All Questions

Physio saw self harm scars?

So I hurt my shoulder in soccer and had to go see a physiotherapist today. Since I was wearing a sports bra under my shirt, she asked me to remove my shirt so she could take a better look at my shoulder. I have a lot of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Girls why did she add me on Facebook?

this girl I work with asked me today why I never accepted her friend request on FB, I told her I never got it, asked her multiple times and she swears she sent one, so I sent it from my phone and she added me, but if she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys: do you respond to texts out of politeness?

This guy and I used to hook up but ended pretty intensely. Now we are talking again. He's texted me on his own a few times but it's usually me. Now we are talking at least once a day via text. The other night he asked me...

lyssalady13

Xper 6 Age: 35

Relationships

The best part of having a girlfriend?

From what I've seen, girls seem like so much more trouble than any possible pay off they might bring. What justifies all the work and the pain necessary to create and sustain a relationship?

Agrojag

Yoda Age: 34

Do you feel like a living corpse?

I think I do. Well it feels like nothing now but... too many times have not been able to achieve what I wanted. My passion, my desire... I mean fuck be for being this way... it has been a long way from where I was and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you (girls or guys) ever compare their boyfriend/girlfriend with past sexual partner? and why?

Was sex better with your ex than with me? Have you been asked if sex is/was better with your current partner or with your ex”s? What would you answer? Do you ever compare how good your man is in bed with past sexual...

briven

Xper 6 Age: 54

Break Up & Divorce

Do you worry about being cheated on?

Perhaps you have trust but it still crosses your mind. Maybe something your partner says or does makes you wonder. Maybe you have been cheated on and have trust issues. Maybe you don't think anyone would ever cheat on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it self-hating to straighten "natural" or curly hair?

Is it self hating for women with this hair: link link link link To straighten their hair in hopes of having feminine looking hair like this: link link link Wouldn't she be...

bombdotcom

Xper 4 Age: 32

Relationships

Why don't men feel remorse after screwing a girl over

Why do guys always cheat, break a girls heart, and treat her lke crap for no reason when all she ever really did was love him? They never care either it's like they don't acknowledge that they've hurt someone, lowered...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How long does puppy love last?

How long would you say "puppy love" lasts? My boyfriend & I have been together for 3 months.. I'm just wondering.. We're always texting, all day everyday, except for school. I mean.. I can go without texting him a day ..

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can a guy be too good looking?

No, this isn't about me (I wish LOL). I have a friend who gets THE most mixed signals I've ever seen, it's insane. Basically - Has had offers from random people to do modeling because "he has that look" - Has been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He walked right past me?

So usually I walk home from school. Today a guy came up.too me . He said he always sees me walking by myself so he thought he'd walk with me. I was super flattered. We walked and talked a little and it was really nice. We...

skiperoo5

Xper 5 Age: 28

Are guys not approaching girls now because of an ego issue?

I was wondering about the abundance of "I don't approach women" comments and want to know if this is one of the factors in why a lot of guys won't approach women anymore. I feel like guys aren't approaching women because...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex girlfriend has a crush on a new guy. Moved on from me?

My ex girlfriend has a crush on a new guy according to her friend. We haven't talked since I broke up with her. I've been thinking texting her but I don't know if it will do any good because she has a crush on another...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, visible bra straps should you be told?

Girls. My sister of mine has always had bra strap issues, and she used to always wear sleeveless tops so it showed when they fell down but she always pulls up her straps if they fall on sleeveless tops immediatly so were...

greggles

Xper 4 Age: 39

Guys please- Are most guys awkward texters or is it just him?

ok so this may sound weird but ill do my best to explain. I met this guy online and we have our first date this weekend. We've been texting because of school and he works at night and stuff. But he is such a strange...

Anonymous

(30-35)

This girl was staring me down hardcore

So this girl in class was staring me down pretty intensely for most of class. She basically sat in a spot in the room where we were pretty much facing each other just about. Almost every time I diverted my attention from...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He says I'm out of his league? but WHY?

ok the guy who had huge crush on me during couple of years,no dates another girl...One of his friends told me, he thinks I'm out of his league and don't care 'bout hm.He Never asked me. I liked him,actually, I'm just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, your prespective on holding hands with female friends?

I've known my best friend for 9 going on 10 years, since we were in 9th grade, about two years into the friendship I developed feelings for him and told him, he said he only saw me as a friend, he moved schools junior...

Anonymous

(30-35)

"You will meet someone when you least expect it" - Bull?

Does anybody here actually believe those sayings such as "you will meet someone when you least expect it" or "you will meet someone when you are not looking" and other sayings along those lines? People in relationships...

knowmeyourself

Master Age: 39

Are there any women who like briefs on a guy?

Or even prefer that style? I wear them sometimes, but not tighty-whities.

jamaall89

Xper 7 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

When a guy blushes after you call him sexy is that a good thing?

There is this guy I have a thing for and been flirty with him through out texts. There is a bit of an age gap. He is 50 and I am 34. After calling him sexy he says I made him blush. I guess that is a good thing?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is it better to be a slow or fast texter when getting a girl interested?

so yeah slow or fast? in my case I'm trying to get my girlfriend a bit more interested in me and she's texting me now and she is a very slow texter so yeah and in general what do you think slow or fast?

Anonymous

(30-35)

If I have small breasts, should I avoid low cut tops/dresses?

My breasts are 34A, pretty small. I tend to wear padded, pushup bras to try to add cleavage but obviously there's only so much a bra can do. Should I just avoid low cut tops and dresses in general, because obviously I...

starfishh_

Xper 5 Age: 34

Will the no contact rule work on shy guys?

i've been dating a guy for 2 months and he broke up with me out of the blue, I haven't texted him in a week. Will the no contact rule work on shy men who don't make moves in the first place ?

leviicommand

Xper 5 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

Does my gym teacher like me?

Ok so I'm 18 and my gym teacher is in his early 20s. I had him last year for most of the year when my other teacher left to go to another school. There are so many girls in my school that like him and think he's hot and...

cece320

Xper 5 Age: 31

Why did he watch me leave? Does he want to break up with me?

When someone you are dating stands by their door and watches you walk out to your car and wait until you drive away does it mean it is the last time they will look at you? sorry to be so naive

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Do you ever wish you had an older sibling?

I'm the oldest of 6 kids, and sometimes, like when I watch advice vlogs on YouTube, or beauty tutorials and stuff... I just... I wish I had a big brother or sister to look out for me. Do any of yall oldest kids/only...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Do you find men ironing their clothes gay?

I like ironing my shirts and trousers. They look better, last longer and help me feel I look good. I have a stressful job, and can sometimes find a spot of ironing relaxing and a great way to unwind. Several girls I...

vision17

Xper 5 Age: 63

He doesn't cuddle when we sleep?

My boyfriend and I have been living together for 4 months and been dating for 6 months. At night he doesn't like to cuddle when we sleep. Most the time we will before going to bed. Is this normal to happend when we only...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

What car is most attractive for a man to drive?

Supposing you were dating a guy and he could drive any car, what make/ model and colour would you find most attractive and make you want to see him again?

Anonymous

(36-45)