were just silly clowns. A girl can wear a black unitard or a Lara Croft outfit or something kind of kick ass or cool maybe a 7 of 9 costume from star trek that's definitely sexy and it's creative. The costumes in the pictures are just silly looking not a lot of creativity there either which is also insulting to woman's intellect. You get the message that a woman's only significance is her body that if she's hot that's all it takes she doesn't have to exorcise any creativity or forethought or any thing she can just take her cloths off and she gets a pass. After all it's all about the men and men running things and making all the decisions blah blah ad nausium. Women are people not just manikins
We'll those costumes are definately slutty, and all guys do enjoy looking at them, but personally I would never touch a girl wearing something like that on halloween.
It's just too slutty, and real men don't want that.
We want a little mystery, to be surprised when we finally get to "unwrap" you after being in a relationship and working towards that step. Not just like "Oh that's it? I've seen all this before, and so has everyone else. Wow everyone has seen as much of my girlfriend as I have!" That would just be boring.
in college I would say please go for it because those are some really hot costumes. but you are in high school and you should tone it down a bit, you have to realize that you are still pretty young, the transition to the college years is huge and you will become a woman, and you can experiment with what ever. but if I saw a sixteen year old girl wearing one of those costumes, I think I would be a little worried and hope I never have daughters haha. but in all seriousness, don't be that girl in high school with that costume. if you are confident with how you look, make a statement by being more conservative, and you will save some dignity, because we all need it in college haha. note that I am 20 going on 21 and a junior, trust me on this.
eh that's just good for looking at, I'm not going to go after a girl dressed in that unless I'm looking for sex. Although thoe costumes aren't that bad, I personally wouldn't want my girl to be comfortble dressing like that in public. For me it just shows that she'll be wearing stuff more revealing then I'd want her to wear in public, I feel like only a certain guy should see so much.
I prefer an original home made costume to the store bought ones. The slutty costumes are a dime a dozen and sort of make me feel uncomfortable. It's like they are trying too hard to get noticed but they just sorta blend in. I wouldn't be proud to take a girl I am dating out in one but I'm not saying I wouldn't let her.
Basically, my friends and I agreed that Halloween is the one day that any girl can dress slutty and not be viewed as a slutty person... hence majority does it.
As for what guys think about those costumes?
We love it, and majority of guys would probably rather see a girl dressed up like that rather than a zombie or something scary.
i went to NYC on halloween and I saw a lot of women, and parts of females I've never seen before lol
and to me I just looked at them and moved on and didn't really think about them afterwards;
me and my boys and their gf's were talking and we said how halloween is the only holiday a girl can dress like a prostiuite and not get criticized for it
Hahaha I was in NY too, and my boyfriend said the same thing!! that's why he allowed me to dress up a bit more 'promiscuously' lets say, not that he wasn't bothered by it hehehe. Still I usually do what I feel like doing. Anyways, it's funny because all our friends were saying the same thing. I think it's good, at least everyone has a good time (looking or dressing up hehe)!!
Hehe "Halloween is the one night a year when girls can dress like a total slut and no other girls can say anything about it."- Mean Girls
if the girl wants to wear a slutty costume let her.. but a cute modest costume will always catch my eye more than a slutty one.. it just shows you wanna put your body on display and id rather see an original costume then one that's really slutty and skanky..
Yeah that's probably true for most guys. But what if a girl you knew is a really good girl, the kind of girl that every guy wants not only for her beauty but for her innocence, dressed up in a 'sluty' costume, wouldn't you be intrigued? Maybe just by the idea that under all her innocence, there maybe an inner vixen just waiting to come out?
I would actually be more turned off than anything. if I have an attraction to her already and then see that she dressed slutty I would think about maybe that's what she is on the inside and doesn't know how to express her self. and my image of her innocence would pretty much be gone. she would be under the category of the rest of the girls from then on. now a cute and somewhat sexy one that's not reviling I can see being intrigued and probably really turned on.
Thought 1 = attention whore
Thought 2 = I'm gonna try and nail her tonight
Thought 3 = what's her name ... aww who cares
Woman who dress like that are a lot of fun for a night or two OR they just like to play with guys. If your into one night stands or you like to be a tease then go for it ... if a guy has no chance of nailing you in that outfit at least he can think of you while he's nailing your ugly friend.
