Does he mean the opposite when he called me ugly?

[elizabeth2000]

He had a smile when he said it. He was like hey ugly. And I'm like no I'm not, he said yes you are. And while he was doing this he had a stick and started pointing at people and going.
Hey Ashley, hey ben, hey ugly. And he did this three times.

And he ignores me a lot. Also he knows I like him. So if he does like. Why tease me?

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I'm not sure if he likes me because, some people say he is doing this because he likes me and others are saying he's a bully.

[creepeil]

He likes you, but probably has lowself esteem and insecurity. People like this take out their pain on others, a lot of times the people that they love. Thats why bullies generally have few friends. Think about where he could have learned this from, probably from home. I dont know what you can do to help him, but dont be mad at him he's already probably got enough people that dont like him. Just remember that you're not ugly. Also remember that people never call an ugly person ugly, so thats how you know you're beautiful.

[elizabeth2000]

He's actually popular so he says

[creepeil]

Yep he's insecure. The most popular people are the most insecure. The prettiest people do the uggliest things. He puts you down so he can feel secure in his own physical appearance.

[Phantom-menace]

Its quiet simple, he is bullying you. You should report him to the teachers.

[Phantom-menace]

He is calling you ugly, cause means what he says. Its got nothing to do with liking you. He is plain a simple bully. Ignore him and walk away from him. What he thinks of you, is his problem. Don't let anyones opinion of you, upset you. To get upset over what he says about you, means you value him as a person. When really he means nothing you. Him calling you ugly, defines him as a person. Bullies are insecure people, insecure people great joy out of bringing other people down.

[Phantom-menace]

It takes a very strong and secure person, not to get upset and angry of what other people say and think of them.

[elizabeth2000]

What should I do?

[Phantom-menace]

well you either ignore him, or report him to the teachers. Please don't listen those other guys, this guythats calling you ugly, does not like you. Even if he did like you, he is not worth dating, he is showing lack of respect to you. Don't put up with it, I suggest you tell your parents, and report to the teachers, The guy is an idiot, as not worth your time

[Phantom-menace]

If you have a crush on him, I suggest you quickly move on. He will only end up hurting you anyway. seriously forget about him

[citroen]

Forget him, even if he was joking it's still not nice, people should never laugh or joke at another persons expense. He would make an awful bf, cos he'd try to lower your self- esteem, you deserve a guy who tells you how pretty you are, and wants you to feel good about yourself. Start ignoring him, and find someone who will show respect to you

[Luna-o3o]

C'mon! That's cruel and insensitive! How immature. Seriously, if you stay with this guy or even continue liking him then it means you have no respect for yourself nor self worth. You should like and be with someone who says "Hey beautiful" and keeps calling you beautiful, don't you think?

[elizabeth2000]

I know I should do that.

[BeInnovative]

He is teasing you and if it bothers you or humiliates you then it is bullying.
He doesn't like you... He just likes the idea that someone likes him and cuz it gives him strength.
Just dont answer or react when he does something to tease like that then he ll give up and just move on.

[Vesuvius87]

He's being a total jerk and you should tell him to get lost. You've been posting about this guy over and over again. Why do you even waste your time wondering about this guy when he clearly doesn't care about you nor your feelings?
Why would you even like a guy that calls you ugly? Please, do work on your self-esteem and if he keeps bothering you, talk to your school counselor.

[elizabeth2000]

Okay

[Phantom-menace]

well said.

[Hopefuldreamer8]

You've asked this same question about this guy already. I think you should just ignore him and not having anything to do with the guy anymore. It doesn't matter if he likes you back or not, it's an immature way to go about it. I know you're still in High School, but there are more mature boys. You can do better.

[Anonymous]

He probably likes you, but he's an idiot who doesn't know how to flirt and is being hurtful (and will continue to be). Move on.

[elizabeth2000]

What do you think? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1202521-i-ve-never-been-so-confused-about-a-guy

[Opinion Owner]

Looked at the link. The guy sounds like a complete asshole. If it's the same guy you are talking about in this question, stay away from him, he's just a bully.

[elizabeth2000]

Yes it is the same guy

[elizabeth2000]

Why do you think he is doing this?

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn't really matter why. He can go to a therapist and they can figure it out.

What matters is he is treating you badly (doesn't matter if he likes you or not). So you shouldn't spend time with him, he isn't worth it. Respect yourself, move on.

And who is down-voting a guy telling a girl to respect herself and not put up with getting bullied? Seriously?

[theeonlymiracle_]

Will in my opinion... My boyfriend calls me ugly sometimes and big head and stuff like that I think it simply me he like you because ever guy is mean to a girl they like if he's being mean to you he likes you i don't stress about it I simply shake it off and keep it going so don't stress...

[RBT-RS]

He probably thinks he's teasing you:

But truth is, he's just being an asshole. Get someone else involved.

[elizabeth2000]

What should I do?

[RBT-RS]

Tell someone who has an authority:
Be it a teacher, or your parents.

[nerdyasianman14]

He is a teaser. He didn't mean it literally. Guys are like this, we tease. When we tease, its a compliment actually. :)

[jacquesvol]

He's a patented douche bag, face it.

[7heDubz]

It's called being an asshole and attracting attention. he likes the attention. Don't be a doormat.

