All Questions

My boyfriend doesn't want me going to one of my best friends bachelorette parties? help!

i have a bachelorette party March 29th, it is overnight in NYC and is going to cost me at least 500 bucks, but the money does not concern me. the party is for one of my best friends and of course I want to go. I am 24...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are average celebrities so overrated beauty wise?

For example, George Clooney. Take away the fame and money and if he passed by you (the girls who find him so dreamy) while walking down the street you wouldn't even notice him. And if he hit on you, you'd probably think...

bombdotcom

Xper 4 Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

Girls how can I become the opposite of needy?

What are the detailed mannerisms, gestures, postures, moves, wording, etc. of someone who is not needy, I want to be one to get the girls

TheManHimself

Explorer Age: 40

Health & Fitness

If a girl has a muffin top, does that make you not look at her? make her unattractive?

say there's a decently good looking girl, if she has a somewhat visible muffin top, does that make her unattractive? Would you not look at her because she's no longer attractive? something like this link a little...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What does it mean when a guy kisses you aggressively?

I was dancing with my friend (we used to like each other and make out in the past, but we're just friends now) at a party and next thing I knew, we were kissing! He's never kissed me like that before, it felt so passionate.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Does girls hugging you/holding hands with you drunk does it mean anything?

queenstownrox

Xper 6 Age: 32

How do I hint I want a Promise Ring?

Okay hear me out for a quick second. I know, I know, promise rings are stupid - why not just skip the trouble and get an engagement ring? I had that mentality too. Until about 30 seconds ago when I realized that in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my boyfriend being spiteful?

My boyfriend is the jealous type and I stopped talking as much to other guys because he didn't really like it and I knew it was bothering him. But the other day when he asked if I talked to any guys at school I said yes,...

theperfectpretties

Xper 5 Age: 31

How Important is a Full Head of Hair and Height is to Women?

I do have a full head of hair, although I am staring to get some grey at the sides. I also stand 5'10", but keep myself in shape and work out regularly. I am curious how important hair and height are to women. Is it...

chx000

Xper 6 Age: 42

Flirting

What does it mean when a guy says you're his "best friend"?

Ok, what I mean is when a guy says to a girl "You are one of my best friends" or "You're my best friend" Does he actually think more of you? Like when a guy says that does he mean something deeper than what he says? For...

BrunetteBabe1005

Yoda Age: 32

Girls are weird about what they want to show?

So, I was sitting in a corner of the library reading and this girl sits at the desk in front of me. Her back is facing me and the desk is like 4 rows of books in front of me. She was wearing this polka dot dress, that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

A man will change, but only for the right woman. True or false?

I heard Steve Harvey say today, "that a man can change and he will change. But, only for one woman. The right woman" So, guys do you agree with that? Now, I don't mean change that is forced upon you or they'll leave...

loveisbeautiful

Editor Age: 39

What do guys think of the 50's pin up look on women?

Thoughts? Is it something you think is attractive, strange or are you indifferent to it? Is it sexy or cute or just a bit odd. I mean young brigitte bardot, early Joan Holloway if you need a pop culture reference. Think...

NewGirl28

Xper 5 Age: 38

Valentine's Day

Boyfriend's 17th Birthday Gift Ideas?

My boyfriend is turning 17 next week (it's two days before Valentine's day...). We've been together for about 5 months. My birthday was last week and he got me a really pretty bracelet that was probably pretty expensive....

Mogie

Xper 5 Age: 28

Family & Friends

Girl calls you her best friend.

What dies it mean when a girl called you her best friend? Almost everytime I call or text this girl she's like hey best friend...

mustang1998

Xper 7 Age: 34

Why is jessica alba so hot?

im not complaining, I certainly agree, but why? why is she so hot, can someone explain this to me

dave4u

Xper 2 Age: 37

Family & Friends

If 3 guys that are friends like the same girl?

What happens? How do they decide who gets her? Would the quieter one be more likely to bow out even if he really likes the girl? And the guys that do back out, does it mean they don't have as strong of feelings for her?...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boys help! How can I make PUA fall in love with me?

This is a silly question. but I know the guy I used to date is pua. How can I make him fall for me?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How long before asking her out on OkCupid?

I found an online dating profile of a girl I knew in Law School and who I was friends with on FB. I talked to her maybe a couple times in school, we were more acquaintances than anything. Anyway, I sent her a message on...

detroit87

Xper 6 Age: 38

Girl's Behavior

Why do people yell at cashiers?

I'll never understand what goes through someone's mind when they yell at a cashier because they won't get to them fast enough or because they won't let them skip to ring them up. What makes it worse is the people...

bombdotcom

Xper 4 Age: 32

Taking prescription pain meds before getting a body piercing?

I'm going to get my dimples pierced and I have some old 50mgs Ultram/tramadol that I never used. If I take this before the piercing will it completely remove all the pain for me? I really want it done but I'm kinda a wimp...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

What's the origin of the phrase "Once you go black, you don't go back" and does it have any truth to it?

Who came up with this phrase, why, and why is it a popular phrase? And if its true why does this phrase continue to live on?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girlfriend always wants me to apologize for stuff I didn't do.

So I told my girlfriend I would be on campus at a certain time just in casual conversation to let her know what my week would be like. She ended up going to campus to do homework and to drive me home to be nice. I...

Frunkiss

Xper 6 Age: 39

Should I be embarrassed about living in a trailer home?

I'm extremely embarrassed about living in a trailer home, and I'm afraid to tell my boyfriend where I live.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Guys, do you REALLY not get complimented that often?

I've often heard guys talk about how they barely get compliments. I've heard guys say they haven't been complimented in YEARS, and that when they do they think about to compliment for days. I get complimented at least a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you think a mons pubis that sticks out is attractive?

I'm 5'5 and weigh 125lbs, I'm not fat but my mons pubis sticks out. Especially when I wear leggings or a tight dress/skirt. Is this attractive? I need honest answers.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do some men try to impress girls with their money?

Is it because they're nervous, have self esteem or think that woman is a whore? I go to college near silicon valley and well aside from students there are a lot of very wealthy people here. I recently went out with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date someone poorer than you?

I'm middle class and this girl I'm talking to is from a rich family. We are both in college in the same class. I reckon that we are compatible at almost every level we've discussed so far. As a guy I've been taught to be...

TedStar

Guru Age: 34

Flirting

Why do some women give fake compliments?

I've never understood why some women give out fake compliments? They know its a fake compliment and they know the guy is shaking is head in disbelief. I've only received ''Compliments'' online and never in person. I...

Whitechocolate1001

Xper 3 Age: 41

Other

He says my butt is "cute" instead of sexy/hot, does that mean anything?

I've never really heard a guy describe a girl's ass as being 'cute' so it seemed kinda odd when he said it. I was laying on top him after making out and he grabbed it and said it was cute.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls stand so close to me?

Like for example at the bus station some girls really get so close to me as if they want me to bump on them. When there is so much space. Is it some kind of signal? Or do they feel protected because I am musculine gym guy?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Virgo women only?

there is a virgo female who stare at me and when I look at her eyes she would stare back at my eyes and she get nervouse , sometimes she smile and when I look at something she would look to see wht I'm looking at , we...

Anonymous

(30-35)