All Questions

Girls how would you feel if your boyfriend cried in front of you?

My girlfriend finally persuaded me to tell her about my childhood/ family. I told the whole history of cheating, divorce etc and how I’d felt like I was being used as a pawn by my parents against each other and how I’d...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does one second lip touching count as kiss?

Lets say A is a girl and she was talking to her boyfriend when suddenly her boyfriend move his face forward and touch her lips with his lips. But it was only for one second and after that the boy didn't give any reaction...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would this haircut suit me? Please be HONEST!!

I REALLY want this kind of haircut link link I want the fringe a lot, but as my face is round, I'm scared it's not gonna suit me :( Please can you tell me HONESTLY what do you think... link link...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

How do shy guys try to get your attention?

If you see a girl you like and are interested in, but she doesn't really know you well, how do you try to get her to notice you? Do you wait for her to notice you or do you approach her?

greenjello13

Xper 6 Age: 31

I don't want to give him my address... other options?

I've been talking to this guy for a few months but he lives across the country. We've never met but he's incredible (From what I can tell)... My birthday is coming up and he said he wants to send me something. Obviously...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he just testing my patience?

Hi. I am just very confuse with this guy. First, we have made plans to meet, but he backed out the day before we meet saying that he is very busy with work and that he is still at work when he texted me (past midnite). A...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can some girls be blind to Flirting?

There is a shy girl I know since 3 months, and when I say that "she is different" she did not take it as a complement but thought it in a negative way, later I somehow managed to get her understand that that is a...

neo4evr

Xper 3 Age: 36

Family & Friends

I feel awful about it but I just don't like black girls?

Is it racist to dislike only black GIRLS? I mean, I've had plenty of black male friends, I have nothing against them, I have been attracted to them and everything.. Beyonce, Hallie Berry, I love their movies and I think...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are there different types of hugs?

If so,then which one do you prefer best? I like the firm ones from guys with a build and/or those that are taller thean me. I hate the fake ones where we barely touch(The Church Hug) or the half hugs...

naima17

Xper 6 Age: 32

Ladies.. if a guy holds eye contact and smile at you .. do you think of him as a creep?

Basically, I read everywhere that if you want to show interest in a lady in a public place then one should smile and hold eye contact for couple of seconds. I have no major problems with eye contact. But I feel that...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why are so many girls so fat?

Seriously, I see so many girls at university who would be really good looking... if they lost 30 pounds. What I don't get is--looks are way more important for girls than guys. Because, face it--guys need game, and to...

AndyWes

Guru Age: 34

Dating

Hanging out vs. Dating... Can you accidentally date someone?

A guy, a casual friend, asked me to "hang out" at an event on campus, which I agreed to do. During the course of the event, his behavior gave me reason to suspect that by "hang out," he might actually mean "go out" or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

Do guys ask girls to be their girlfriend anymore or do it in a diffrent way?

So I don't know my dating life has always been a bit odd. I’ve never been point blank asked to be a guys girlfriend. Never had one do something sweet like my girlfriends guy their guys to do. Then again i’m really not a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is Mourinho attractive? (For girls)

In this vid, for example: https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=WjUO6ivJNDA eveyone's saying he's so incredibly hot. But what do you think makes him so attractive, andi is he attr. to you? Is it his eyes, hair, way of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why won't people admit looks do matter?

This is something I have noticed from both genders. They say things like "It's about the chemistry" and "His appearance doesn't matter to me" or something about love. Yet these same people will talk about who is "hot" or...

Theguyoverthere

Guru Age: 41

Dating

Why did he cancel our first date? Am I overreacting or not?

Hi everyone, I have a problem. There's a guy I've been talking to for over a month now. We were suppose to go on our first date last weekend but because it was raining, he didn't want to go anymore and then I asked him so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex boyfriend keeps asking me to see him one last time.

We were together for 4 years and recently broke up a month ago because he had sex with another girl. Now he's calling me and emailing me that he wants to see me for one last time. Should I go see him or not?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does my boyfriend's ex girlfriend reflect what he likes?

I saw some pictures of my boyfriends ex girlfriend and it made me wonder a few things. I noticed that me and her look completely different. I want to be honest but not mean because that's not right but She was on the big...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I found a deep scratch on my gf's breast that curvs up. Like someone got ruff from behind, is she cheeting.

The two scratches were deep enough to scab. When I asked her about it she said she did it changing, but she has no nails she chews on them...my gut has been thinking she is cheating for a while.

Grizzlwood1269

Xper 5 Age: 41

Dating

Is it weird or creepy to send a good morning text message to a girl I know for two weeks?

I feel that it's a bit early to really ask her to hang out, maybe next week is a good time to. I am not really ready to go out and see her in person yet, but I know I will be soon. I feel that she really does like me, but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why won't she tell me who she likes?

A girl at my school tells me about how guys are hitting on her after her recent breakup. She tells me her emotions are dead and I said that she needs to find someone who sparks those feelings and makes them feel alive...

sawkid

Xper 5 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

Girls, what would your perspective be?

Imagine this is you: You break up with your boyfriend of 3 years because of a few external factors (friends interfering, distance in relationship, etc..). Two months after breaking up, you realize that it wasn't the...

irishfan86

Xper 5 Age: 40

Society & Politics

Do you want a girlfriend that can't keep a job?

Do you want a girlfriend who can't keep a job and leave every time a situation occur

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what do you mean when you say-Call me anytime.

I wrote this guy a letter because I thought he didn't want to talk to me over the phone. I told him this in the letter: I felt he didn't want to talk to me on the phone so I wrote him. I had something important I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What should I do if my girlfriend pinches me really hard?

My girlfriend pinches me really hard and it hurts. I can take it like a man but it still hurts. Sometimes I pinch back and then she hits me so I pinch back and then she hits be harder which ends up in a fight. She then...

joe88752

Xper 3 Age: 42

Why do girls keep asking me what my age is? Is this flirting?

I don't quite get why girls who are talking to me will ask how old I am. They aren't doing it in a weird way, but it seems to come up a lot. I think it is because I have a young looking face, but I am not sure. It just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Do people stare at ugly people often?

Lately I feel like I've been stared at 10x more at school while passing classes. They aren't guys I know and we aren't mutual friends. I'm not super involved and I don't have a reputation. The guys staring, I don't know...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

My girlfriend says she wants to move out.

My girlfriend says she loves me and wants to stay in a relationship with me, but she wants to move out on her own. Pardon my French here but this sounds like bullsh*t. I fought with her since March over this now she's say...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys do you wear Thong underwear and swimwear

Guys – How many of you wear Thong underwear and or swimwear Why or why not Where and when do you wear them Who has seen your thong on you I have been wearing thong underwear and swimwear everyday for the last 20 plus...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Why do "cougars" act so much more aggressive toward me than younger ones?

I'm in my 20s, and today a "cougar" at a bar decided to drop her pants some to show off her backside, and acted annoyed I looked away; she was singing a made up song that went like "I wanna F you", then she started...

Anonymous

(36-45)