[BelleGirl21]

Sounds like he's teasing you. He also sounds likean idiot... pass

[Anonymous]

He likes you obviously but just is insultung you playfully i mean my boyfriend calls me Penut Head. I dont see anything wrong with it. I just thinks he's playfully teasing you

[Phantom-menace]

How can you call this playfully insulting? calling someone ugly. calling someone peanut head, is understandable. But there is a fine line between teasing and plain bullying. Calling someone ugly, I do not call that playfully. Wouldn't you find it hurtful, if some guy at school called you ugly. I wonder why everyone is so fuck up and confused, because we are calling people ugly. I think thats a great way of attracting someone. I think next time I will go and go call a random girl ugly. and see if it pulls her. Do you think it will work?

[elizabeth2000]

Nope

[jacquesvol]

That idiot is just effing with your mind: his way of bullying you.

Don't expect ANY love.

MOVE ON.

[Anonymous]

It means he simply doesn't like you and is being a jerk.

[rUinSAYAN]

wtf girl. get of that shit, you like to be a foot cleaner? go for it

[Anonymous]

Guys often tease like that. Often it means he knows you are not, he likes you as a friend, and knows you can take it.

[elizabeth2000]

Honestly it hurts because its by my crush.

[Opinion Owner]

I get that. But they don't think about it like that. When a guy who likes you (possibly as a friend) calls you names like that, he means it in a nice, teasing way. They don't get insecure we are, about those things.

[elizabeth2000]

What about the ignoring thing?

[Opinion Owner]

It could be that he tries to get your attention, by playing hard to get. It could be that he isn't really into you, but doesn't want to say anything. Or it could be that he is just a dickhead.

[elizabeth2000]

I thought maybe he's doing it because he wants to show me that he doesn't like me. But the part is he did it with a smile on his face.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think so. If I where you, I'd ignore him for some while. Not obvious of course, but stop looking at him, only answer with few words or short sentences. Like you don't give a fuck about him being there or not.

[elizabeth2000]

How do I ignore him without making it obvious?

[Opinion Owner]

Don't talk to him, if he doesn't talk to you first. If he do talk to you, answers very short, and seem distracted, like literally everything is more exiting than him. Don't look at him, and smile a lot.
Guys doesn't like this, especially if they like you. :)

[elizabeth2000]

What will he do if he likes me and what will he do if he doesn't like me?

[elizabeth2000]

This a little a bit of our past. www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1202521-i-ve-never-been-so-confused-about-a-guy

[Opinion Owner]

I can't say for sure, since Im not in his head. Sometimes they try harder, to get you to pay attention to them. Sometimes they get more quiet, and tries to give you the same treatment. If he changes his behavior in any way, it means that he have noticed you don't care about him, and often that means that it bothers him.

[Opinion Owner]

How old are you guys? He seems incredibly immature and like an asshole.

[elizabeth2000]

We are both 13 but I am getting ready to turn 14 soon. I am older then him is that bad?

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, that explains a lot. Honey, he is just a kid. He doesn't know about real feelings or how to treat girls yet. My advice probably won't work on him, since he is so young. I would forget about him, until he gets older and more mature :)

[elizabeth2000]

Ok thanks for your help.

[zombiebabe]

he was teasing you... no biggie

[elizabeth2000]

But he only does it to me

[elizabeth2000]

Here's a little bit of our past. www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1202521-i-ve-never-been-so-confused-about-a-guy

[Cheekkky]

He does that to get your attention.

[StickStickity13]

He likes you but is very stupid.

[elizabeth2000]

How can you tell?

[StickStickity13]

I'm a guy I know how young guys think. They don't know how to flirt.

[elizabeth2000]

Read this. Do you still think he likes me? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1202521-i-ve-never-been-so-confused-about-a-guy

[StickStickity13]

I can't be 100% certain I don't know him but I wouldn't be with this guy he is immature.

[elizabeth2000]

Well he is 13

[StickStickity13]

That explains a lot. You're really young

[elizabeth2000]

But do you think he likes me?

[StickStickity13]

It's possible.

[Anonymous]

well you are ugly so...

[ForgetMeNots4]

No she isnt.

[Hopefuldreamer8]

says the person hiding behind anonymous

[Opinion Owner]

she asked? his under 18, his not going to say it cause he likes her. mayeb she did something to piss him off

[elizabeth2000]

It might be because I didn't let him finger me.

[rUinSAYAN]

I took it as the sarcasm of the day. I guess I didn't post that cause of the people who will defend her for hell

[tomboy2019]

He so likes you

[Phantom-menace]

How can you call this playfully insulting? calling someone ugly. calling someone peanut head, is understandable. But there is a fine line between teasing and plain bullying. Calling someone ugly, I do not call that playfully. Wouldn't you find it hurtful, if some guy at school called you ugly. I wonder why everyone is so fuck up and confused, because we are calling people ugly. I think thats a great way of attracting someone. I think next time I will go and go call a random girl ugly. and see if it pulls her. Do you think it will work?

[Phantom-menace]

Great advice of leading this girl into misunderstanding attraction, and the type of guy she should fall for. So now your going make her think, that every guy treats her badly likes her. I wonder why this generation is so fucked up.

[Anonymous]

He thinks you're ugly.

[elizabeth2000]

No because he said it with a smile on his face

[Opinion Owner]

If you know the answer then why are you asking?

[elizabeth2000]

Because I'm confused about it