All Questions

Why is my boyfriend avoiding spending time alone with me?

We were waiting for a friend. The guy was 40 minutes late, we had no way to contact him, so my boyfriend said we should go meet other friends. However, I suggested that we should just go to the spot where we first kissed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do guys keep your stuff after a break up?

I asked for my house key back after the break up, to date he has never given it back. Why would he not return the key? Trying to understand this behavior from my ex..and he ended the relationship during a row. So...

Lucy7509

Xper 5 Age: 62

How would you feel if your crush drunk dialed you?

is the drunk person aware of the things they say? do they remember the next day? i don't drink much so inno but this just happened to me. he wasn't inappropriate tho, he kinda just asked how my day went which was funny...

thataznbabygirl

Xper 6 Age: 33

Fashion & Beauty

Are ugly guys doomed to die alone?

girls have developed high standards and only want want actor/model looking guys and dismiss the rest . Confidence is a lie . It means a guy who every girl wants = good looking guy .

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are girls that complain about being hit on secretly bragging about it?

Some girls complain about it, but is that really their way of bragging about it?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Best friend felt me up do I tell bf

The other night I went out to the bar with some friends and we all crashed at a friends house. I was in the middle of explaining to my boyfriend that I didn't want to drive home and he was complaining that he didn't...

Scandal

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why are so many non-white women so color-struck?

I've notice that most women especially non-white women drool over any white guy (even if he's ugly) who talks to them but when it comes to non-white men they lift up their standards and always seem to find something wrong...

JoeLop

Xper 4 Age: 42

Will calamine lotion remove a tan?

Weird question I know but I love pale skin and I've been out in the sun a lot lately so I was wondering if anyone knew if using calamine lotion would make my skin light again? Thanks!

mccollins

Xper 7 Age: 33

Why do people bump into each other to flirt? Is it effective?!

Why do you think people do this!? I guess it sort of works because it gets you thinking about them!

harveykinkle

Yoda Age: 41

Shopping & Gifts

Honestly, are there guys who actually PREFER small breasts?

I know there are guys who like small breasts, but my question is, are there guys who actually prefer them over large ones? I am 20 years old, 5'7", and 118 pounds, and I normally wear a 32C. If you don't know what that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Men, at what age did you start trimming your nose hairs?

I think I had to start trimming them regularly at 21 if I recall.

Shpongolia

Yoda Age: 41

When a guy says stop by anytime?

When I asked him when can we hang he said "Stop by anytime you're free," Does that mean he likes me? or is he just being nice or he wants me to suck his d***?

Anonymous

(30-35)

College girls, would you find a balding guy in college still attractive?

as a guy with full head of hair or does it matter at all? college girls, 18-26, are you turned off by a balding 22-23 year old? He has a good looking face, thin build and tall and is a very nice person but unfortunately...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is Omar Borkan Al Gala the man too sexy for Saudi Arabia?

The actor, photographer and poet was one of the three men who were deported from Saudi Arabia because authorities thought of them to be "too handsome" and worried that women would lose their minds, tear their clothing off...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Visiting an out of town guy friend.

Guys if you could please answer. I have a crush on one of my guy friends. Unfortunately he moved away about three-years ago. We stayed in touch this entire time. At first it was just emails and texts about work...as...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm not happy unless I'm drunk or high.

Why is it I need to drink or get high to feel like myself ? I don't do it that often to where I'm addicted or anything. I can function without them but, I just feel lonely, sad and like I'm trapped in a box. Then when I...

heyitsdan

Yoda Age: 35

Relationships

I'm in love with my (ex)FWB ...

It's simple.. we had a deal to be friends with benefits and of course I knew it is stupid.. I fell in love with him, then he found a girlfriend.. he stopped talking to me for 2 months.. Then we started to text again and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Personal space and crushes....

I hate to even ask this question, I know what this sounds like. Yes it's a flimsy clue, but all the same... There's this guy I know who whenever he interacts with me, he comes really really close. Like, he'll stand...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Being annoying as a way of flirting?

