All Questions

Why do I smirk when I tell people bad news?

Might be a dumb question, but here goes. I did it the other day, explaining why a co worker could not come into work was because her husband's brother passed. I found myself to be smirking almost. I don't know why I...

simpleandclean101

Xper 5 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

My ex left me a voice mail today.

She broke up with me 2 months ago for not communicating with her enough and I think she was a bit disappointed I didn't fight for her. But it's how I am. When someone dumps me that's it. She's been sending a few texts...

tre101

Xper 5 Age: 37

I hate my crush...but I "like" him?

My crush can be so obnoxious at times. He always tries to tease me in front of the whole school for months about liking this another guy who I absolutely hate no interest in, tease me for looking at him, repeat everything...

Maren

Xper 5 Age: 29

Do I have the right to give my boyfriend an ultimatum between our relationship & a rave?

My boyfriend is a wonderful guy and you do trust him but he told me he is making plans to go to tomorrowland (the worlds biggest rave, literally across the world) with his two single friends, it's not that I don't trust...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he look at me sideways?

When I talk to this guy I noticed he does something strange. We will be facing each other, but he will look at me out of the corner of his eye instead of directly. He will smile while doing this too. Nobody has ever...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do ratchet things happen at the music festivals?

My boyfriend told me that him, his cousin and his best friend are going to the ultra music festival in March 2014 in Miami. Do people act wild and nasty at the music festivals? I've heard that the Essences Music Festival...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys like girls' hands?

there is this guy at school who flirts with me sometimes. he came up to me and was chatting with me. he's a tall guy and I'm a short gal..he's 6"4 or so and I'm 5"1 and a half. when he was talking to me he said "wow you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What to wear to a Tilly's interview?

I have an interview at the clothing store, Tilly's, and have no clue what to wear! I know I should dress "fashion forward" but I don't know what to wear..and anyone know what questions they'll ask? Thanks in advance!

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

My boyfriend is racist and I'm black. How do I cope?

I feel so bad. I know my boyfriend has a racist side if he hangs around these people. My boyfriend just sent me a picture of him and his friends playing a drinking game. I asked if those were the friends that I couldn't...

Picopa

Xper 6 Age: 39

At what age do girls start crushing on boys?

What age do girls feel like having a crush on boys.. and what are the boys' character traits, what makes girls develop crushes?

loveboy23

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why foreign guys like Filipino girls?

I saw many foreigns here in the philippines looking for filipina girls to be their partner.i just wanna know why? No rude answer please...

chikababe

Xper 5 Age: 40

Men, do you notice when a woman does her eyebrows ?

A lot of women spend so much time getting their eye brows plucked or drawing them in. They may freak out like they are becoming a hairy beast if they start to see the loose strains coming in. Also, A lot of other women...

Stacyzee

Editor Age: 40

Brushed her breast against my arm?

Ive known this chick for years now (we around 18 -19), we never been close just casual talk anyway that was years ago now she is taken, but she still makes daily eye contact with me sometimes its awkward or whatever and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Online dating: how many dates before you call it quits?

So you message a few times, and then meet up--how many times do you give the other person a shot before you just call it quits? Related question how many dates until you see if there is something there--chemistry or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When it comes to singing, can teenage girls sing better than teenage boys?

Do girls have a much more better singing voice than boys? I'm asking cause on this TV show "The Voice" that air's on NBC, it seems like the judges love to pick teenage girls who have a great voice, but they rejected the...

VeohTV

Xper 6 Age: 43

Girl who never talks unless spoken to....Werid? or shy?

There's a girl in my class who never talks unless spoken to. she sits right next to me in class and I was pretty sure she liked me by her body language. But she never talks to me like ever since we been in class unless...

huey12

Xper 3 Age: 36

Boyfriend suddenly compliments me?

Before he was my boyfriend, he would tell me I'm an 8 out of 10, and other little compliments. But since we started dating a little over a month ago, and started getting more physical and intimate with each other (not all...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you consider perfect women legs?

In my opinion her link legs are perfect! What docyou consider petfect legs?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Ex wants to be friends but needs space? What's up?

