Should I get my first kiss over with?

[420blazeit]

I'm 16 and I've never kissed a guy before. Will guys find me immature or unattractive because I'm "innocent"? Half of me says just to get my first kiss over with, but the other half says wait for a special guy! Please help!! What should I do?

[KaySee]

Ah i had my first kiss at 14 i believe... Im going to be lame and old and tell you a story. I had my first kiss in the stairwell at school with a boy in my class. He asked me out to lunch and at the end asked if he could kiss me. I said no but realized how badly i wanted to get it over with. So i stuck out my lips and shut my eyes and said surprise me. I wasn't surprised. It was boring and uneventful. Then about a couple months later, still 14, i had sex with a guy at a party to get it over with. I didn't want my virginity for the same reasons.
Now 2 things. 1) im not saying to take your time because i have all these regrets because i dont. I dont regret either one and am happy to report im still friends with the guy who took my virginity. 2) im not saying to rush either. I promise there is nothing special about kissing someone to get it over with and a kiss should be special. you're going to kiss a lot of people, some good some bad, but nevertheless a lot.

But there is a feeling. You get in your stomach and your crotch a little (hehe) when you kiss someone you like. So i mean try not to make it a big deal. But dont think of it as something to get over with! Kissing is fun and you have your entire life to have fun and get good!

[bestadviceguy]

It's really what you make of it. I was over 20 when it happened, and was so happy when it happened. I don't think she had any idea. I would not 'give it away' to anyone. You may start caring less about other 'big' decisions too. You are in the drivers seat.

[Lewis47]

I would wait and have my first kiss
be with someone I really liked. It
will not be too long before that
happens either. :)

[DanteSparda]

Well I got my first one at 21.
And if you want to do it then do it cuz your mouth doesn't have hymen , So it's not like you're going to lose your viginity :P :P

[Sheecid]

Im in the exact same boat. The only difference is that im about 5 months from being 18. Im pretty sure we have more respect because of our "innocence"

[KaySee]

Totally. There is nothing unique or mysterious about someone whos all "been there done that".

[Sheecid]

I agree with @KaySee i mean seriously we have a name for the people who've "been there, did that"

[420blazeit]

Thanks! Good to know I'm not alone!

[dE_logics]

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