All Questions

i checked into substance abuse program because i nearly beat my ex girlfriend to death, will it help?

i just turned 23 years old. i never knew i had a serious problem until the other day. well i left my ex of 6 years for this girl who had money. she is currently 19 years old and is in the military. when i first met her,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Why have I had the sudden urge to workout and spend time at the gym recently?

I feel as though the last few months of my life have been pivotal in some ways. I have found the right major in school, am really enjoying class for the first time in my life, and couldn't be more excited for the future....

Anonymous

(30-35)

1,2,3 or 4 what do you guys prefer?

What kind of body do you mostly like? Just for fun A. designyoutrust.com/.../178.jpg B. 25.media.tumblr.com/...m8vswzblUZ1qhei8lo1_500.jpg C. www.newsshopper.co.uk/resources/images/1226473.jpg D....

Anonymous

(30-35)

So, I accidentally went on a date. But I'm taken? What now?

So I met a girl at the local guitar shop. Turns out we both have the same photo class and i got her number, and we went to "hangout". What was supposed to be a day taking pictures for my photography class turned into...

BouncingPig

Xper 5 Age: 30

Is there such thing as nonverbal flirting?

Is that possible or is flirting only done with words? Im just wondering about a certain situation im in with someone at work. We're both shy and awkward but we do talk to eachother. When we first met, he would barely...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys have you ever used the womens restroom and women have you ever used the mens restroom?

I've used the womens restroom once, I had to go real bad and the mens restroom was occupied.

llorando

Master Age: 37

I have a crush on my lecturer, help?

I'm on a postgraduate course and have a huge crush on one of the lecturers, he's about 40 and I'm 26. I know lecturers probably can't date their students but would this still be the case for mature students on a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy looking me up and down/checking me out or just noticing my sweater?

This guy was talking to me and it was like he couldn't keep his eyes off mine, kept leaning toward me, talking to me (winked at one point), etc. Also, he legit looked me up and down at one point.. I *think*. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Friendzone on the run or just mixed signals? Help?

There this guy which is very good friend of mine and we have a lot in common. And 6-7 months ago when I started to notice all these changes: the way he looks at me, and sometimes like touches my hand not on purpose but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Shopping & Gifts

Why did he wish me happy birthday at midnight?

Yesterday was my birthday and the guy I've been seeing knew it was coming up because we talked about it last week--although I didn't tell him the exact day it was. I know he was on Facebook because he posted a video on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

What trend or fad are you most embarrassed about being a part of?

knowmeyourself

Master Age: 39

Boyfriend cancels plans together, am I overreacting by getting angry?

The guy I'm seeing isn't officially my boyfriend, but he doesn't want us seeing other people. We've only been dating for a little over a month now. We talk every day and I never have to wait or sit by the phone and...

Susumi8

Xper 5 Age: 37

What would you rather have someone be at you, angry or disappointed?

Would you rather have a person close to you like a, family member, boyfriend, girlfriend, or a friend be mad at you for something you did? Or have them be disappointed at you? If not one of these than what is thing at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Poll did this blonde milf like me when I was in the computer lab?

So I was sitting at a computer lab and diagonally sitting across me was this milf blonde and she was would look at me and smile and she would look away and she would look at me again and smile again and she did that three...

blondfrog

Master Age: 34

My boyfriend wants an open relationship. WTF?

I had a bit of a meltdown when he proposed this. We've only been together for two months, but things were going so well. Now he wants to date other girls... and me? I told him I didn't like the idea and he dropped it....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I show him this poem that I wrote for him? Or would it be weird?

Here's the poem below, but my friend moved away and no he's moving back to where I live, and i'm going to see him again. we kinda fell out of touch, but we talk on the pone here and there. So I wrote a poem about him,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If he purposely bumped into me, does that mean he likes me?

So, today I was in the hallway with my best friend and I was getting stuff out of my locker. She turned around to go down the hallway but turned around to say something to me when the guy I really really REALLY like was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

WHY friends have never tried to set me up?

This may sound odd, and I don't want to say that I feel entitled to my friends setting me up, but I'm 24 years old and have never dated or had a boyfriend. I have a few friends (though I lost some when I had depression)...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Who has also the "whale tail" problem?

I'm a 20 year old, 5'6", 126 lb female. Measurements 34-26-35 (bust-waist-hip). No matter what kind of pants I wear, the second I sit down, my thong shows. I've tried every size I can possibly squeeze into. If I get them...

Ninaaaa

Xper 3 Age: 33

Should I be annoyed that my boyfriend still has a teddy bear from his ex?

I don't know why he still has it. He said he was over his ex girlfriends. I feel like him having the teddy is still him holding into her.

Paulina528

Explorer Age: 28

My girlfriend chooses her friends over me? Should it bother me like it is bothering me right now?

Alright, so I've been talking to this girl, we've been talking for 3 months now. Everytime I want to spend time with her I have to ask her if I can spend time with her. Sometimes she does but most of the times she chooses...

Soltice

Xper 4 Age: 30

My husband thinks I look like a whore?

He said he wants me to dress more modest. I'm offended by that. Obviously. I'm not so sure what to be more offended about him thinking I dress slutty or him suggesting I change? We just got married 2 months ago and he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can yoga shorts or cut-off leggings be worn as swim bottoms?

There was a great deal for swimsuits going on at Target recently, 50% off all their junior swimwear. I got a tankini and now I need bottoms to go with it. I have a short torso (although it's starting to lengthen a bit)...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

How do you respond when a guy says sorry I passed out last night?

We were talking last night and I asked what are you up to and he replies the next morning, sorry I passed out last night. I want to reply to him but I don't know what I should say.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is texting "I miss you" creepy?

His birthday is coming up and I was going to text him this and tell me if it sounds creepy or not. "Happy Birthday! Miss you <3 Hope you have a carefree and jovial day!" Lol does that sound creepy? He has been very...

BrunetteBabe1005

Explorer Age: 32

Dating

can a damaged/broken man learn to love again?

I've been seeing/dating this guy for about a year. He won't commit, and he told me he's not ready, because he is still broken from his ex of 5 years. They have a son together; and she has used their child to manipulate...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Women with tattoos... yay or nay?

Lets say its tastefully done. Not trashy or ugly. Would you prefer a girl with no tattoos? Or a girl with well done tattoos?

mccollins

Xper 7 Age: 33

He touched my arm while saying goodbye?

I have a crush on my guy friend and we get along really well. So this afternoon, we were at the table during our last class and he was sitting in front of me. I kept thinking he was looking at me so when I was like,...

meowcatwoman

Xper 7 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

Do shy guys lie about liking someone?

When a shy guy says he's not interested in you anymore but is constantly looking at you peeking around the corner walking out of there work just to stare at you and from across the room and up close like 2 ft away does...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend takes up all my free time?

So I've got a girlfriend but as we live about an hour away from each other then we usually just meet up on the weekends. During the week however we just do Skype video calls but on many evenings she keeps them going so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

If a guy asked if you wanted to go camping as a first date would you be interested?

A friend of mine wanted to give me advice on asking a girl I like out. This was one of those thoughts which I thought was a terrible idea. Assuming you've talked the guy 2-3 times and then he asked you to go camping....

Mr_Cellophane

Xper 4 Age: 34

Male friend thinks every guy likes me?

Hi I have a good male friend. Lately I noticed that he thinks that every second guy I speak to or looks my way wants me. Today I told him about something very innocent my boss said to me about not having to inform him...

jadelola

Xper 5 Age: 50