I've always had a crush on him .but I told myself I would get over him because I was not pretty enough for him and he would never like me.its a super long story .ok so in middle school I used to stare at him a lot to a point he noticed .and thought I was weird. Now we are seniors and we are over that .his friends are complete jerks to me .call me ugly and make mean jokes about Me when he isn't there . He has never made fun of me or done anything to harm me .everyone knows I used to like him. Because my friend backstabbed Me and showed everyone the messages we had where I told her everything .so that's why I get made fun of a lot. He knows I liked him. But in middle school we didn't know each other . Until high school we started talking this year.senior year. He is sometimes playful and we joke around. His friends bring up the past .but he doesn't .once I had a project and he just joined without asking me .he just said in the bus .hey I'm in your group . I joined u. And I said okay .and now we have classes mostly sitting with our backs to each other. So I can't see him .and in the classes we can see each other I noticed he stares at me . I'm not always looking at him because I'm very shy. When he looks at me sometimes its so intensely he doesn't stop . I see threw the corner of my eyes that he's looking .other times he looks away fast .sometimes he's staring and I look but he continues to stare .I look away and I get embarrassed .I've never cared about my appearance . So I've never cared to inpress. And still don't but at least now.I dress better ,and wear foundation but its not noticeable it looks natural lol.and I do my hair sometimes. He isn't shy he's had a lot of girlfriends since I've known him . Like I said we play around and and talk a little .very little .in a class we sit next to each other rather I sit side ways and he faces me so he stares and talks to me sometimes .he doesn't stare at anyone else. I know because I look at him .not a lot but I look .and I don't want to stare at him because people will notice me staring . And make fun of me .I think he's everything I could ask for . His eyes are so beautiful .I could talk forever .anyways. he's a jokster and fun to be with. Okay so there's this girl that likes him .I think she does because whenever I'm around him she starts to get out her seat and talk to him or she takes his stuff . And I've seen them walk to classes together sometimes .that's when I feel the most retarded and stupid person for thinking he will ever like me..ugh I've said I'm over him.but then he stares .we don't text a lot I mean if I text him he will reply sometimes .sometimes he ignores my text but he ignores other people text too. It's been recently that he stares at me . I don't know what to think. I think I'm ugly ... the girl that likes him.is sweet according to everyone .and I'm the quiet one. He doesn't show much interest to go to the girl and talk .he starts conversations with me. And I talk but I never start a convo.
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okay I didn't take the time to read everything that you wrote but for the main question at the top, I'm gonna say no. he probably thinks the exact opposite. personally, I wouldn't wanna stare at someone if I thought she was ugly... in fact if you think about it, I don't think any human being would want to STARE at any ugly person or thing. if he's staring at you, that probably means he thinks you're attractive or at least trying to figure out if he thinks you're attractive.0
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well your obviously insecure right now, doesn't mean you have to stay that way... I use to be shy, then I just kinda started being a yes man... and doing all sorts of things outside of my comfort zone... I soon found out my comfort zone wasn't as small as I thought it was... now I don't know if your over weight, that can be a tough battle, but if you are your young enough to work it off... if your not over weight I'm sure your probably just carrying the baggage of verbal abuse from those jerky bean spillers... try talking to another guy while your in the same class, try to make the other guy laugh and smile at you, see how your real crush acts... you can usually tell after something like this if someone likes you from the look in there eyes, if he stares at you or can't look at you at all he likes you... if it seems to not affect him, don't get too invested..