All Questions

When a guy asks a girl to go on holiday?

When a guy asks me to go on holiday with them I tend to think that's an indication that it is a step forward in the relationship and I do consider my decision as to whether or not to go quite seriously. I know that...

kelless

Xper 5 Age: 44

Waiting 5 or 7 days to call her?

A guy gets a girl's number. Most guys call the next day or 2 days after. A guy can stand out by calling her 5 to 7 days later. And she will have been anticipating it.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

He'll look at the ground and smile every now and then. Why does he do that?

Whenever I am talking to this guy (we recently become close), he'll look at the ground and smile every now and then. It is this little discreet smile and it is driving me crazy! He'll smile like that when I crack a corny...

Kamio

Xper 6 Age: 35

Why do guys hate it when we girls run our fingers through their hair? and why do you guys hate it?

okay so me and my boyfriend who I am with since one year were talking today and he was looking so adorable that I ran my fingers in his hair. FROM FRONT TO THE BACK I ran the fingers. I expected him to be happy but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

There's a cute guy at church!

He added me on Facebook first, we met a few times in group meetings, but he has a lot girl friends so we aren't close especially I'm new to the group. Then I was a bit late to the gathering and appeared a bit embarrassed...

Lonergirl0506

Xper 6 Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Why doesn't my girlfriend never want to see me in person but will talk to me on the phone or text?

Sooo...I met this girl on fb around late may of 2012 and we've been talking ever since, August 3 2012 is when we made each other official to one another, we can talk about any and everything she makes me laugh like no...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She says my name A LOT?

So, lately I've noticed that a friend of mine really likes saying my name. Examples: she doesn't just say hi, she says: Hi Chris. She doesn't just say bye, she says bye Chris. She doesn't just ask a question in a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are girls so warm?

So I was sitting next to a cute girl on the bus. We talked a little because we go to the same college. Anyway, when we were sleeping, our legs touched for a while. Sometimes, our arms touched. But I don't know if she knew...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do girls find brown skinned Indian/Paki guys so unattractive?

Well, I live in China and I don't see any Asian girls who are into brown skinned Indian guys. Chinese girls here in Beijing love dating foreigners but only white guys, black guys, or any other race with a light skin....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would my boyfriend treat me like the enemy?

We have been together almost 2 years and lately when I speak to him its like he looks for a negative meaning. He is treating me more like an enemy than lover. We had a wonderful 1st year how can things change so quickly?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Broke up with him & he texted me like nothing happened?

Dated for 4 months. I broke up with him via text, told him things weren't working. I KNOW I KNOW. I TRIED to break it off face to face but he's been "soo busy"... too busy to call me back. HENCE, why it just wasn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it wrong to accept friend requests from guys on Facebook when you have a boyfriend?

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and we made an agreement to not add or accept random people of the opposite gender on Facebook. I'm fine with that, but whenever I accept guys that I KNOW from school...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girlfriend made me choose between female friend and her...

which is no problem for me because I simply chose her and broke my friendship with my bff who happens to be a female. Here is the story : it was a Friday night and I asked my best friend (Kayla) to hang out with me (my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Is it weird to offer my ex tickets for a gig I bought him as a surprise while we were still together?

Ok back story... we'd only been together 4 months and about 2 weeks before we broke up I got hold of some tickets to see a band he really wants to see. He broke up with me because of HIS issues and apparently not being...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to look less intimidating and scary?

My mom met a guy a month ago and she brought him over to meet my sister and I last week. He told my mom he was scared of me, and that I look intimidating. I don't wanna scare him away on my mom. I don't understand. I...

chriistellkelly

Xper 3 Age: 30

Health & Fitness

Why do Asian women have such nice skin?

I realize not all have clear, flawless skin, but a lot do. Is it their dedication to skincare? genetics? Diet? Someone told me that Asian women and dark skinned black women have small pores, which is why they're usually...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

Shy guy is ignoring me. Why? Is he mad, not interested or too shy?

