All Questions

Do you ever find someone attractive just by the way they carry themselves?

Obviously, looks are important..because they are what initially attract you to a person. But I mean . . have you ever at first found someone not so attractive ... but then the way they carry themselves just suddenly makes...

GoodVibesAlissa

Xper 3 Age: 31

Why is it that when women are past their prime, that's when they are more likely to give nice guys a chance?

As in like 30's and older, or in other cases 40's and older, that's when girls, women, are more likely to give the nice guy, the guy who is not Mich of a leader, a chance, why is that? Do women lower their standards as...

HateBeingSingleAspie

Xper 7 Age: 38

What does a guy mean when he calls you "soft?"

Im assuming its slang for something but don't know what.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do girls like guys with bubble butts?

I mean a slim guy with a round butt that sticks out a lot.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Face vs Body vs Height?

Girls, rank them in order of importance to you.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are most guys afraid to compliment me?

Alot of guys will always compliment me to my friends. Like I have nice eyes, I'm pretty etc They usually never say it to me. Only three guys have and they always look nervous/shly when they say it Why are guys like this

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can you apologize for coming on too strong?

I have been dating this girl for about a month, and I came on too strong. She will respond when I text her, but has stopped initiating conversation for the most part. We've gone out on dates and have slept together a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My friend misinterprets that every guy likes her and it's getting annoying; how do I make her stop?

I'll be telling her something unrelated and she randomly chimes in about how these guys like her. It is constant and it is getting really annoying. For some of the guys I have kinda agreed because they might, but for some...

anon1192

Xper 5 Age: 35

Fashion & Beauty

How to look older to get into cinema?

Guy I've been seeing lately invited me to the cinema and we decided we want to watch a horror... the problem is it's an 18 movie and I'm turning 17 this year... He's 17 but looks way older for his age so he won't have a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it okay to ignore a guy after he rejected me?

he ignored me after I asked him out never replied, but now he's trying to talk again say hi and stuff acting like everythings okay...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

If you watch Game of Thrones, who is/are your favorite character(s)?

I just spent the last two and a half days doing nothing else except watching game of thrones. After watching the first two episodes, I was just immediately hooked. Watching each episode is honestly like watching an hour...

Janson

Guru Age: 35

Is self-touching always a flirting signal?

I'm often in a reading room (or is study hall the appropriate term? English isn't my first language, so any correction would be nice :) ) in college. I often sit near the doors, so girls have to walk past by me. Many...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I be worried about my girlfriend vacationing in Miami with 2 of her lady friends?

I mean I love her and all but I also know she's a wild one. Likes to get drunk. Smoke weed. Willing to take ectasy or coke. She has a verocius sexual apetite. Always tries to find any little thing she can to get mad at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do women like mysterious men?

i mean why do women like men who are cold dark mysterious quiet and rarely laughs...literally he doesn't give a damn

Anonymous

(36-45)

I met a girl online but she lives an hour and a half away, is it worth it to meet her?

I have been on this online dating site for a while, mainly just for fun, to flirt with girls and stuff, never planning to do anything serious with anyone I've chatted with. But This one girl I met over a year ago, just...

sirspauldo

Explorer Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

Why do guys like volleyball players?

I am a volleyball players and guys keep on telling me that's hot. But how? I think its the clothes but am I right our its there something else too

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex broke up with me & showed no emotion at all?!

okay so me & my ex were together 2 years he broke up with me nearly 2 month ago at first he told me he loved me & that it will br hard but mentioned it was "for the best" I know for a fact he loved me but now he doesn't...

amylouisex

Xper 5 Age: 32

What is the meaning of sexy and hot?

Girls what is the meaning of sexy?Sexy is the style of dress or the beautiful body?Are you a sexy girl? Say a girl hot that's mean she is sexy?i really don't know What is the difference between sexy and hot! if you know...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy texts the next day and says thanks I had a wonderful night is that a good sign?

