All Questions

If a girl you like tells you about a bad date, is that a sign?

This girl I've been messaging told me about a really bad date (the guy was only looking to get laid) she went on before we started messaging. Is, that any kind of sign, or am I reading too much into it?

Foucault

Xper 5 Age: 38

I thought he was interested in me, but I'm thinking now he isn't?

Help me out people :-( so there was a guy in the gym that I like.. Finally started speaking to him, it was mainly hi and bye in the gym but I added him on Facebook and he accepted but I didn't get a message from him.. So...

Chanel123

Xper 3 Age: 36

When a guy says he will message you tomorrow and doesn't

So me and this guy had a thing a few weeks ago. and I decided to contact him when I was back in his area (I go to uni somewhere else). We chatted and basically met up that night. we were both pretty ddrunk and anyway he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get drunk without getting sleepy?

Is there an easy solution to this, like drinking an energy drink or something? Just feel like I should know more, being a fraternity rushee this fall lol

guitar903

Xper 3 Age: 31

Relationships

She keeps leading me on and then dropping it?

So anyways I have been getting friendly with a girl I know for the past couple of months. We haven't gone on any official dates yet, but have privately hung out with each other A LOT. Problem is, she keeps acting like she...

front2back

Master Age: 30

She ignored me in public, but now is mad at me for ignoring her

I finally got frustrated with a girl who basically doesn't want to date me, though we tried a few years ago. She's really shy and she had this thing where when there was a bunch of people around she'd ignore me. Pretend...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex boyfriend told me to drop dead I still have feelings for him. he was the first guy I ever trusted

my ex boyfriend out of the blue called me annd told me to drop dead I said why are you calling me he goes you I am dating your best friend then he goes to tell I never liked you I thought you were fat and ugly and I want...

ekathleen77

Xper 5 Age: 29

Guys, are genuinely sweet girls hard to come by these days?

I just ask because, all my guy friends always comment on my sweet disposition and they almost seemed shocked that I'm so sweet and actually care. So, I was just wondering if sweet girls are hard to come by in this...

loveisbeautiful

Editor Age: 39

Guys: do you ever accidentally, on purpose, touch a girl's hand when you're passing something to her?

Girls: How do you react when guys do that? Like, a guy is passing you a pen, and he touches your hand.

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean to have an innocent/sweet face?

Yesterday one of my friends said I'm likely to attract stalkers because I have an innocent face haha. And today I was at an event with another friend and I met a nice girl there who my friend knew. And as soon as the girl...

SmileGirl95

Xper 7 Age: 30

Break Up & Divorce

Why am I sad over my ex boyfriend graduating?

I am sad because my ex boyfriend is graduating college? advice? Please do not judge me or be mean. I am not the only one who cares and possibly love their ex.I graduated from college two years ago. We are not together...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Would an outgoing guy secretly like a shy girl?

this guy always stares will either look away quickly, look down, or hold eye contact for 5+ seconds/if I look away and look back 3+ times he'll still be looking. When he's with his friends near me he'll get super loud and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would a guy ignore a girl's messages after previously showing interest in her?

I saw him at the talk and he's the head of the society. He half smiled at me when I went in, as I went in late. Then when I was going to leave, he was standing by the door and he asked me how I am, and all the while he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is it normal that my bf loves FIFA more than he loves me?

It bothers me a little bit. I understand why working out is more important than me, but the FIFA part hurts a tad. Is this normal?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Told him I wasn't ready to date and he kissed me spontaneously during our first hangout!

Before we went out for the first time, I told him that I wasn't quite ready to "date" yet as I had recently gotten out of a relationship. He sent me the sweetest message saying he understood and wasn't looking to rush...

theartist1987

Xper 5 Age: 38

Is imitating posture/gestures a sign of attraction?

Hi...so my question is pretty straightforward. If a guy mimics your posture, your gestures, and even your way of speaking, does that mean he likes you? There's a guy I recently became friends with and he seems to hover...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

How does 110lbs look on a 5'7 girl?

