All Questions

What should a fat girl wear to the gym?

So my friend (who is on the bigger side) and I went to our school's gym this morning to exercise before class. She had never been there before so I took her with me to show her around and help her exercise. She asked me...

RedSmartie

Yoda Age: 32

What kind of person doesn't say thank you to birthday wishes?

An a**hole? Someone who simply doesn't care? I'd like to know. This one guy I am acquainted with never bother to say thank you or to "like" the birthday wishes he gets. It's not the first time he does. I find it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have you ever had to use your pepper spray on someone?

If they assaulted you. Was it effective? Any other self-defense method you've used?

heavenonearth

Guru Age: 32

What does it mean when a girl says me sweet dreams and take care?

This girl is a very good friend of mine. I have some feelings for her but I don't know if she likes me or not. But we are good friends. While chatting on Facebook, when she has to go she always tells me sweet dreams and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a girl slaps you, would you slap her back?

Just wondering since it happens so often in movies. Does it matter why? For example, if you insulted her, cheated on her, or something vs. she just did it out of nowhere. Your reaction?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does a girl mean when she says "you always know the right thing to say?"

So I've heard this from many girls. And I don't get it. I am supportive and I usually try to say things in a good tone, even when I'm telling them they are wrong. The thing is sometimes I don't think I said anything, I'm...

sage-of-caring

Xper 7 Age: 37

Male friends teases me constantly

We are both in our 30s and met at work less than a year ago. Right from the start he started teasing me esp. about my height-thinks I am short. I can't have a normal conversation with him without him teasing me about...

jadelola

Xper 5 Age: 50

Family & Friends

I think my sister got her period while staying with me. What to do?

My parents are out of the country and my sister is on spring break, so she is staying in a different state with me. We are usually close but all day she has been avoiding me. I couldn't figure out why and then I saw blood...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Should I surprise visit my ex girlfriend?

Its been three years since I have seen her and after being unhappy I realize she's been the one. I left herand I am the one who cheated on her but I did change. No its not complete bs I did I learned my lesson. During the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Insecure about acne marks at gym

I really want to join a local CrossFit gym, but, like nearly everything that requires me to tie my hair back, I'm feel insecure and uncomfortable. I know everyone probably isn't paying too much attention, and they're...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My crush avoids eye contact with me :(?

so I'm 16, he's 17. he's pretty outgoing and confident, but I heard he has a fear of rejection and is kinda inexperienced with girls -whenever I see him in a crowded hallway he completely avoids eye contact with me,...

lilia1234567890

Xper 3 Age: 30

What actors do you girls find attractive, hot, sexy?

what actors do you girls find attractive,hot,sexy?

Redbaren

Xper 5 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

2 weeks after the fight and we Haven't talked at all...what should I do?

we were together almost 2 years, and have been broken up for 2 months when the fight happened...basically I tried to talk to him about something he did which I thought he shouldn't have done. my friend who has a fb told...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I'm torn between to girls.. help me I don't want to cheat on anyone..

I am 16 years old . I have a girlfriend . we are in different college. but still I somehow managed to ask her out and she accepted it . after sometime we came in relationship. but problem is few days ago she told me that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this skirt too short?

I just recently bought this skirt. link After seeing it for months on the South Korean fashion scene I finally spot it in a local store and bam impulse buy. I'm about to walk out of the house one day and my dad tells...

SuckingurLollipop

Xper 3 Age: 30

Why did my boyfriend break up with me after our miscarriage?

Long story short- we were friends before we started hooking up. We remained on and off bed buddies for two years before we fought then didn't speak for a few weeks till I found out I was pregnant. At first he thought I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is 18 and 22 a big age difference?

the girl is 18 and the guy is 22...what can a 22 year old do with a 18 year old? at least have positive motivation for the guys don't just let him be the cause of you getting off your tale to do something and you give him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm unable to initiate physical affection with my boyfriend

What is wrong with me? I can hug babies, children, my mum and my brother...but - as much as I want to, I cannot initiate physical affection with my boyfriend. He has brought the issue up and I'm afraid he might go...

onlyacrush

Xper 5 Age: 39

Why do the boys in my class like to tease me?

All the boys in my class likes to tease me a lot. They hid my phone (they even make a schedule of who will hide it everyday!), hiding somewhere to scare me, ask me something that I don't understand just to 'boo' me in the...

Parkanya

Xper 5 Age: 29

He said he doesn't want to ruin our friendship

A good friend of mine (we've known each other a few years) and I just recently started hanging out a lot. We text everyday, see each other at least every other day and normally go to the movies or each others houses on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex girlfriend persistently asks about my love life... What does this mean?

She (20) dumped me (25) about three months ago. We had so great relationship for about two years, and she chased me almost one year before that! She was TOTALLY crazy for me and did EVERYTHING to get me! Finally I started...

wantpowerback

Xper 5 Age: 39

"Watching a movie" ?

Does "watching a movie" always mean that a guy wants more? Or how is it to be understood?

emona

Xper 5 Age: 33

If a guy refers to a girl as 'lady friend' - what does that mean?

Hi Guys. Today a girl in my class asked a guy in my class if he had seen his 'lady friend' last night. he answered 'perhaps' with a smirk on his face. English is not my first language, so what does that mean? Is this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does cleavage tell you about a girl?

I usually don't show cleavage Because I'm a bit embarrassed and shy but girls when you show cleavage do you feel like a magnet to guys? Guys when you see a girl showing cleavage do you approach her respectfully?

gomiba18

Xper 3 Age: 33

How can I get past the "awkward stage" with my boyfriend?

My boyfriend and I just started dating, and it's a little awkward for me (we've been friends for a few years). It seems like it might be awkward for him, but I can't tell. Is there anyway to get past this stage as quickly...

NekoMeow

Xper 5 Age: 31

Is "Maybe a rain check" a good sign? OK need some advice on this girl.

Ok this girl in my class we have been talking and texting. Today I decided to sit next to her. Her friend was sitting on the other side of her and they were talking. She wouldn't even look at me, but started texting me....

elfmasta00

Xper 5 Age: 41