I actually know a guy who loves to see women in skanky outfits but hates skanky women. It's very mind boggeling for me but it makes some sort of sense or at least it's not impossible to find a woman like that. I don't think it's really about the clothing, though some men are the jealous type and don't want other men to see to much of their girlfriends, it's more the attitude the woman has. If you can manage the skanky look and not manage to sound and act like you've got cotton falling out your ears it doesn't seem to be a problem.
Completely agree (:
i wouldn't wear a slutty costume unless your looking to get attention that could make you feel uncomfortable...i mean if your looking to get some, then wear it, but its all up to you. You can't complain though when a drunk guy starts flirting with you and wants to get with you.
I personally think it's great and so does every guy in the world. Halloween is the one night you girls can dress like the sexy slut you suppress in order to maintain the status quo.
Then after, you go back to being you. Have fun, dress slutty or dress funny or insulting. It's all in the name of fun.
Not every guy. Just the average guys. :]
Your examples were of adult women not high school girls with the desire to show cleavage and anything else possible.
The girls may leave the house in something conservative and change clothes somewhere into something racy. I once saw a 15 year old with her friend at a grocery store and they were both wearing outfits one showing crack and the other cleavage. Unless you're watching them every minute of the day, they're going to dress the way the want whether you like it or not.
The answer you are probably looking for is in terms on context , It depends on the nature of the party and the people there , if it was a group of freinds it would be acceptable however you would get a few looks if they were around children.
In the case of just adults as long as there is more on than underwear on the person it would be okay slutty is normally acceptable at adult party's
In my opinion , if you can pull it off , as long as you don't go overboard and go past the average sexy costume its alright. Its the one day of the year that you can go out like that and not be called a slut.
One thing that does bother me is overweight girls in skimpy, slutty costumes ... its just not right.
...Really...cmon... when I see this it just like ugh , nasty.
Sorry if I sound like an asshole but its not right...not right at all...
On my last Halloween night out at a big club there were hundreds of girls in slutty costumes, and they of course catch my eye for a while but then they just blended in the masses and the really creative and original costumes are the ones which stood out.
I think 16-18 is adult enough to decide for yourself if you are going to be just another c**k teaser or the really original and unique girl.
That said, I don't mind it, and slutty costumes spice up the night, so if girls are willing to do it, I'm willing to watch them :) .
Depends on where the costume will be worn. Not cool if you are out trick-or-treating in the Mall or your neighborhood. VERY cool if you are in the private company of other adults attuned to the same level of thinking.
Those are nice, I prefer the Dorothy (from Wizard of Oz) costume myself. However, for High School I would say this it is inappropriate.
i wore the 1st one last yr. ;) very cute
the 2nd ones ugly.
the 3rd ones cute. =)
for a high school party I would wear something less revealing.
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I like the 2nd one!
The whole point of holloween now-a-days is for girls to dress as slutty as possible and no one can say anything. So it is kind of acceptable to dress like that, and guys definately get excited around halloween for that very reason.
1. I'm not a guy but I'll give my input anyways
2. it's degrading
3. they are trying too hard
4. if I can get guys to look at me in my modest costume, there is no need to go that far to get attention
5. they ran out of fabric lol
i tend to just not care. there were girls in my high school who posted pics of lingerie parties they had. a "slutty" halloween costume is just a girls chance to dress up as slutty as they want without being judged for it
Most guys I know would be all over that stuff, but only for a quick lay. I wear respectably revealing costumes that are awesome and creative, and a lot of guys I know like them better, because they're not the skanky ones that EVERY girl buys. Where I live, you can tell who the really slutty girls in town are, because they use Halloween as an excuse to dress as bad as possible.
unless its a super conservative religious nut we're talking about most guys know girls just want to have fun. halloween is one of the few times of the year where girls can dress like sluts and not worry about people's perception of them being bad. just because you dress a little skanky on halloween doesn't make you a skank. the point of a costume is to be something you wouldn't normally wear so
those costumes aren't even very revealing, I have seen wwwaaaayyyyyyy way skankier.
