Do girls stalk the guy they like online?

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This younger girl I like, Kirsten, I'm pretty sure stalks me online, but denies that she likes me, even tho whenever I see her she blushes, and twirls her hair like crazy, she talks about me all the time with her friends. Anywho, I was just wondering if girls like find out the guy's sn, and all about him. This girl like puts up away messages like crazy when I sign on AIM. It's pretty obvious she's sending a subliminal message to me each time with a love song. Do (immature and shy) girls rely on lyrics they put in their infos and aways to let a guy know they really like them? (*I'll put up some lyrics by a band I like, and she'll find a different song by the same band and find one of their love songs and pick out convenient lyrics) *We've talked plenty online. Girls do you do these kinds of crazy things when you're a teenager?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Okay, that is pretty embarassing:

Some time ago I was really into this guy and would also write weird away messages to get his attention lol I would blush when I saw him and talk about him all the time with my friends.

YES! Shy girls do stupid things to get in order to get their crush's attention.They do not even realize that the things they are doing may seem creepy to other people. At that point I do not realize that as well altough I pretty sure my friends thought I am going mad.

Don't think she is creepy though. It is her way of telling you that she likes you and I am pretty sure that if the two of you start dating etc she won't do this anymore.

So, if you like her as well. Give her signs that you like her. This will give her confidence and she will open up herself more and don't feel the need to stalk you anymore.

Shy girls are not creepy persons that stalk you 24/7. They just don't know another way to express their feelings since every time their crush is around they act like complete fools (blushing, getting tongue tied etc) , so they do stupid things and believe me that one day when they realize how immature their behaviour was, they feel really really stupid for doing this.

Good thing my crush found that cute, too. hahaha Best of luck with her!

Cool-Relax · Accepted Answer

I don't think I've ever gone as far as finding song lyrics from a band the guy likes, but everything else you said--yes, I've done it lol

I'm really shy, so I have a hard time coming right out and saying what I feel. I don't really expect guys to see the things I write and say, "Hey, she likes me," or anything like that, but I'm definitely trying to send them some kind of message. Although, I haven't done that recently.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Awww I just read your update and started laughing.  I'm glad that there is at least one guy out there that finds that cute!  I am a junior in college now and still do stuff like that on Facebook, not really sure why either since I highly doubt my crush goes on my profile lol.  I'm glad I'm not the only girl that does that!

skymuscle83 · Accepted Answer

dude my ex girlfriend broke up with me and she checks out my MySpace all the time.  even 6 months after she broke up with me and she is with some other dude!  I'm 26 and she is 23 but hell girls do weird stuff all the time.  for a while she'd write mean stuff about me to get a rise out of me thinking I'd get mad at her or whatever so she could say she was right in her decision...lol.  I never ever give her a response so she's moved on to trying to make me jealous...lol.  Still not working!  so yes they do it a lot and are It's weird but all they have to do is talk to us but nooo they won't do that.  Just stalk us instead.  If you have a new boyfriend and are sorry you broke up with your ex, no shame in admitting you made a mistake!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would say yes, some, I personally think it's very cute, but very rare. To me it seems like she's just too shy to come right out and say it so she's droping "subtle" hints that she likes you. If you like her too you might want to try playing her game and doing the same sort of thing with lyrics and such and see how she reacts, and or try asking her out or something.

lvrgirl2011 · Answer

I don't. I think it's kinda creepy. If you like a guy and he knows you like him why would you hide it still? Like just dedicate the whole damn song to him don't just pick out convenient lyrics. I think girls like that are immature. I wouldn't be attracted to a guy if he stalked me over the internet let alone stalked me elsewhere.

Anonymous · Answer

lol I'm not a teen and I do that all the time. I'll either put some lyrics on my s/n or I'll put something up on myspace, maybe a song or a bulletin. I know it's immature but I can't help it. Heck, for all I know he's not even looking at my myspace but just incase. It's silly I know but.lol I still do it.

Anonymous · Answer

No i never do that because i know online stuff are not real

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