All Questions

Is shoulder touching a sign of flirting?

If a guy puts his hand on your shoulder many times- is he trying to flirt?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do I attract these angry men?

A lot of the men I talk to, date or attract are always angry or jealous. They also get clingy and gain feeling I like that they gain feelings, but for the rest. Why do certain people attrct certain things?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why do men in relationships need their ego stroked by other women?

This question ( link ) was asked before but didn't get much response, so I figured I'd ask. For guys that are in relationships, why do you feel the need to get attention/flirt with other women? I've had issues...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriends ex contacted him after like 5 years... should I be worried?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We live together and everything. Out of the blue this chick (who has a boyfriend and also has a house with this guy) contacts my boyfriend. He did tell me about...

beachygrl83

Xper 5 Age: 42

Whats Aegyo tone? And please give me insights on Korea!

So I'll be moving to South Korea soon and wanted to learn about Korea..my friend said people there talk in cute aegyo tone...so I searched it on Korea and found this ( https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=Io1g-aAZUi0 )...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why does he start singing out loud whenever he sees me?

idk what wrong with this guy whenever he's with his friends he looks at me and starts singing and when he's alone he glances at me we go to the same school he's a senior and we never talk

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girls, can I message a random girl on Facebook just to get to know her as a friend?

Do you girls like it, if a friendly guy just wanted to talk to you and get to know you better, even though you never met, but hey he wants this an option to get to know people.

Double_O_69

Xper 5 Age: 37

Is a trust issue a deal breaker?

I'll put it plain and simple. My boyfriend of 6 months has told me over the phone that he does not trust me, especially to be responsible with bodily fluids he may excrete just as he doesn't trust anyone else with...

JazzyDevil

Xper 5 Age: 33

Dating

Is it normal to bite while making out?

My boyfriend and I were making out, when I was kissing his neck he told me to bite him. So I nibbled on his neck no big deal. Well when he was kissing my neck he bit me and hard he left a mark. Is that a normal thing to...

ihaveaquetion

Xper 5 Age: 29

Any advice of how to approach a girl at the beach/poolside?

Do girls like been approach at the beach or at the pool? if so how I would approach without making them feel very awkward?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I have manly legs..how to slim them down?

Somewhere along the line my legs became super muscular and bulky. I am in basketball, track, and softball. I realize that you might say it's because of sports, but there are plenty of more athletic people with less...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Guy acts completely different everyday? Please read.

The guy I like and whom I thought had a crush on me is confusing. Some days he will be super quiet and look at me a lot and then the next day he's super loud and ignores me completely! I get very confused because I can't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does it creep guys out when a girl runs her nails down his back, or do they think it is hot?

In some movies during the intimate scenes a girl will run or dig her nails into a guys back. If I was a guy and a girl did that to me, I would just feel like someone is itching me lol. So what do you men think? Do you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I haven't heard from him for hours, should I worry?

Ive been texting a new guy and he's showed mostly interest and always answers my texts but he hasn't for five hours... going on six. Should I be worried he's lost interest or ignored me? How long should I wait till I know...

helpha

Yoda Age: 31

Relationships

Why am I starting to hate meat all of a sudden?

I have always been a meat lover, especially bacon and steak. I have never wanted to go vegetarian and though I love animals I never felt too guilty eating meat. still too this day I don't feel too much guilt but all the...

Catie101

Yoda Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

Asian Women Obsessed With White Men?

"Across the country interracial marriage is on the rise, according to a recent study from the Pew Research Center. Out of a total of 275,000 new interracial marriages in 2010, roughly 14% of these involved Asian-white...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Almost perfect body.... but covered in stretch marks :/

I feel like I have almost go the perfect body in my eyes link , but my genetics said noooo perfection for you. I have the worst stretch marks for a girl that has never had a child! I have them breast link...

SuckingurLollipop

Xper 3 Age: 30

Tattooed girls/women hot or not?

Are tattoos on a girl/woman hot and attractive or not? Why so?

CarinaCath

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

White girls: does it bother you if a white guy dates Latinas or black girls?

I have personally seen some white guys get mad at white girls for dating black guys, and have seen some black girls get mad at black guys for dating white girls. Now what do you white girls think about a white guy you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

The guy I'm dating still has a profile on OKcupid. How do I approach this?

There's this guy I've been seeing, and I see him a lot. I like him a lot. I met him on OKcupid, and after seeing him a while, he asked me to be his girlfriend. This was a couple days ago he asked me and I said yes. Since...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Kissing with no teeth?

I was in an accident a while back and lost 3 of my front teeth. Is it possible to still be a good kisser? This wonderfully amazing girl from my school tried the other day and I was embarassed for pushing her away. I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I told him to lose my number and stop contacting me. But now I regret it. Will he reach out to me eventually?

I was talking to this guy for about 3 weeks. He was all into me. Making time for me before and after work. Told me he couldn't believe he felt the way he did so soon. Then he tells me, he is spoiling me and has to stop...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl keeps saying "are we just friends?" Or "We're just friends, right" . . . should I just move on?

She keeps giving me signs she's interested ... but then every once in a while busts out with "We're friends right?" Every time we talk I'm hitting on her, flirting with her hard, and talking about sex and other stuff,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

I almost told my boyfriend I love him

So I had hung out with my boyfriend 2 days ago, I called him today just to talk for alittle while. We don't see each 24/7 because I'm busy with school work and he lives an hour away by train. So while I was talking to him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My crush is a devout Christian and I'm not?

I recently found out this guy, who I have a mega crush on, is Christian. He goes to youth group and Sunday services every week and is in a Christian band. I'm not atheist, I believe there is a God, but there's a lot of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy lets you stay the night?

Were not officially boyfriend and girlfriend yet, but we've been dating for three months. A few nights ago I went over to his house and I slept over. We had planned this a week before. There was absolutely no SEX (which I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is Playful Throwing Flirting

A girl I like throws things like she will empty my pencil case and throw it playfully laughing do you think she likes / is flirting with me

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ever had an Idiotic Eureka Moment?

For those unfamiliar with the the concept, an Idiotic Eureka Moment is where you suddenly realize something that has always been common knowledge to everybody else. For instance, last week it finally dawned on me that...

CuriousSteve

Xper 3 Age: 43

Marriage & Weddings

Do guys like their girlfriend or wife to be fierce and tough?

Which mean she wears the pant...what do you think of a girl who prefer her other half to be scared of her?

kangaru

Xper 5 Age: 48

Society & Politics

My Boyfriend is Obsessed with his celebrity crush!

I have an amazing boyfriend, he's caring and romantic and does very sweet things to me, but one thing I cannot stand is his obsession with Cheryl Cole. He talks about her, he dreams about her, and he tells me everything....

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a man calls you trouble?

I have been going to this bar for three years I go there just about every Friday. And for about a year now I have had a crush on one of the employees there we flirt and look at each other often. The manager there knows...

Blueeyeddarlin25

Xper 5 Age: 38

Where do nerdy girls like to hang out that is not at a school?

I want to date girls who are more into nerdy things, like books, or video games or anime. where can I find such girls generally? if you are one, where do you hang out?

Anonymous

(30-35)