All Questions

My ex wished me happy birthday, should I do the same?

So me and my ex had a bad break up. She started talking to me again after a few months, I assumed it was to get her ticket back. She came over got it, asked if I wanted to grab lunch. We did had a good time she left....

Anonymous

(36-45)

What would my girlfriend think about me wearing thong underwear?

I feel really awkward asking this but..i'm attracted to wearing thongs. Don't care what gender they are for really but its kinda my dark secret. I've never told anyone, don't plan on it either. Just want to know what a...

dangerousdav3

Xper 4 Age: 35

Guys, is he "saving me for later"?

So there is this guy in my year group, he is good looking and very nice, though he is a womanizer/ man slut. I have been somewhat close to him, he has always been very nice to me. For a while I have noticed that he has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

If he buys you lunch does he like you more than a friend?

This is the second time my coworker had bought lunch for me. He has offered to buy for me more than this but I only started letting him buy for me recently because I realized always rejecting his offers would make things...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do short shorts look trashy on athletic girls?

I mean girls with athletic legs... examples of 'short' shorts would be: link link link By athletic legs, I mean like this: link link link

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

What does a woman mean by 'not feeling a spark'?

Hi folks - The last three girls that I briefly dated (3 to 5 dates with each) all used almost exactly the same words ('don't feel enough spark' or variation thereof) when letting me know that they don't want to continue...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy asked me to lunch. friend zone?

This guy from work who I recently met asked me to lunch, at first I wasn't really thinking but he offered to drive me home, and pay for my lunch but I said it was alright to not go through the trouble cause he was on his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend makes me feel bad about myself

My boyfriend is 19 and I'm 22. He has everything about him together except that he can be immature at times and say stupid things. He will make comments about other girls' boobs and when we first met he made comments...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Please help! My boyfriend is a REALLY bad kisser, what do I do?

We have been going out for eight months, and I have dealt with it for way too long! He is the perfect guy but not when it comes to kissing. Every time I pull away, I cannot even open my mouth, it is so overpovering, it is...

Sarahss82

Xper 4 Age: 32

He flirts but I´ve heard he has a girlfriend?

I´ve known this guy for a month and a half and he has always given me the impression that he kind of liked me. However, even though he always seems very eager to talk to me, he hasn´t responded to my latest invitation to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, what is your favorite type of shoe on guys?

Here is a picture to give you an example of what I mean by each style. Boot: link Athletic: link Casual gym shoe: link Dress shoe: link

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you prefer a girl to be clingy or independent

I have just two question's to ask 1.I known this guy who says he prefers his woman to be clingy does this mean he wants a girl who is forever calling texting and emailing. I can't live without you kind of girl or does...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, what does it mean when you wear a ring?

Either on your ring/middle finger. Does it mean you're taken? Or you just want to let guys know to stop hitting on you?

Anonymous

(30-35)

In what ways can shyness be sexy?

I was having a discussion with my friends today and we started talking about dating and relationships and what things we find attractive in the opposite gender. One of the girls mentioned that "a little shyness is sexy"....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are so many attractive women single?

If you're an attractive woman on here, you're probably gonna get offended by my question; But the truth hurts. Some attractive women are single because they always have a b***h shield up, have too many options, standards...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Great ways to start a text convo with a shy girl?

Whats a great way to start a text conversation with a shy girl to keep the text going?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I miss my summer fling?

i met this guy on a trip(11days) I took recently...we clicked and basically had a relationship on fastforwad...i know the time we shared together was short and nothing serious,but being with him felt great,as I have never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If I stop paying attention to him, will he stop acting so distant?

My boyfriend of 8 months has been acting really distant lately.. he's not as intimate, hardly flirts, we never hang out as much as we used to. I'm wondering if I stop trying & paying attention to him & trying to fix us,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Is it normal to cuddle with a friend of the opposite sex?

For example, if a girl is best friends with a guy and they have no romantic feelings for each other, would it be weird or OK for them to cuddle with each other while, say, watching a movie? It doesn't have to be all out...

allison13

Xper 6 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

Does anyone else like the sound of rustling papers?

I love it. I love going through mail, looking through papers to find something. I love on shows when they have to look for a particular paper or document and they are tearing through papers and the sound it makes. Does...

madmisskelly

Guru Age: 36

Girls, how turned on or how differently do you think about a guy when you see him at the pool shirtless?

If the guy has a muscular body and a low bodyfat level, do you get turned on like how a guy does when he sees a hot girl in a bikini at the pool? Can you go from just thinking a guy is nice or alright to thinking he is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shy girl sending mixed signals. I don't know what to do.