There is this guy that I've known for a while. I have always had difficulty in talking to him as he is very shy but that has never seemed to bother me until recently. He seems very nervous when I approach him, he is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am going to fail my exam tomorrow because of lack of studying. What would you do if you were me?

I just know that I am going to fail my exam tomorrow because of lack of studying. Yes, stupid move on my part. I just don't know what do to. My life is a mess and I am basically looking into the ruins that is my life. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Egging the ex's house?

Trust me! He deserves it. Basically we dated for six months and he never told me he wasn't ready for a relationship until it was far too late to say that. And he said things like he didn't like seeing me and he stopped...

helpha

Yoda Age: 31

Asking a girl out again a second time..

I'm in a situation where I met a girl she was constantly sitting behind me a few rows and in the end I introduced myself to her. she was friendly and gave me her name and told me what she did etc. two weeks later I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

If someone says, "If I asked you out, what would you say?"

While talking to a guy I met recently, a friend of mine mentioned to him that a different man had asked me out earlier that day. The guy I was talking to wanted to know if I turned the other guy down or not (I had), then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If it was a bad kiss, would you tell her?

So this guy and I kissed for the first time a little while ago, and since then he hasn't brought it up again. Personally, I thought it was a nice kiss; I wasn't as nervous as I thought I would be. One thing was that I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What if your crush had a booger??

What if your crush has a booger. You're really cute and perfect crush has a hanging booger. What if?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys say "yay"? Why?

Okay, so the other day a close guy friend of mine (whom I have a crush on) texts me asking if I was going to this bar because a few of our mutual friends were going out. I replied that yes, I was going to be there and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls what do you think if a guy blushes?

Sometimes I blush for no reason. It's weird. I'm not embarrassed at all but my face will sometimes blush which then makes me embarrassed. Even when I'm talking to a girl that I know well. It happens mostly when I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls when a guy is walking behind you, what do you think about?

When a guy is walking behind you like at some hallway or on the street and remember behind you ! Not fallowing you !

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls have you ever made an exception to a guy in speedos?

So we already know a lot of girls preference is for guys to wear shorts, no need to ask that. But have you ever seen a guy in speedos and thought he looked good? Even if it was just once or twice in your life? Maybe you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I get headaches at the movie theatre?!

I am an avid movie-goer, and I can't stand the headaches!Like I go to the movies all the time and this is just ridiculous! I would go to the movies, watch an amazing movie like Skyfall, and then as soon as the credits &...

remsterz

Xper 3 Age: 31

Should I tell her my intentions?

I've meet this girl a month ago, before we even knew are selves, I made out with her in her car, then at my place. She mentioned she wanted to take things slow I replied that I understood. We hung out a bit before that....

ablindman

Xper 5 Age: 32

Tell my boyfriend to man up?

So I'm dating this really great guy, but the thing is he's really sensitive. I know finding a sensitive guy is rare and lucky, but sometimes he's really overbearing and wimpy. How can I nicely tell him to man up a little?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you perceive people who randomly dance around in public places?

I tend to do this a lot especially with my when I hear music or have my ear buds plugged in. I straight up go full blown and start dancing...where ever I am..like the grocery store. Is it crazy?

Cuddle_Muffin

Yoda Age: 95

Girl postponed our date. Is she just not interested?

So I've been talking to this girl for almost two weeks now. We hung out the first time like a week and a half ago and haven't since. She laughed a lot,seemed into me, I guess. Since then we've sort of just been talking...

hayden543

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

Guys, does popularity matter to you?

Guys at my school seem to only fancy literally the 5 most popular girls at school... so, is that normal? Does popularity make any difference when picking a girl?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys have to put themselves out there way more than girls do in order to meet a potential somebody

to land a date or acquire a relationship with? it really angers me, pisses me off, frustrates me, makes me want to violently explode often times, also, why do guys have to have "balls", have guts, initiative,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Chocolate as a pre-workout meal... thoughts?

Before working out yesterday I had a LOT of chocolate. A few Kit-Kat bars to be exact. After about an hour I was itching to go run. As it turns out, I felt like I had more energy and drive going through my workout than...

WoIIie

Guru Age: 36