All Questions

Does anyone else think too far ahead when they meet someone they like?

For example getting too excited too soon. Before you really know a guy and his intentions and how he sees you. For some reason when I like a guy. In my head I imagine how I'd be with them and then settle down. I'm not...

shannon21

Xper 6 Age: 33

Why is my ex upset that I unfriended him on Facebook?

He broke up with me a few days ago because he was afraid of getting hurt. I did something a few months ago to damage his trust, and our relationship hasn't been the same since. Plus we had a few other problems. He said he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did this guy push my hand away?

I have a guy friend that I am attracted to. He is a conservative christian and I am not. He shows signs that he likes me. But today I held his hand to read the lines on his palm jokingly. Because we were having a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

What's the worst part of being in the friendzone? Or why do so many guys hate it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

If a girl is too comfortable around you, is it a sign of lack of attraction to the guy?

If a girl is too comfortable around you, is it a sign of lack of attraction to the guy? too comfortable means: - she dresses up in causual clothes - uses bad language - reveals personal problems

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it weird he hasn't added me on Facebook yet?

I've been dating this guy over a month now and we both make references to Facebook so I know he's active on it. Is it weird that he hasn't added me? I met him online, we have no mutual friends so it makes me think he may...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think some women get away with wearing less if they're comfortable in it?

I've seen some women dress very skimpily and it suites them very well - they wear it with some sort of a lever of comfort - they seem to be 'lived in' looks that work well on them naturally. Other times, I see women...

LittleSally

Influencer Age: 37

How much do abs matter on a guy?

When fooling around and a guy takes off his shirt and a girl sees abs; what does that do?

PrinceSoren

Xper 6 Age: 32

I hate make up on EVERYONE and ALWAYS - it makes people look artificial, and makes them believe they must hide who they are in order to be liked.?

I honestly hate the idea of makeup from about five different perspectives, but I'm not sure if I'll be able to recall all of them as I'm typing this question. It's all problematic from the very core. You're essentially...

Mesonfielde

Master Age: 34

Your opinion on pole dancing? Turn on or normal?

Hey, so I do pole dancing as a fitness exercise and wanted to know if it's a turn on for guys? I don't remove any clothes and it's really all for core and muscle strengthening. Recently I got a pole installed in my house,...

xkaylakayla

Xper 5 Age: 32

My boyfriend kicked me in the stomach, he said it was a reflex from me slapping his thigh to hard. What should I do?

Me and my boyfriend were laying in bed me horizontally and him vertically, watching tv. He farted right in my direction and I told him to please not do that. After a few minutes he did it again so I slapped him right on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My BOYFRIEND wants me to be MORE clingy?

So i've been with this guys for 8 months, and sometimes i feel it's weird because he kinda wants me to be more clingy. He will want me to message him more often or call him more. sometimes he will test me - by saying he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: Do you like sleeping in your boyfriends arms?

Girls: Do you like sleeping in your boyfriends arms

Anonymous

(30-35)

Being distant after second date, what should I do?

A question for women but guys are more than welcome to give their input. Went and got coffee with this woman and we exchanged contact information, after which we bumped into each other a few times and talked a bit. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend says I'm needy, should I leave this relationship?

He says I'm needy, doesn't that mean he doesnot wanna be with me?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does that mean he doesn't like me cause he talks about other girls in front of me?

it's weird cause he shows all the signs that he likes me. he says he loves me all the time and he is always staring at me I could go on and on about all the signs that he likes me. Yet, he mentions a girl I slightly know...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am the complete opposite of his ex?

My new boyfriend recently (very recently) got out of a serious relationship which worries me. He was dumped by her. I have been told I am out of his league, or that I'm prettier than his ex but I can't help but worry he...

Anonchic1

Xper 3 Age: 28

Do guys like it when girls run their fingers through their hair?

My (kinda) boyfriend laid his head down on my lap and I just sat there and ran my fingers through his hair. Do guys like that sort of thing? Sidenote: how can you tell if a guy wants to kiss you? And what should a...

meganscott

Xper 5 Age: 31

How to tell girl she looks better without makeup without offending her?

