Wondering why do girls stare at me?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if I am ugly, or cute, or if I have a distinctive face. I do have a large frame but I think my face has a little bit of baby fat.

In most of my classes, some girls look at me and then when I feel them looking at me I turn my head to them and they are looking down and have a smile on their face or something...

Other times, girls just stare at me? What the heck!

Like, what does this all mean...I know there is nothing on my face since I am clean...and these girls have been doing it for a couple of semesters.

Other girls when I try to make eye contact with them they look at me and then quickly look to the side...am I scaring them?

I just feel very uncomfortable and I really do feel like I am being laughed at or made fun of...

How do I deal with this? I don't know how to talk to these girls since they are sitting away from me.

Thank-You

[Wolf07]

The same thing always happens to me and I didn't really find out that people find me attractive until two years ago (when I was 21! oh, the wasted years!) Long story short, it means you're attractive and you've got it made! Try talking to them and asking one of them out!

[Lj236]

If your not doing anything stupid and aren't wearing unusual clothes they probably find you attractive

[Asker]

So, what do they want? Like I find girls attractive but I don't stare.

[Lj236]

maybe they just wonder what you are like and stuff. And some people do stare at people they find attractive ;p

[bittersweet17]

I think they find you so attractive that they can't help but look :P & or the benefit of looking outweighs them bothering what you think about them starring.

[Asker]

Ok- so what does attractive really mean?

Do they want to reproduce with me? lol. seriously I need to know.

If they find me attractive, do they want to have sex with me? I just think that is wrong...i am not a male prostitute.

[bittersweet17]

In my case, attractive enough to stare at means you're HIGHLY HIGHLY gawkably attractive :) like you just have to look cause they're sooooooooooooooooooo cuteeeeeeeeee. I only know this cause I've only starred at one guy and he was soooooooooooooo cuteeeeeeeeeee :P and it was alright cause he always starred too.

No, not necessarily :P just really good eye candy - you just keep thinking about them.

My cause of starring was purely looks - best looking guy I have seen in my life! haha

[Asker]

ha...so what happened between the two of you? (if that's OK to disclose)

Did you guys have like a serious/intense eye contact - sorta like locking eyes?

[bittersweet17]

haha nothing... :P he was in some of my classes (not anymore) so we just kept looking at each other... xD I guess so, serious eye contact ahha.. he always sat near me. He's too young for me :'( that's probably why nothing happened. :P