I think his response was rude. But i think that you also don't really have a right to say anything regarding who is seeing. Thats apart of being in a friends with benefits situations. You are friends, but with the added benefits of sexual activity. However, if one of those people in the friends with benefits finds someone that they feel they are compatible with the other should be happy for them as they would be for any other friend. So if this was just a guy friend who met and found your friend thats a girl someone that they are interested in seeing, then you would be happy for them, correct? Same has to apply here. This is my opinion on the situation at least.
I do feel he could've been more respectful in the way he explained this to you.
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Depends on your relationship honestly.
Crossing lines in an unemotionally attached situation, no. BUT, how he talked to you... definitely crossing some major lines. Never let a man talk to you like that. Never let a man refer to another person as a bitch, especially a friend.
I think what was most out of line was his reaction, someone who refers to a girl as "the bitch" is a disgusting person, get rid of him. And maybe you should tell your friend, I'd hate to go out with someone who called me "the bitch" behind my back.
Your reaction was out of line but his reaction was WAY out of line!
Go find someone who wants more than just friends with benefits
you obviously care if you think its disrespectful he goes for a friend. im not bashing btw, no hate! :D
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How about you leave the guy alone and let him do as he wishes. He's clearly not your boyfriend (both of you agreed) and if he by any chance likes your friend let him be. Don't be jealous.
"you down own the bitch or me"
he sounds like an asswipe. I wouldn't have any contact with him..That's why I am against FWB. Your reaction is no different from if you guys were dating...
He's just your fwb. Not boyfriend. He can do that.
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