All Questions

What does a perfect butt look like?

Okay guys...describe the perfect butt. I workout 6 days per week and eat clean. I'm not petite but I would say pretty fit. I need feedback...

Melvy

Xper 5 Age: 51

Dating

Kissing ass(literally)

The other night I was laying on the bed and my boyfriend came up and gave me a smooch on the backside. It felt kind of awkward but that was because he's never done anything like that before. Has anyone had that happen...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are guys nice to girls for no reason?

My friends brother is always really nice to me (is interested in what I have to say looks at me sometimes) and I was wondering if guys are nice to girls for no reason just cause their nice guys or if he actually likes me? :)

MiaMia1234

Xper 5 Age: 33

Why do I shake slightly when my boyfriend gets close and personal with me?

plz read.. i realize there may be a number of possible options: 1.nervous 2.scared 3.quite turned on 4.excited but…. I'm positive I'm not nervous or scared…. I could be turned on or excited but why does that happen?...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Ladies, why do you NOT make eye contact to a guy walking by?

So ladies, if you're walking past a guy or a guy is walking past you...or you're both walking past each other, and you look straight/away/down the entire time, deliberately avoiding eye contact as you are the only 2...

cheesesteak7

Yoda Age: 42

Society & Politics

What celebs have the hottest attuitudes??

I think the game (rapper) has one of the hottest attitudes. Also eminem, 50 cent, randy orton and mgk The game is my favorite though.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy calling a girl by a nickname: Flirting or casual?

Do all guys casually make up nicknames for any female friend or call their girl friends by a nickname without actually liking them? Or is it a form of flirting? Personally for me, I use nicknames for people I care the...

artemisx

Xper 5 Age: 32

What does it mean when a guy asks if you like to cuddle?

Is he just curious or there's some ulterior motive behind the question?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl acting distant after hookup?

I'm gonna need to provide some back story here so bear with me. One of my good friends set me up with her friend for a sorority date function. I ended up meeting the girl the night before the function, we hooked up and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys what are you biggest turn off a woman can have?

For me I don't like women who smoke that is a big turn off. I also don't like a woman covered with tattoos you can have maybe one or two but, don't cover your body with them. It also depends on what kind of tattoo she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

If you text a guy "goodnight" with a smiley face and he texts you "goodnight" back w/out a smiley face?

The guy I date had texted me earlier in the day to say what he was doing and I texted him later that night with a "goodnight :) he simply texted me back "goodnight" without a smiley face. Usually if I use a smiley face...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A girl wants me to go on a road trip with her. Am I in friend zone?

A girl wants me to go on a road trip with her. What exactly does this mean? She told her close friends about me, and her close friends keep teasing me and her being an item. The problem is that, she said she is not...

jon442

Xper 6 Age: 37

Society & Politics

Fooling around good or bad? How to just let yourself go and have fun?

messing around with guys...Soo lately I've been thinking should I just relax and stop thinking so much and just go for it... I mean I never done anything sexual with someone who I wasn't in a relationship with, some how I...

BLovely20

Xper 5 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Why are my boyfriend's eyes dilated when he looks at me?

My boyfriend and I have been dating off and on for two years. We've had our share of problems that caused breakups but we always find a way back to each other no matter what, now we've been together for a whole year with...

ThatAndreaGurl

Xper 5 Age: 32

Do guys compare themselves physically to other guys?

So I was at a men's water polo tournament today and I got to wondering whether or not guys compare themselves to other guys. Girls do, I know, but do guys? Like do they compare their abs to those of their peers or their...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex girlfriend is being extremely cruel. Why?

My ex girlfriend dumped me a little over a month ago. We hung out for an hour the other day . After hearing a litany of excuses as to why she dumped me, she informed me that she dumped me because she cheated on me...

ged89

Xper 5 Age: 37

How much physical contact is too much?

I mean when you are in a relationship? I'm just worried that I might touch my so too much... :-)

Dakoin

Xper 6 Age: 36

My professor yelled at me. What do I do now?

He's the head of the program. He's also in the industry and has a wealth of advice. He said he'd meet me during break to discuss my work when the papers are done... Anyway, a few days ago I dropped by his office during...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why do girls hate fishing

I love it I'm willing to do everything but I can not get my girl to want to be on the water with me. It's a big part of my life and I want to share it with her. How can I knock this barrier down.

txtroutslayer84

Xper 5 Age: 42

Guy's Behavior

Does dating get harder or easier as you get older?

Obviously this is for the older crowd but does it? I haven't had an official girlfriend for a while now just random hook ups but I wanna settle down now that I'm getting a bit older. relationships are so complicated...

Thumpher

Explorer Age: 35

Why has he stopped calling me beautiful?

So basically he has stopped hugging me. Like he was pissed at something and I asked for a hugg he said no. The next day again his mood got a little off. I asked for a hugg again and he said no. Today there was this party...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Avoiding eye contact: when is it shyness and when is it disinterest?

Basically the question. If a guy avoid eye contact when talking to a girl, when does it indicate that he is shy and when does it indicate lack of interest? Or is avoiding eye contact always a sign that a guy isn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He invited me to this house party? (Guy's perspective?)

Some background information... There's a guy I work with. We met about a year and a half ago. I adore him as a friend. He's incredibly attractive, and we get on fairly well. However I'm not romantically interested in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is the difference between calling my guy friend bro, homie, dude, and homeboy?

So me and my friends has been calling each other honor or bro but what is the difference between homeboy honor dude and bro?

Homeboy_Kevin

Xper 3 Age: 33

Dating

Girls say I'm sweet, but they won't date me?

How come girls say I'm sweet and yet I can't find a date. If I'm so sweet then why aren't any of them wanting to date me? I'm getting tired of this. Girls are so complicated.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, help! Why would my ex girlfriend blocked me on WhatsApp, removed me from her Facebook and Twitter?

Few weeks before this happened she has told me that she thought we weren't compatible any more since we fight a lot but I told her that I still had feeling for her.So she agreed to give us a try.Then we talked like normal...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend has a lot of scars on his upper body, should I ask about it?

The other day, we got intimate for the first time. I had never seen him shirtless before that. Well one thing that was hard to miss, is that is upper body is covered in scars.I can't really tell what it is, but it looks...

Anonymous

(30-35)