Why does he call me ugly?

[Anonymous]

This guy is really the only guy who has called me ugly to my face at school. People usually say I’m pretty. It doesn't necessarily bother me because, of course, we're not going to be everyone's cup of tea, but it does make me a bit self-conscious. However, every time I see him, he's always teasing me and calling me names. He asked for my Instagram, and I didn't want to add him, but he made me. He literally doesn't stop texting me, and he's always sending me memes and stuff. He invited me to his party, but honestly, I didn't want to go. He got really mad when I didn't show up. Additionally, he took some pictures of me at the homecoming dance, and this surprised me. He sent them to me on Instagram. He has a girlfriend now, and he unfollowed me he still views my story tho and I posted mg boyfriend and he started putting me down about it.

[ohsheeT]

The guy sounds like he's very unhappy person he also sounds like he's a spoiled little brat that must get his way at home..

And he thought just because he was himself that he was going to get his way

Well if he likes you and was just teasing you he went about it the wrong way

But if he's a punk ass bitch. Bully and used to getting his way. Well I guess you stood up for yourself and you showed him and that's the best thing you could have done.

People that use their words to hurt other people are usually very unhappy and it was done to them so they have to do it to somebody else. Because it makes him feel better about themselves I think you're a lot better than that.

And I actually think you know who you are and what you're all about and that you're also a beautiful girl is probably a very beautiful heart so don't let him make you think anything other than that

Because if you do then that just means that he brought you down to his level and he got his way.

Don't fall for it. Don't even think about it as a matter of fact luck up to a mirror right now look at yourself and smile.
And I can tell you a hundred things to say to yourself. That would all be good but you can just smile and say he wishes he could have this LOL don't let him bother you in any form or manner..
That's what he's trying to do is make you feel like he feels and if you do that means he's one. And that will change your life for a long long time so let it all go let him go

He keeps pursuing it because he wants. To break you he wants you to give him attention. . there's only one thing to do smile and give him the bird LOL no don't even do that. Because even as a form of attention

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh, that guy sounds like a total jerk! Who does that? Calling you ugly to your face but then always teasing you and trying to follow you on social media. Total mixed messages.

I’d say he’s probably just insecure himself and putting you down is like his way of trying to act cool in front of his friends or something dumb. Some guys act like clowns when they don’t know how to deal with their feelings. No way you actually look ugly though, don’t believe that!

The fact that he got mad when you didn’t go to his party is a huge red flag. He just seems controlling and like he wants attention even if it’s negative attention. And taking those pictures of you without asking is super creepy. Dude needs to back off.

I’d say just try not to give him any reaction at all. Don’t let what he says get to you cause he clearly has issues of his own. Keep doing your thing and being with people who actually treat you with respect! Maybe try blocking him on social media too so he can’t see your stuff. You don’t need that toxic energy messing with your self esteem. Hope he chills out soon!

[Peridot25]

This is straight up stalking and harassment. You need to report him immediately.

[DrPepper12]

Keep an eye on him. That behavior is not acceptable. I gotta ask, why do you GAF what he does or thinks? He's not what you want in your life. Bye Felicia!

[SolitarySolace]

If people called you attractive ask the time you'd develop an entitlement complex and no matter how attractive you are no one would ever be able to love you

[OtterMan68]

he never grew out of his kindergarten phase. Probably says you have cooties too