These are mine stats, so you could think just look in the mirror! But I've lost around 30lbs and I've a hard time estimating the size of my current body. Rationally I know I can't look 'big', but in my head I still have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Scruffy or clean-shaven?

I haven't shaved all week and now I am a little scruffy. I get about half of my friends saying they like it and the other half don't like it. What do you prefer? Scruff or no scruff?

shirkdeio

Xper 6 Age: 34

Fashion & Beauty

Seeing girlfriend without makeup in the morning?

Hello, I've always been so curious what guys think the first time they see her without makeup or just in general. I love makeup and usually make an effort.. anyway, I want your honest opinion guys... do I look okay...

xjesspandax

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why do girls hate guys who think they can get any girl

i am one of these guys, and I'm wondering why girls I've never even met don't like me. what's wrong with thinking you can get any girl?

rabbit316

Xper 6 Age: 34

Is being "cute" or "acting cute" attractive in a guy?

I get this every so often. "You are so cute!" or "You are adorable" and I'm not totally sure how to take this. This normally happens after I say something, or I act a certain way, so it's not directly targeted at my...

Dragonblood21

Yoda Age: 36

Society & Politics

Why is my EX curious about me?

So me and my ex have been broken up for 5 months now. She ignores me. Even though she knows I still love her. More than a month ago she mysteriously? Sent me the first gift I ever gave her back, with no message included....

Justletgo

Xper 5 Age: 38

Society & Politics

How do you know your sexual orientation?

I know to some people, the question sounds really dumb, like I'm asking how do I know my eye color or something pretty obvious, but I'm confused and I need help. I'm 17, and feel like my social life is pretty messed up....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex-girlfriend told me she's seeing someone else, but I found out she isn't. Really confused.

Ok, I am not going to explain my whole situation with my ex-girlfriend because it's all explained in another question I posted about a month ago. You can click on my profile name and the whole situation is explained in...

mileswmr1989

Xper 5 Age: 37

Family & Friends

My best guy friend doesn't talk to me anymore?

In eighth grade I became really good fiends with this guy. He was honestly my best friend and we had so much fun hanging out. Towards the end of the year, he told everyone he liked me except for me. Whenever anyone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend broke up with me because I cut my hair?

I've been with my boyfriend for about a year. I have long hair and my boyfriend really loves to run his fingers through it. I went to the hair salon for a trim today and my usual stylist was out sick. This new girl cut...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean if a guy hugs you and rubs his cheek on yours?

What does it mean if a guy hugs you and rubs his cheek on yours, or rests his chin on your head. This guy I like does that when he hugs me.

courtney4

Xper 5 Age: 31

My butt is 37 inches and my waist is 31.5 inches, is that good or bad?

just wondering, been doing a lot of squats lately and been wondering if its having a good outcome

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Does my ex girlfriend miss me?

My ex broke up with me last November. We were together and extremely happy with each other for three year. I had to move for school and Army reasons. She was going to get a job and join me. We tried working things out...

irishfan86

Xper 5 Age: 40

Family & Friends

Dreaming about getting with your boyfriends friend.

So last night I had a dream that one of my boyfriends friends ask me out and I got with him meanwhile I was still with my boyfriend. In my dream my boyfriend didn't know I was with his friend but his friend knew I had a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when a guy walks you home?

To get to the point, a guy walked me home the other day. I had met him the day before (Though I'd seen him around school) we ended up talking at tutoring. He lives the opposite way I live. We were talking then he ended up...

tacotime

Xper 5 Age: 30

I'm A LOT taller than my prom date #tallgirlproblems

So my prom date is at least 4 inches shorter than me (#tallgirlproblems) lol and I have no problem going with him. I think we're gonna look awesome when we step on the red carpet of prom, because lots of models and movie...

ComicStix

Xper 5 Age: 36

Guys be honest, does my crush thinks I'm a stupid clown? And a pathetic person?

So I've known this guy for 6 months and I really like him, we are always teasing and insulting each other but I know he cares for me. The thing is he is always laughing of everything I say, I mean I know I'm kind of funny...

Anonymous

(30-35)