All Questions

Do ugly or average looking girls get more compliments?

after losing about 10 lbs, I've noticed a lot of male attention directed my way (I'm 5'6, 133 lbs currently). thing is, I'm only getting attention from ugly guys. they compliment me and want my phone number, although I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why men just stare at a woman and don't say anything? I get that a lot they stare at me, but don't say a word!

I get that a lot they stare at me, but don't say a word! What is that all about lol! Sometimes I think I'm jinx, for men just to stare me down and not say a word, its really creepy lol! But I try to ignore it, but the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Girls do you have a tramp stamp?

Girls do you have a tramp stamp ? Do ya like when a guy finishes on it ?

Focus08

Xper 5 Age: 36

He said..."I remind him of his cool cousin"

So yeah. This guy said this to me. I know he's attracted to me because he's said numerous times I was. We developed a great relationship. I confessed my feelings to him. And that's what I got and that "it" wasn't there...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I don't find anyone attractive anymore. Any advice?

I think I've been through a lot of the ups and downs of relationships that...I don't find anyone attractive anymore. I don't get excited to meet a certain guy, or any guy... Has there anyone who has felt this? Does this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls always texts "I hate you". Does she like me/flirting?

So this girl who is a friend of mine always texts me and says "I hate you". We flirt a bit and she knows I like her because I told her a little while back, but so far nothing has happened and we're just friends. Lately...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend told me he loves me and I froze up...what to do now?

So I've been dating my boyfriend now for about 14 months. We've only been exclusive for about 3 months tho and that's because he "feels that he is getting older and didn't want to make a commitment to a woman unless he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do men say one thing then do another?

If you like a girl you like her. If you don't..you don't. Why keep up constant communication if you don't want to make the relationship more than what it is? What's the point?

lost2224

Xper 5 Age: 38

Family & Friends

Is my best guy friend hitting on me?

so I've known this guy almost a year. it was one of those perfect fit friendships where we went from total strangers to best of friends in like 2 weeks tops. we talk about almost everything, and have this awesome...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How to politely decline a kiss when you only want to be friends?

I was downtown last weekend trying to meet up with my friends and ended up not being able to get a hold of them, so I was walking down the street and was approached by a few people, both girls and guys. They were drunk...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex still replies to my texts and answers my calls?

So at first, my ex asked to break-up. I tried talking to him and we finally made up. But after that he was very cold toward me, so I figured he took me back because he was sorry. I must admit that I still love him a lot....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex boyfriend like to annoy me?

My ex boyfriend is my manager and he think its funny to annoy me. He know I get annoyed if he ask me to do stuff and he enjoys it. He always had this stupid smile on his face when he ask me to do stuff. I asked him why is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does my boyfriend's sister hate me for no reason?!

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We are very close and have met each others families and gone to a few family gatherings. We also sleep over at each others houses as well. He is always all over...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Being revealing at the beach (topless/ thong/ see through bikini)?

Have you been revealing at the beach? In other words have you gone topless, untied your top when you lay on your front, worn a thong or pulled up your bottoms when you are tanning, worn a see through bikini or even gone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it a compliment for a girl to be called 'nice' by a guy?

I know guys are usually pretty straight forward, but when they say a girl is really nice, do they really mean that, or is it because they can't find something specific to compliment? What is your personal opinion on the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can you describe what a first kiss should be like?

I'm 23 and never kissed a girl, and I'm getting freaked out about it. I don't want to look really weird and ruin what could be a really special moment, so I'm honestly interested in what a first kiss should be like....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Girls, are skinny guys a turnoff?

I'm a skinny dude, I workout a lot but just have a longer figure. I have definition but is a nice body essential to get a pretty girl?

TimmyG1992

Xper 5 Age: 33

Why are girls always so busy?

For some reason it's way easier for me to get guys to hang out then I can with girls. Why is that?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Worried about boyfriend travelling alone?

My boyfriend is going on a tour of Europe for a couple of weeks...by himself. He's doing an organized tour group thing, going to a bunch of different countries. I'm happy that he gets to travel, but I'm kind of worried...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend of 9 months called me his wifey.