I've seen lots of cases where guys intentionally annoy girls and push their buttons as a way to flirt with them. Of course, this assumes that the woman is already somewhat interested in him and she's gained their trust...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls like cowboys?

Ok I'm a redneck. I like trucks, guns, off-roading, and my shoes of choice are my cowboy boots. I also ride horses and stuff like that. What I'm wondering is if a lot of girls are in to guys who know how to build and fix...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why do girls who are really hot date such lame guys?

Like I don't understand,guys who are not as smart, good looking, nice, etc... and they date them instead of me.

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a guys asks if he makes you nervous?

so we are coworkers. one day I kept on messing up when I was around him. we were walking together alone and I crashed a stretcher again into the wall and he asked if he makes me nervous. I said yea and walked away cause...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys that read books ...

Ladies am I the only one that finds it incredibly sexy when I see a guy reading a novel. It just makes me what to do all kind of nasty things to him. It’s just so SEXY! And Guys, why don’t more of you read? Do you think...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it okay to ask a guy to hang out?

A lot of old fashioned people believe that it's better if the girl waits for the guy to ask her out, and that's true because then you know the guy really likes you but what if the person you're interested in or want to...

ashleybeans

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why do men tease me? Is it because I am easy to provoke?

There are three guys at work whom tease me, actually four, but one of them (ill refer to him as guy four) does it very less and its usually cause I gave him a reason to (like saying something stupid). I am shy (not to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

She had "grass is greener syndrome." Letting her go and dropping off radar best thing to do?

Ex girlfriend of mine broke up with me after 3 year relationship. We had an amazing relationship, we were and still are compatible in just about every way (with enough differences to keep things fresh and fun of course)....

irishfan86

Xper 5 Age: 40

Dating

Need advice on how to get this girl [19F] interested in me [25M] over another guy.

Ok guys so here's the story. I met this girl (she's 19, I'm 25) online and started talking to her about one week ago and we seem to be hitting it off pretty well. I would like to date her and get to know her better but...

Konpachi

Xper 6 Age: 38

Why is Cleveland, Ohio always the butt of jokes on t.v.

I live in Cleveland, Ohio. I love my city but I always see comedians and shows making fun of us. Is this because of our sports teams or.. Why are we always made fun of?

Ineedadvice1989

Xper 4 Age: 37

Dating

How do you greet a blind date?

Simple hello Handshake Hug Kiss on cheek

TedStar

Guru Age: 34

What does it mean when a guy stands far away to talk to you?

He'll start the conversation, but will stand on the other side of the room

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriends family HATES me.. what should I do?

So my boyfriend lives in the midwest and his family is very traditional.. I live on the west coast and come from a very liberal family.. my boyfriends entire family decided from the moment they heard about me that they...

jujubean99

Xper 5 Age: 31

Was he trying to turn me on?

Well. we were in class watching a video and my guy friend was sitting behind me and kept on moaning, throughout the WHOLE video which was around 30 min. Then he started playing with my hair and trying to draw on my neck....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

Is blue nail polish gross?

I have real average sized nails, nicely shaped, however for some odd reason dark colors (which I love during fall) and reds look horrible on my nails. Its odd but its the truth. Pinks and bright colors and neutral colors...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Can a relationship with two leaders work?

as I get closer to this girl, I begin to realize that we are both leaders. with almost everything, sometimes I'll lead the way sometimes she'll lead the way. i usually lead cause I'm the guy, but she often tries to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys point in pictures?

I notice the guy I like does it in nearly every photo I have taken with him. It confuses me and I would like to know what it means so I can understand and maybe join him in doing it or not if its bad.

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend of 2 years is studying with another girl. Should I be worried?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We are both in our early 20s. 6 months after we started going out he started studying for his exams with one girl. Every time he takes a class, he finds a different girl...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean if guy calls you short?

so we re not exactly friends we occasionnally share a laugh and we had this weird thing where I thought he liked me so I ignored him...out of NO WHERE he asks me how tall my heels were. then he said that I was short. he's...

confused98

Xper 5 Age: 29