I like seeing it because it is hot but I wouldn't want my girlfriend in that.
omg I loooove the sailer costume.that would be super fun to wear at a halloween party.if other girls get to flaunt their stuff, then why can't you flaunt yours?your not gonna be young forever, why not take advantage of it while you can.
I wore something this year more sexy than I would ever wear anytime. I didn't really feel that good about myself and wanted to cover up and didn't get any positive attention from men...just asked for sex :(
i look at it like this...for Halloween it is qute exeptable for costumes like those to be worn...i THINK nothing of it...every girl is TRYING to out do the other. So in my opinion, they simply look sexy in them and nothing more ;-) thou I did see ALOT of crazy costumes throught out the years...but those that you have displayed aren't bad at all...
honestly I'm 16 and I saw worst costumes worn by even 14 yearolds. I mean these pictures were kinda crazy. they will definitely show everything unlike these, that still cover the stomach.
They should rename halloween.There's nothing scary about it. Unles there was an obese chick going to a party in underwear. Then that's scary. It should be named slutoween
see if you have such nice boobs that you can expose with such type of dresses then its awesome to your body!
I agree, being a slut is less by how you dress and more by how you act. If you have great assets and wear something more revealing (especially a halloween costume which is no big deal at halloween), but you still act your usual normal self, then there's no problem. Your just getting the attention you deserve. Its unfair, but the hotter the girl and the better the personality, the more looks for sure!!
Jessica, I totalllly agree with you. if you have a nice body, and a good personality, and then want to flaunt it off a little more on one day, without changing and acting ditzy and slutty when in the costume, then its appropriate.
Well I think those kind of costumes are unimaginative. I prefer "scary" costumes. When girls wear revealing costumes, I think they just want attention and avoid them all together.
The first two were not too bad, but still a little kind of skanky, the last one though just screams whore. I don't know about other guys, but I want girls with a bit of self respect, not just trying to be a ho
Guys love seeing these types of outfits on Halloween, unless the girl is ugly or very fat.
If you want attention during these parties, wear those kind of outfits.
if they are over 16, that's ok as long as they don't parade around as sluts. Costumes like this at a party are fine since it's the high school norm now.
you know I wore the first costume there. and loads of guys went boing if you catch my drift. and others thought it was bad. so it all depends on your morals and what you think of the girls looks.
Those costumes should only be used a foreplay, don't wear any of them to a party.
I don't know when Halloween turned into Stripper Day, but it happened. lol, I don't mind it, of course, but it's just ... odd is all.
I say save it until you can go out to drink don't see a reason to be a whore only for a day or save it for the bed room. I love females bodies but anuff is anuff
no the age makes no difference, 16-18 year old girls would still get f***ed I guess, and those costumes you posted are in no way slutty, they are tame and boring.
This is very sexy and I would find this a big turn on.
A woman could def get my attention like this (and prob get what she wants too)
I think it is hot.. but I like a more mature crowd.
Good Luck,
James
IF they have great legs to go with these outfits, I LIKE. Of course, they should then expect lost of admiring looks, and more.
Honestly, if he's a good guy he'll definitely think it's hot, but they might not think to highly of you, but if it's just some guy that wants to get in your pants then they'll love it.
It's prob not a great idea to have your links be right to a place to buy these items... just seems like plugging to me. As for the question itself... Whatever
I like the costumes, especially the girl, in the first and third links. I hope they're not wearing panties under those costumes. In the second link I don't like the model too much. The costume looks more like pajamas to me.
thts wht halloween is for..all my friends dresse up like sluts so its nbd
The costumes are pretty hot. It doesn't hurt if you wear them just once or twice a year.
im liking these.
although I'm probly more interested in the chix than the costumes
although... well, imagine obesity.
Awesomely hot and they are going to collect a lot of candy!
They're candy: eye candy.
It's hot, we all love it. But if you dress like that on any other day, we'll think you're a total slut and steer clear. (At least those of us with some self respect.)
wauu! It makes me feel like let's gang bang her ! Makes me think ''ök guys lets all do her at the same time"
hey you have fun with the sluts that are your age and your marry the younger good girl
Its just the way it is.
it depends on the type of girl you are and the type of girl you want everyone to think you are then how you look in the outfit
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