My boyfriend of 9 months called me his wifey..weird thing is a week or two ago we were talking about our future and I asked him what his thoughts were on marriage and children only for him to say, "I never thought that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why doesn't my boyfriend reply me right away like I do?

whenever he texts me or messages me on fb I reply immediately but I'll send him like 2 messages on fbs or tons of texts and it takes him FOREVER to reply. sometimes he won't reply til the next day or so. when we first...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is she texting me out of boredom?

So this girl and I started talking but I'm having trouble telling if she's interested or playing games or just being friendly. She never initiates contact. When I contact her she seems generally happy to talk to me and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Someone left flowers on my porch, now what do I do?

On my way to my car today I noticed a small potted flower on the side of the porch near the steps that go down to the driveway where I park my car. On the little paper around the pot someone had written my name on the...

fictionary

Xper 5 Age: 35

What's a good way to ask a guy to hang out, without sounding desperate?

Well, as explained in my previous questions, there is this guy I like. Um..how should I ask if we should hang out. We text pretty much everyday, and he finally texted me first early in the morning! Which I was overjoyed...

798hshkjgcll

Xper 4 Age: 34

Do girls act bored or uninterested with guys they like?

Thought I saw some signs of interest from this girl and so I decided to ask her to hang out with a couple of mutual friends after work. I sat right next to her to attempt to put some moves on but for some reason she kept...

giantpotato

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why is it that some friends grab my butt when my boyfriend's not around?

A friend of his did it once, another friend of his did it as well on another occasion and yesterday, my own friend did it after I went for a hug. On that last occasion, we were both drunk and it was plain funny. Should...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to ask a cashier to hang out?

Well I just moved to this new city and about 2 days after I JUST moved, I met this girl who is a cashier and I could tell that she had just a little interest in me because of the "look" I was given lol and we had a really...

BleebleBlabble

Xper 4 Age: 33

She initiated hug on first date?

Last Monday, I had a date with this girl I met online. Everything seemed to have gone well. We were both pretty nervous, but I guess that is expected. At the end of the date, I walked her to her truck and she initiated...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Girls: Do you notice guys' socks?

So last few months I have found myself paying more attention to the socks that guys are wearing. I find myself staring at the ankle line to see what socks guys are wearing. I love when I see socks that are colorful and...

hotnerdygirl

Xper 4 Age: 38

Fashion & Beauty

Why are men more attractive when they hold babies or cute animals?

I know I'm not the only that thinks this, but I don't understand it. Anyone know why ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Help? I regret sending this text to my crush?

Ok so yesterday around 10 pm my guy friend (whose also my crush) & I were texting. I like him a lot but sadly he has a girlfriend already. We were having a great convo, all was good.. until I texted him something I really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to discreetly flirt while on the cash register at your job?

How can you get your intentions across discreetly (i.e. so coworkers don't notice) aside from writing your number down on the receipt. How do you flirt professionally.? A bigger smile, a longer convo, what?

Bittybittyboopboop

Xper 5 Age: 35

Is it weird my older cousin kind of hit on me?

This happened a few years back when I was 15. It was really weird. He's 8 years older than me. We had always been close buddies, but this kind of crossed a line. He took me to my first party and I got a little silly. When...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

A gift to celebrate the day we met or the day our relationship started?

My best guyfriend and I recently started a romantic relationship. Not long from now would mark one year since we've met and I'm wondering if I should get him something...he might not, since its not our anniversary, but I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do a lot of guys say they like curvy women, then only talk to stick-skinny girls?

By "curvy" I mean within the healthy BMI range, just with hips and thighs and a chest rather than looking like a board. (There is a difference between curvy and overweight.) It always seems to be the girls with the body...

nightwriter

Xper 3 Age: 34

Fashion & Beauty

Do pretty girls get approached a lot?

Do you think they get approached the most out in public, in class, wherever? Or do average girls get approached the most? Whenever I get approached by a guy, I feel like he is only approaching me because I look easy or...

Anonymous

(36-45)