My dad's girlfriend doesn't like me?

[Anonymous]

She's been nice to me and talkative with me since i moved in a couple of weeks ago and out of no where she's having an issue with me and the fact that my dad is building me a room downstairs. She said he's spending a lot of money on it and I'm 99% sure she said to him that she didn't even want me here in the first place. When my little sister mentioned about my room she said "i don't want to hear about her fucking room. I don't want to hear about it" Should I even worry about it? i have to live with her and be around her and i don't like to not be liked especially when i didn't do anything wrong..

[Charley2310]

I'd speak to your dad about it. I had similar experiences with my dad's girlfriend but I only spent holidays and weekends there.
I didn't speak to my dad about it but went home upset every time. My mum refused to say anything as she felt it wasn't her place to. I just ignored it because I was afraid of my dad's reaction. I'd always been a daddy's girl but this woman just didn't seem to like me. She told me that I wasn't allowed to see my dad on his birthday because her and her kids were going to a restaurant with him. She started slagging me off and eventually my dad sided with her. She said I was spoilt and that I wasn't interested in being apart of my dad's new family. She said I was responsible for all the arguments between her and my dad and that I was making her ill. My dad agreed with all this. I stopped going over for awhile. I told my dad I'd rather see him just for the day away from his girlfriend's house to begin with, that I was uncomfortable in their home together and would not be going. My dad agreed. Then he spoke to his girlfriend. My dad then said I either saw him at his house with his girlfriend or not at all. I last spoke to him on April 23rd and my last words to him were "Get out my house".

I wonder if there might have been a different outcome if I'd spoke to my dad about his girlfriend earlier. Instead she changed me from a bubbly teenager that always smiled to a pessimistic girl that wanted to stay at home for 18 months. Maybe it was avoidable.

[wowzer]

Tell your dad what the b-tch said.