There are girls I know who are good looking, who look better without the makeup on. either they dont know how to put makeup or it is unnecessary. as a guy, i think she looks more attractive without it. one example is...

Ferruccio77

Xper 6 Age: 35

Other

What does it mean if a guy rubs your back?

this guy I've hooked up with before kept rubbing my back lightly when we were sitting next to each other together. we were with a group of people too. is he just trying to be affectionate or get some?

Anonymous

(30-35)

(Guys) If a girl just kissed you out of nowhere then what?

What if a girl just randomly kissed you and she was fairly attractive? One honest opinion I heard from a guy was that he would kiss her back if she was hot but if she wasn't, he would walk away. Is this true for all guys?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Straight girls, are you in any way attracted to other girls?

I don't know why it seems many "straight" girls like females as well or parts of them. Of course i see this only on internet. If a girls is straight then she doesn't like other girls, if she does she is gay or bi, that's...

Jennifer747

Xper 5 Age: 41

How Do I Look?

I've never been called pretty by a guy my age, do I not look pretty?

No guys have ever called me: cute, pretty, hot so does that mean I'm unattractive? I feel like girls get called it by guys even ones they don't know! This is what I look like if you care: (I love taking pics with my dog haha)

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend saw me with my legs unshaved?

I have extremely hairly legs. My boyfriend saw them unshaved, would he get freaked out by this?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Girls, can you lift and carry me?

I am 5'8 tall and 117 lbs. Please list your height, weight, age and for how long you can carry me.

StyleRxD

Xper 4 Age: 30

Break Up & Divorce

Why hasn't he filed divorce yet?

I been with my boyfriend for 6 months. I knew he was separated from his wife and not going back. He said he wasn't happy and felt pressured to marry her. With knowing this I felt secure getting with him. Everything is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

How did/do you get rid of your love handles (oblique fat build-up)?

I want a slimmer waist and less fillings (fat) in my muffin top area (obliques). Can someone recommend some workout routine or plan to burn that fat and slim down my waist size? My body looks like this-...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Ladies, what do you really mean when saying "i will always love you" ? What does that imply for the FUTURE of US? (read details)?

I confessed to this girl i love because she was showing interest and i told her i can't have a relationship now because of some things going on in my life. She says "there's no goodbye between us. i will never forget you,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: How important are perfect teeth in a guy?

Just wanted some feedback from girls, how important is it for a guy to have perfect straight/white teeth?

David932

Xper 5 Age: 32

Does any find Caribbean Men attractive?

I'm Generally speaking about men from the islands like Jamaica, Trinidad, Barbados, St.Lucia, Guyana, Bahamas and many more... Please give me your opinion, I would really appreciate it. :)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys care if your stomach isn't flat?

Like not too big, just not perfectly flat? If a girl is still physically active every day and eats right, but her stomach isn't perfect looking.

Anonymous

(30-35)

How should I confront a guy that kicks my chair Or should I just keep ignoring it?

It's really getting on my nerves, I mean he doesn't need to stretch his legs out that far to hit my chair. I can't tell if it's intentional but I'm sure he can tell I scoot in more when he hits my chair so that he can't...

Keenisha

Yoda Age: 30

What scent do you like on girls?

which scent do you like the most? sweet, sexy, fresh, or any other scents. I heard that guys like vanilla scents is that true?

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do guys think of girls who can't dance? Or are a little uncoordinated?

I'm not the most coordinated person in the world, I'm a petite build, but tall for my size, so just a little "lanky", but not overly. So I feel a bit self conscious about my arms, and what to do with them etc. Usually, I...

bethanyyy

Xper 7 Age: 39

My girlfriend called me "disgusting fatso," in an argument. Do you think that's how she truly feels underneath?

Me and my girlfriend had a fight she initiated, she has been very antagonistic lately. When I wanted to give in and end it she said " I don't even know why I put up with you you disgusting fatso". That's when I had to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Gym shorts under pants? and sagging?

Guys why do you wear gym shorts under your sweatpants or jeans [And you're not even going to the gym or play sports] & then sag you pants so we see the shorts? Like why do you wear so many layers? Why do you sag?

Bubbles40

Xper 7 Age: 36