All Questions

Are guys more honest when they are drunk?

Ive been dating this guy since December and he's very unemotional/stoic. BUT when he's drunk he practically can't stop staring at me. At first I was like what the hell but then he would stare at me and start gushing....

nturner5001

Xper 5 Age: 37

Sister's boyfriend and I are attracted to another; harmless or flirting with disaster?

They've been dating for a few months now. Her boyfriend is pretty awesome- good guy and all. There's one thing, and I don't think I've been reading into things too much. He likes me. I know he is attracted to me, it's...

ShutYourMouth

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guy sitting on girl's lap

usually girls sit on a guy's lap. what is your opinion about guy sitting on girl's lap.?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl rejected me, she stares at me. Why?

Why is she staring at me even though she rejected me 2 times last year.? Girl rejected me, asked her out twice, month ago. I don't know her. I asked her out twice in December That girl someway seeks eye contact,. in...

bollenbollen

Xper 3 Age: 33

Long, Lingering Handshake?

Guys, is there usually a reason why you might hold someone's hand after a handshake for a long time? Especially when it is your first time meeting her? I was introduced to this guy yesterday by a mutual female friend....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

My ex-girlfriend just got a new boyfriend recently and I want her back...

I dated this girl for about 18 months, starting in high school. I did not like the whole idea of having a girlfriend in college and I kind of wanted to "reinvent" myself at school. So after dating her for a little while...

darkknight2943

Xper 3 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

Do girls like the feeling of being wanted?

If you find out a guy is interested,would you give him mixed signals to keep him there,too boost your confidence and enjoy being wanted? If a guy does a little chasing and stops,does that change your perspective and makes...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I don't party, am I wasting my youth?

I am 21 years old and I don't really have a big social life. I have been to a few house parties and clubs in my life and I don't like it. I feel really gross when I'm around that scene because there are a lot of drugs and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend is planning to wear a red dress to prom, what color tie goes with a red dress? How about black?

Prom is in a couple months and just for preparation purposes want color tie goes with your girlfriends red dress. I really want to wear black but I'm not sure whether it matches, please help

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you ever think of the good girl you let go of and miss her?

Say you met a really great girl, you liked her very much but got scared after a few months of dating because you weren't wanting a serious relationship, so you stop talking to her suddenly. Do you look back and miss her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it hot if a guy likes romance movies?

Movies like the vow, the lucky one, Dear John, etc. Twilight. well twilight is more vampire, but you get the idea. I love watching romance type movies.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

Is my friend trying to make me jealous?

Ok so my friend knows that I've liked this guy since 4th grade by the way I'm in 6th grade but on Valentine's day she went up to him and started asking him if he would go out with ppl. After about 5 people he gets annoyed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

Is my boyfriend not talking to me because he's sick?

Everything was fine between us up until last Sunday when he texted me telling me he feels miserable cause he's sick :( This whole week we barely even talked, unless I texted him asking how he felt. On Tuesday he said he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Meaning of "You look different..in a good way" ?

I saw on here a question about what it means when a guy says you look different, but it's kinda vague so... I just saw this guy (who's kind of a friend haha) that I've known for years. Sometimes he's nice, but other times...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

She says she is "too busy".. time to move on

When a girl kindly rejects your offers saying that she is just too busy.. and then doesn't give you another time that she is not busy I typically move on and assume that she is just not interested..

brandon8899

Xper 5 Age: 35

Family & Friends

How to deal with a loner friend?

Ok so I have this friend who's a guy. He's kind of a shy introverted loner type of person, which is fine by me. The problem is we only hangout like once a month. Plus, he's super cheap. He never answers the phone but will...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean if a guy always stares at your butt?

every time I get off the bus I walk by him and he stares at by butt and I know he does cause I've caught him when I turn around and friends have told me he does and he admits to staring at my butt when I leave and he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, if you let a (maybe even drunk) girl sleep over...

maybe you are drunk too, whatever, just in general, you let a girl friend stay over as she can't drive anymore/missed the last train/bus whatever, do you expect anything from it? and if not, lets say you end up cuddling...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Coming on too strong vs. not coming on strong enough early on in dating?

This question is mainly aimed at girls, but insightful and experienced guys can please answer too. Can you LIST some examples on how men sometimes make bad decisions early on in dating? Such as: Too strong: - giving a...

Shpongolia

Yoda Age: 41

Relationships

At what age do women wise up and stop going for the bad boy/womanizer?

I've noticed most girls my age, 21, say they want a smart caring guy. Yet they go out with the guy who is just looking for sex, or ones that abuse, steal, and treat them like crap with no regard for their feelings. I...

cromick

Xper 5 Age: 34

Relationships

Flowers from a Booty Call?

I've been seeing this guy on and off over the last 2 years. In my mind's eye, we're just each others' booty calls. So it really surprised me today when he sent me a beautiful text wishing me Happy Valentine's Day. I...

Lilithija

Xper 5 Age: 36

Relationships

Does anyone else think love and relationships are overrated?

Few days ago, I figured out the solution to why women don't like me. The solution is for me to not date or try to attract women at all, in fact I find love and relationships overrated now. I could honestly live my entire...

Bornnardmt

Xper 3 Age: 36

Shopping & Gifts

How to say "dream" in different languages?

I want as many different languages as I can get. Thankyou.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date a guy because he saved your life?

Whether he was good looking or an eye sore, I'm just curious lol

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date a very skinny guy ?

What do girls think of very skinny guys? Would you date such a guy?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Need quick answers please! Should I text her tomorrow?

Ok so to sum it all up: I met this girl playing basketball, we played for a while together, grabbed a smoothie afterward (even though she had to get to dinner...she went with me to the place and talked for a while first),...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I convince my girlfriend to get fat?

She's skinny and needs some fat on her. I would like her to be bigger and to jiggle with every move she makes. I don't want to make her immobile or anything evil like that, just a lot of fat to jiggle and squeeze.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my friend keep bringing up my ex?

Why does my friend keep bringing up my ex? She's knows good and well that we broke up less than a month ago, yet she constantly brings him up. This is not helping me, the break up is still fresh and I'm trying to move...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Why did he turn around and look at me?

So there's this guy I have a crush on I don't know if he finds me attractive since I haven't seen any obvious signs from him. But I think he might know I like him since once I tried to make strong eye contact but he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If, on Facebook, you send someone a message, then block them?

Say you send someone a message on fb then block them. Fb has thing that lets you see when your message has been seen. If you unblock that person, will it still tell you if that message has been read, if it has been read...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does being wise beyond your years completely eliminate you from the dating scene?

I would argue that pretty much every good guy is wise beyond their years and because of that, they are often overlooked by young women that are of their age. Why is this so? Sure many girls look for a fun partner but at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Frustrated. friends think he's ugly and fat but....I actually like him.

He's not tall, not too good looking and kind of on the chubbs side. I actually like him for HIM, there was something about him, his confidence, social skills, friendliness, funny, popular ...and quite charming. We have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy, why does he ignore me when his wife shows up?

This guy at my work has a naturally flirty demeanour and everyone knows it. He has taken it a little far with me though and once he got in trouble for sexual harassment and was forced by his supervisor to apologize to me....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How to deal with bf's sister always hanging out with us?

I am glad my boyfriend is family oriented and I even like hanging out with his sister. It just seems like the closer I got to my boyfriend, the more she hangs around a lot. Whenever I'm with him, she's always there and...

Anonymous

(36-45)