Okay so here's the deal. I have liked her for a very long time. It seems that she's aware. She's really shy. We don't talk much, but when we do she brightens up and talks a lot esp about our common interests. But this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

"Sorry I lost my phone." That's a lie, right?

Right? It seems so obvious. This guy friend of mine always responds, but then I text him something he probably doesn't want to hear and suddenly it's three days later and "oops I lost my phone"

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if a guy turn red around you and has a girlfriend?

At work, when I'm not around he is fine. But as soon as I come into partial view of him he turns red and can't hardly talk. But the punch is he has a girlfriend. Does he like me or embarrassed by what he thinks

Cutie2687

Xper 4 Age: 39

Romantic things to do in a pool?

Today I was in a pool with my girlfriend and we kissed and all and I held her towards me and it all felt really good... Now, tomorrow were going to another pool and most probably were going alone. What are some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

I think my almost step brother likes me?

I met my stepbrother around October and we became really good friend. We'd joke around and taser each other, and have sleepovers every other weekend. Like a week ago, he started accusin me of having a boyfriend, which I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a 33 year old guy be interested in a 16 year old girl?

I'm a 16 year old girl and I live in Singapore. This happened to me just yesterday : I was in a store and a staff member approached me by pointing out that my backpack was open. It was indeed wide open so I thanked him,...

Licca

Xper 4 Age: 29

Dating

Is it possible that you can overflirt?

This girl and I have been on a few dates and we REALLY like each other. She initiate texts most of the time but I notice that I feel like I may be flirting a little too much. Is it possible to overflirt? She never said...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend wants me to move to another state to be with him

my boyfriend wants me to leave the only home I've ever known to move to a state where I have no family or friends him and his family will be all I have. I want a life with him but I want him to understand that I feel like...

Shayberry09

Xper 5 Age: 36

Dating

Parent chaperone on first date

I'm 16 and I've never been on a date before and this guy asked me to the movies. I asked my mom and she said if she's not going then I'm not going. How can I convince her to not come with us or at least see another movie?...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When a guy compliments a girl too much, could it be genuine?

He doesn't know her well. It has only been a week or so. Every time they chat, he compliments her words her thoughts and the phrases she says. It "seems" too much as if it's played out. Could this ever be considered...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are girls attracted to risk takers?

Obviously I'm not talking about suicidal stuff, but do women like men who take risks?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why do the good guys get heartbroken?

We moved fast. we met through a mutual friend and even kissed the first time we met in person. At first it was cool we were inseparable everyone could tell we were inlove and then after I was a little mean to her when she...

RicktheRuler

Xper 4 Age: 33

Relationships

My Girlfriend has a lot of family drama. Please advise

Hi friends, To start with, I really love my girlfriend and she loves me so much as well... and I plan to marry her in future and make our own life together. But the problem is that although I have no issues, the girl has...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you like girls who play musical instruments? If yes, what kind? If no, why?

Hey guys. Do you like girls who play musical instruments or not? Thanks for answering! ^_~

hanhahyo

Xper 4 Age: 29

Health & Fitness

How many fillings do you have?

i have them in just about every tooth. I went for one today and as I was getting one filled my dentist said I had yet another cavity right next to this one! my teeth are so terrible. I brush floss twice a day but it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you approach a girl who sits alone at lunch?

Are female loners too hard to approach? Would you approach a social outcast?

feelsbadmang

Xper 3 Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

Best way to break in ballet flats.

Here is the deal, I have a pair of Payless lower east side flats. They seemed to get good reviews on Payless.com so I got em. I personally love em and wear em as often as I can. Now being new to this, I have a two part...

miami47

Xper 5 Age: 45

Best caption on adult website

Only Girls please! I would like to join an adult dating website – Ashley Madison. Which one of the following captions/slogans would you say is the most creative? 1. Only real friends show me their boobs. 2. I don’t...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he look so tense?

I have a huge crush on this guy. He's a very confident guy in his late 30s. You can find him smiling and joking around with everyone. He caught me looking at him a few times. Until then he was fine with that. As my crush...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Supercars DO NOT impress girls, true or false?

I want girls' answer ONLY, please. as I become wiser and wiser with girls, I am quite adamant that supercars and nice cars have almost absolutely no influence on how attracted a girl is to you. If she likes you, you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

My girlfriend won't let me pay!

I love her a lot but I get annoyed she won't let me pay. She even got a job and now she has to balanceher job, volunteer work, yoga classes, cheer,school and her social life. She did this just so she can pay for me even...

Anonymous

(30-35)