His pupils no longer dilate... Does that mean he doesn't find me attractive anymore?

[Anonymous]

His pupils no longer dilate... Does that mean he doesn't find me attractive anymore? He says all the right words, but when I look into his eyes, his pupils remain still no matter what the lighting is... He doesn't take drugs or drink either... Please help...

[Mesonfielde]

Maybe it's because it's winter and it's always dark and the Sun doesn't shine into his eyes every now and then?

[maroonbro]

Check if his penis dilates, that'll pretty much tell you whether he is attracted to you or not

[QueenNikki]

There ya go!

[QueenNikki]

Its genetically impossible for pupils not to react to light, unless the person is dead.

[Asker]

I never said they didn't, just under the same lighting the pupils remain the same... Pupils dilate when somebody is looking at somebody they find attractive, its a scientific fact...

[bubble_tea]

asker, while my bio teacher also told me this scientific fact, the changes are minuscule to notice.

[QueenNikki]

"his pupils remain still no matter what the lighting is"... right, right. Well at this point all you're left with is what you want to hear because you're not going to get the right answer from strangers on the internet! You're being painfully insecure, do something about it, dont just sit behind your computer making stuff up in your head.

[QueenNikki]

@bubble_tea in what context?

[bubble_tea]

apparantly when you're IN LOVE your pupils dilate when you see that person you love, in some cases even when you just (strongly) think of your love.

she wants us to tell her to break up with him, because his eyes no longer dilate for her.

[QueenNikki]

@bubble_tea so basically you shouldn't expect love to make pupils look like you've basically shone a flashlight on them

[bubble_tea]

no.. they dilate in the other direction.. like there's sudden darkness

[QueenNikki]

@bubble_tea OOOHHHHH interesting!

[bubble_tea]

I have never seen eyes dilate that's not cause by lighting...

[QueenNikki]

It can happen with certain drugs, they just remain dilated until the high goes away, its hilarious!

[DodgersGM]

No offense meant, but I think you are reading way too much into this.

How does he treat you? How does he speak to you or about you? How do you feel when you are with him? Focus on those things, not his pupil dilation.

[BertMacklinFBI]

how the eff can people notice dilated pupils but me? srsly wtf? hahaa is it really that easy? cause I can't do it!

[RBT-RS]

You're over thinking things. And maybe overestimating your boyfriend. Pupils should not dialate by just seeing someone, or at least not without drugs.

[dartmaul15]

Actually they can. Your pupills dilate when seeing someone you feel very strong emotions towards

[RBT-RS]

Maybe I'm just a man of steel then lol

[AJElectric]

Maybe because the excitement of first seeing you is gone.

[Marstalk]

Stop being so paranoid. Pupil dilation does not necessarily indicate attractive or not.

[itsme_goodsamaritan]

Maybe, he should visit an ophthalmologist lol.

[meatballs21]

You cannot be serious.

[Anonymous]

not necessarily. he's just bored with you now.

[Anonymous]

woahh is this real? :D :D

[Anonymous]

Women really observe every tiny detail don't they?

[QueenNikki]

Its because men act like its all so obvious, its not and it makes us paranoid haha

[Marstalk]

The same could be said in reverse.