He has also taken down his internet dating profile

Ooopsy76

Xper 5 Age: 49

Do girls drink Red Bull?

just curious Because Red Bull to me seems to be a product that's targeted at mostly a male demographic, extreme sport athletes, I.T office workers, truck drivers etc. and you don't see many females in these positions,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My Boyfriend Likes Tough Girls, but Says For Me Not to be a Tomboy

My boyfriend is a very outdoorsy guy. He's a ranger in the Army, loves fishing and hunting and being outdoors in general. He says he wants to share these things with me. He often makes remarks about how girls who shoot,...

Nena91

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why does it feel so weird when your first real love gets married?

We dated for a year and a half, he cheated on me(I mean he kissed a girl at a party, while I was at unwell at his place.)and I stupidly stayed with him until I realized how stupid it is for me to stay, so I broke up with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls do you find guys that are fighters to attractive?

I don't mean a guy that pick fights. I mean a guy that knows how to fight and will use his skills when he NEEDS to. I know jujitsu and a bit of muay thai as well but I'm also this really friendly guy that's super nice to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He always messages me first..

Question for guys: If a guy always messages you on Facebook and he is always the one to message first could it mean he could possibly like You or be interested in you ? If not what are some possible reasons?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when your boyfriend says what's up gorgeous?

So my brother had taken my phone and said hey sexy to my boyfriend and I texted back saying sorry that was my bro and he said OK and then said what's up gorgeous?

hcataldo

Xper 5 Age: 29

Family & Friends

Guys, why do you wink at a girl?

This guy smiled as in saying hi and I said hi and then he winked at me. Is it just a friendly gesture, because he's outgoing and friendly to almost everybody. I don't know him too well though but he's nice and he's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: Do you like ripped girls?

Or do you prefer a softer body on a girl? I always thought guys liked girls who worked out, but I'm not so sure any more as I hear differing opinions from some guys.

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when your boyfriend gives you a wooden cross necklace for a present?

My boyfriend knows I'm a christian and I attend church weekly. We've been dating for a little over two months, and today he gave me a present for the first time. It was a little wooden cross necklace. It's the perfect...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Why do people pretend to care?

There are many people in my life that like to pretend they care, but their actions clearly show that they really don't. I can't help but wonder what they get out of pretending to care every so often. Do you do this with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

25 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl?

I am a 25 year old guy, who has never dated before, but before you jump to conclusions let me tell you a little about my life. When I was 17 years old, my Dad was diagnosed with Lou Gehrig's disease. He took it really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Can you get a girl to put in a good word for you?

ok so say for example, you like a girl and you tell a female friend about her. Is it good to have her put in a good word for you? Like for example have her say to her, have you met such and such yet? He's such a nice guy....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is my girlfriend fed up with me?

We've been together for almost 3 years and we've never had a major problem until a few months ago. She's about to graduate High school and is about ready go into college. Lately it seems like she's been distant and can't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Best way to build a STRONG spaghetti bridge?

I'm in a spaghetti bridge competition at school and my team and I have been doing a lot of research to build the best bridge and I was just wondering if any of you had any tips or anything about building a spaghetti...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

He wants to meet my sister? Is this a good sign?

this guy I've been exclusively dating today told me he wants to meet my sister and asked me why is that a problem to see her, why I haven't introdced him to her. we're not in boyfriend/girlfriend label.. he told me he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies with bubble butts that stick or poke out do you feel pencil skirts don't fit you well?

Well I have notice pencil skirts are design for women with wide hips and flat butts, but my butt stick out like a poke along with being wide, so I mostly buy dresses or skirts that are elastane to wear that can stretch...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What sleeping positions do you enjoy as a couple?

I really enjoy sleeping in a hugging position, with me and my girlfriend facing each other. I’d actually feel pretty lonely if we were sleeping in the same bed but not hugging or spooning (which is funny, because I don’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Broad shoulders women like them?

I was reading some stuff online and it said women get turned on with a man with broad shoulders? I find that a little hard to believe.

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Yoda Age: 41

Girl's Behavior

Does these ear piercings look trashy?

Do these piercings, a cartilage and two lobes, look trashy to you? Say the girl is 20 and has no other piercings beside these on her ears. link And link

Anonymous

(30-35)