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Boyfriend has nude pics of his Ex's on computer

Hi I need some advice as to what I should do. My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and lately our sex life has basically become worse and worse to where now we only have sex maybe about once a month. We...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Exclusive friends with benefits?

Has anyone had this kind of relationship? I've been seeing this guy for about 2 mos, I met him on a dating site. we both still active on the site, but we both were not dating anybody else.. I know he's not on a date w...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I wear tighter jeans than girls. Is it ok?

I love wearing Super skinny jeans because it feels so good when I have it on and legs feels so tight, and also looks awesome how my legs look like. Im not wearing skinny jeans like 95% guys, but just very super tight...

-Superman-

Xper 5 Age: 33

She stole my boyfriend and I want him back.

this girl came into the scene a year back, and now she's bitched about me to my guy, fed him lies god knows what. and she stole him, and I didn't even do anything to be at the recieving end of this shizz. I need my boy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys' peripheral vision

Hey guys. I'm wondering how you 'check out' girls you find interesting without giving her clues. There's this lad in my class who's always sitting at the front and I'm somewhere in the next road - and very often tends to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

What is the ideal weight for a 5'4 female?

I am 5'4 and currently weigh 125. I was curious what is an ideal weight for a female at 5'4. Thank you!

confused415

Xper 7 Age: 39

Is my guy friend embarrassed of me?

I've been his friend for about 2 years. Although he's not in any of my classes, we have been spending out lunchtime together in the library. However, recently, when there are a lot of people in the library, he just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he randomly text me? Why do guys in general randomly text a girl?

There is this guy I met last semester in college and I thought he might have a crush on me, but I let it go because he never made a "bold" move. We had a class together during the fall. When fall finals were over, he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Is it weird that I've never had a nightmare?

I can recall all the dreams that I have every night because I'm trying to induce lucid dreaming at some point, but I've never recalled having a nightmare which has made me wake up during the middle of the night. Sure,...

RaoAyush

Xper 5 Age: 30

Letting someone buy you drinks when you have a bf/gf, OK or not?

I'm just curious about how people feel about this. If you are dating someone, we'll say relatively seriously (you consider them to be your boyfriend/girlfriend) and they are not at the bar/club with you, is it OK to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Signs a social butterfly likes you

I have this guy friend who is very lively and nice to everyone. I heard he acts somewhat different with me. I want to know the signs I should look for when I am with him. Thanks in advance!

rubiiistone

Xper 4 Age: 31

Society & Politics

How did he find me on Facebook?

Ok so I met this person I have never met before, we have zero mutual friends, and we did not know each other. Only thing he knew was my FIRST NAME and CELL NUMBER. My first name is common, and my cell number is NO WHERE...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Gap between the thighs...I was watching the news about women's legs and heard this

That women now or I should say young women want to have a gap between their thighs.. I never really paid any attention to this but is this really that big of a deal?

1-3-2-4

Yoda Age: 41

If a guys say "we should party sometime" what does that mean?

I met him at a few different parties recently we talked a bit and after talking on Facebook for a little he gave me his number and said we should party sometime. A little while later I went and hung out in his room with a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you want a girl to laugh at your jokes even if they're not funny?

I was just thinking about this today. We all know there's all these stupid dating rules (as if dating isn't hard enough as is), that you're suppose to follow (or whatever lol.) And, one of those quote "rules" is. A...

loveisbeautiful

Editor Age: 39

Fashion & Beauty

Why did he look away when I smiled at him?

Me and crush always look at each other a lot to the point when his friends start wondering who he's looking at an they all look at me. I saw him afterschool and I was with my friends laughing and talking he crossed the...

Ch3lsxax7

Xper 5 Age: 34

Last time you peed your pants?

So, after seeing a friend get so drunk she peed her pants this past weekend, I got to wondering, how many others have had a similar fate. For me, a few years ago (when I was around 19) I had a dream that I was on the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are tank tops sexy on men?

i have a few and need to know if women find them sexy, I mean look at hugh jackman as wolverine, e.t.c, and if not sexy why?, and if so why?, should I get rid of them or should I keep them, how can I make them sexy if I...

privatehelp01

Xper 6 Age: 38

Do tan lines matter?

Guys- do tan lines on girls matter? What tan lines are OK, or would you prefer tanned breasts or a complete all over tan? Girls- what tan lines do you prefer to have? What tan lines do you usually end up with? Do you tan...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl asked me to come see her at her job this weekend - is she flirting?

A really pretty girl who I catch staring at me told me that she is working this weekend at a restaurant and asked me to come by and see her at work. Do girls ever do that just as a friendly thing or is she flirting?...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I move on if he updated his online profile?

I went on a second date with a guy and he said he had a great time. However, I just saw him changed his profile picture on a dating a website. I feel like maybe he didn't really like me and want to see what is out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

How can I look less like a goody goody?

So everyone says I look like a goody goody.that's the impression people who don't know me have before they get to know me.it's kind of annoying because anyone who really knows me knows that I am the complete opposite! So...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My hair won't stay up in anything I put it in!

Okay so I have medium/long(just below shoulder blade length hair, super thick and silky(as everyone tells me) now today I wanted it in a single braid and I got it up in one no problem but after sitting then getting up to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

GIRLS!!! is this Good or bad? Texting until she falls asleep

I've been texting this girl more and more lately. She's fully aware I like her and I think she might be interested in me. We will text most of the day and usually until we go to bed. The usual is that we will say...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I stupid for being upset that my boyfriend didn't acknowledge my birthday?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We've been long distance for the last year. Last year, we were fighting a lot around the time of my birthday and he ignored it, no call, no text, no email,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Do you believe a persons actions will tell you everything you need to know?

Rather Than What Someone Says, Meaning That Actions Speak Louder Than Words... Why Or Why Not?

LilKim

Xper 7 Age: 46

He's shorter than me! How do I handle him physically?

I've recently started seeing this guy and long story short: he's perfect, we have so much instant chemistry it's ridiculous. Everyone loves us together, and says we're adorable and should make babies. I'm perfectly fine...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If a guy calls you reserved is that a good thing?

If a guy calls you reserved is that a good thing? And what does he mean by that?

YouknowyouloveitXoXo

Xper 5 Age: 35

Do guys (especially shy ones) send songs to a girl they like?

I'm really curious, do guys ever send a girl they like a love song or something to describe their feelings without actually saying anything? Or do guys just send songs because they like the song? (A shy guy perspective...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Single moms having a social party life.. How much is too much?

I am a young single mother. My child's father is completely out of the picture and his family doesn't contact my child. I have great support from my family who are willing to watch my child while I go to work. If I go out...

Unacknowledged

Xper 5 Age: 42

What do guys think about uneven boobs?

I'm in high school have a great boyfriend and am pretty happy with myself. But I'm scared to do anything with him because what if he sees my boobs there uneven(left A, Right B) and it kills my self of steam but if we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

My girlfriend has a serious attitude problem, how do I deal with her?

I mean she fights all the time about the smallest things. I cannot joke with her or else she will get mad at me. When she is stressed out or something doesn't go her way she explotes and starts bitching at everybody. She...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you feel when someone randomly compliments you?

Just wondering. Do you Like It If someone random complimented you? Weather your in a relationship or not? Do you Tend to like It or not?

zdub220

Xper 6 Age: 35