My ex broke up with me almost 3 months ago and wanted to be friends. I noticed when we met up last week something was still off. I asked her what was wrong and she said nothing. A few days ago she send me a text saying...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls and Guys : How often do you get stared at?

I get a lot of stares, and I'm kind of wondering what the normal amount is: How many times do you catch people staring at you a day?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is there a such thing as an accidental boob rub?

LIke when a girl is talking to you or seeemingly makes an excuse to get close to you and in the process subtly rubs or presses her boobs against you.

Chadwickx

Xper 5 Age: 47

Would you date people who looked like this? (Tattoos)

I've noticed a lot of people (mainly guys) on here dislike tattoos. I'm curious, if you met a girl (or girls, you met a guy) that looked like this, and had a personality you really liked, would you date them? Or would you...

MaskofInsanity

Guru Age: 35

"Some people are not meant to find love". Do you agree?

It's the opposite of what most people would tell you which is "Everyone is meant to find love". Do you believe in this or that? And why? When I say love, I mean being loved dearly by someone whether it's a friend or a...

knowmeyourself

Master Age: 39

Girls, how do your texting habits change with guys you like?

When you meet a guy you like, how do your texting habits towards him change, if at all, compared to guys you don't like and just see as a friend. Or do you even change at all? Maybe you don't do much different, you simply...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does my crush want to tickle me?

Okay so I met this really sweet guy about two weeks ago. I'm a 19 yo virgin (also never had a boyfriend or any real guy friends ) and he is 18, we have went on one date and he is always texting me. Especially texting me...

Justahockeyfan213

Xper 5 Age: 32

What does pretty mama mean?

Is that something guys normally say. It sounds kind of weird to me, like I'm being equated to his mother. :/... You guys' thoughts?

gingerbrunette

Xper 5 Age: 38

My boyfriend's mom suddenly doesn't like me?

My boyfriend and I have been together nearly three years. His mom and I have always had a great relationship, and has been encouraging us to get married all the time. We used to talk on the phone/FB quite frequently...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Does she like me, or is she just really confortable with me as a friend?

So I recently met 2 girls who I have reason to believe both like me. However, I can't really tell if they see me as just a really close friend or if they if they like me, since I'm kind of getting mixed signals. Girl 1...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is $65,000/yr a good salary or not?

I'm just wondering cause the field I hope to go into has a median salary of around $69,000 but it's slightly lower in Dallas while more popular up north and around the Houston area. It doesn't seem like a lot to me...

pickledxtofu

Xper 5 Age: 32

What if the woman insists on paying the bill on the first date?

If two people are on a first date and the woman picks up the tab, even when the guy tries to do it himself and she insists, what does that mean?

blazethetrail

Xper 6 Age: 45

Do you think INFP guys are likely to be successful or be a failure?

Do you think INFP guys are likely to be successful or be a failure? Success Failure It depends. Please elaborate WHAT?!? (google MBTI)

qwer1234

Xper 7 Age: 35

Need help with this introvert handsome guy?

Hi, I meet this guy at the beginning of the semester. I think he is attractive. We have classes in common and we do work together sometime. We always say hi to each other, a few weeks ago we were alone and I tried to get...

rubiiistone

Xper 4 Age: 32

I want a girlfriend but at the same time feel unmotivated to get one because of my inexperience for my age?

I'm 25 and still haven't had my first girlfriend yet, it pisses me off and angers me that I didn't have a girlfriend in high school or late teens to early 20's, around the age just about everyone has experience already, I...

HateBeingSingleAspie

Xper 7 Age: 38

Break Up & Divorce

Why is my ex still so bitter?

Ok so my ex and I broke up almost a year ago and let me tell you it was a bad bad breakup lol. No one cheated or did anything dumb like that we just were jerks to each other ( he ended up ending the relationship)....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you girls like sissy boys?

Do you believe that some girls like sissy boys?

lotionlover

Xper 4 Age: 65

Exclusive dating vs relationship?

We met on a dating website 1.5 months ago went out for 6 dates and everything is going well. Since the third date he let his acc expired and said he is only seeing me. We had a talk after the 6 dates he said he is ready...

Anonymous

(36-45)