Curvy or petite?

Well I am obviously a rather petite girl I weight 101 pounds, no before you say anything

I have never had a eating disorder, I just have very small bone structure, and a fast digestive system! And my hubby actually wants me to gain weight, so I am hoping with my new pregnancy I can keep some of my baby weight afterwards! =]

So I would say guys like girls with a couple extra pounds, I would say though if she is in the obese category is a big ol' no no though overweight isn't all that bad, it depends on how the girl carries herself, and how her weight is proportioned throughout her body, like if she just has a mega large stomach then turn the heat down not appealing, though if she is twenty pounds, even forty pounds overweight, and she is equaled out some weight is in her arms,face,tummy,thighs, then fine as long as she can pull it off, and work it

not to mention some of those extra pounds must be muscle, no just pure greasy fat.

if she eats properly does some physical exercise, and doesn't go get big macs, with large frostys then she can be as equally pretty as a smaller framed lady!

Though I say the line is drawn when a chick has a couple chin xD gross

must I add every girl should be happy with herself, don't ever wish to be thinner if your overweight just be healthy it doesn't matter as long as you love, and accept yourself

because the smallest girl can be insecure about her weight as in being to thin you know how much I would love to look like the victoria secret models with the thick waist, and the full boobies, nice apple bottom behinds, I don't though I look more like the high fashioned runway models who can even be scary thin, I want that extra jiggle in my hips when I walk, not having it I have to get use to myself, I CANT start eating fatty foods to get that jiggle because It will just be internally unhealthy my body is just the way it is, I can't make my self unhealthy trying to appeal the way I want to in cloths, I mean you know how embarrassing it is, I can fit into toddler clothing!

I would love to through on a large shirt, even a extra large having it cling to my body! =] because if your overweight you can become healthy if your underweight you can't get healthy without taring your self up with harmful eating

so love yourself, be happy because even if you are lacking confidence standing next to your aspiration she could be staring at you, not because she thinks she is better, but because she wishes she had your curves are your baby fat cheeks =]

acception is the key step in embracing who you are, and want to be!

though if you want to loose weight don't get sucked into the weighing yourself, and under eating not to mention over exercising can hurt you, also ruin who you are inside

never wish to look like a girl in a magazine, she is just a photoshop computer made pretty fake, think realistically about your body!

guys will love a girl if she loves herself, and has confidence and every man has there own taste.