All Questions

I am 107 lbs and 5'7". I still think I need to lose weight. Is this wrong?

my body is skinny and I know that. but - my stomach is not. it protrudes from my body, I can pinch much more than an inch, when I sit down I get fat rolls, etc. I have been doing an hour on the treadmill every day along...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Guys, is ''grabbing a beer'' a date?

If your friends/co workers/whatever and you've flirted - does asking her to ''grab a beer sometime'' make a date to you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is being laid-back a masculine trait?

For some reason I attract a lot of girls (lesbian and bi women), and I can't attract guys to say my life yet I'm straight. I always wondered why this happen. I am a very beautiful girl, thin but with some serious...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Guys, how would you react if your girlfriend lost the promise ring you got her?

So before my boyfriend left for basic training he got me this $200 promise ring. Keep in mind when he left we had only been together for 2 months. I live in Hawaii so when I went to the beach I took off the ring and put...

haynhpugrl

Xper 4 Age: 33

Other

Is using your period (cramps etc..) a valid excuse of getting out of gym class?

Just something I saw on a show the other day that got me thinking

the90swerethebest

Xper 3 Age: 37

Health & Fitness

How do you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend that they have nits/headlice?

So guys, girls. How do/did you tell them without hurting their feelings, making them upset or making them angry at you? any tips? any advice?

doobey1234

Xper 5 Age: 30

For those who use sunbeds, do you go naked?

I don't want a sunbed debate or their dangers as I am aware. I only us them a few times a year. Basically when using them do you go baked? Or do you wear underwear?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you respond to a girl who is nice but aloof?

Scenario: you meet a girl you find very attractive physically (in a stunning / unconventional way) she is polite, isn't stuck-up or vain, but she never really talks about herself, she seems a bit detached, maybe...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like girls with DSL's?

Well big full lips? I'm black and some people say I have great lips and others say "DANG YOU GOT SOME DSLs" lol? is that bad?

Katypurry

Xper 4 Age: 33

Family & Friends

How can I stop my friend from sleeping around?

Me and my best friend on the vacation right now. My best friend is sleeping around. Back home she was a shy girl and now she just went wild. Some of these men were as old as 39..

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend cried in front of me? sort of

we had a argument about him not trusting me and he had hurt my feelings so I started crying and I told him to leave me alone and I wished I never met him and that I didn't wanna see him ever again but I was just talking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How bad is it to purge once or twice a month

i used to have anorexia about 5 years ago and now I go though periods where I purge. its never more than 1000 calories once or twice a month. i sort of don't think its a big deal to throw up once a month, can't be doing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, What type of girl makes you melt?

for example, A guy to be nice, sweet, charming, funny, gentlemen, and caring for a girl, etc... To be our hero/prince, saving us from having a bad day or what ever. Makes us, girls, melt. When a guy shows interest, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend spends too much time with baby mama. What should I do?

We've been going out for a week now. I just feel like he spends too much time with his baby mama. I understand they have a kid together but does he need to spend time with her too. I'm happy he taking responsibility for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I make the transition from cute to sexy?

Im told by every girl I'm cute. What can I do to transition to sexy. Is it what I wear? Body? What is it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Love ya VS. I love you... do they mean different things coming from a guy?

There's a guy I've been talking to for a couple weeks, and he thinks he's falling in love with me, but I know it's way too soon since we haven't even been together in person yet. Tonight he said "love ya" before he signed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do guys act so erratic after break ups?

Specifically, when THEY initiated the break up? I'd get it if they were broken up with, but to see such confusing, mixed behavior from them when THEY ended it gets a little baffling. Some friends and I were discussing...

candlewax

Yoda Age: 43

Guys, when you are busy, stressed, or feel low about your work/job/school, do you want time alone?

Guys, when you are busy, stressed, or feel low about your work/job/school, do you want time alone OR do you want to spend time with a girl you love? I've been dating a guy for 2 months and when something work related...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy invites you to a movie, is it a date?

Is a movie a date? Question says it all.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does history repeat itself in relationships?

Suppose you break up because he is not ready for a serious relationship. A year later, he wants to get back together, and is ready for a serious relationship. You still love him, and would like to accept his offer... What...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you talk about while slow dancing?

There's a dance coming up and whenever I dance with someone it's just awkward silence... I need a question or anything just to start a short convo :)

Cocoapuffs102

Xper 4 Age: 32

Girls...what's your take on G-shock watches?

I do a lot out doors and physical stuff, the watch would have practicacality in the sense that it is very durable and stuff...but would it look lame?

joseph2010

Xper 5 Age: 33

My boyfriend is excluding me from his plans tomorrow?

My mother says that if my boyfriend would rather spend tomorrow with his friends and didn't invite me then he clearly doesn't like me and doesn't think of me as a girlfriend and "the relationship will never work because...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ladies what is your ideal body type for a guy?

You can describe in detail, but probably better to give a link of your ideal body type for a dude just curious...thanks

whateverdude

Xper 4 Age: 45

Dating

Does a guy notice if a girl stops texting them?

This guy liked me but I have had the sense he lost feelings or he is a flake. he said he would be sure to see me during the summer.. but I won't text him anymore.. do you think he will notice? He asks me to hangout...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think of girls who dress scantily clad and then when you try to flirt they...

get mad at you? I think they are the type who love teasing don't you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do high school guys flirt? Also how do they act when they are nervous around you?

Basically I need to know how high school guys flirt when they genuinely like someone. Also how do they act if they are nervous around you? This is because I have a guy friend who acts differently towards me when we are...

NotLikeKatniss

Xper 5 Age: 30

I am 23, never had a relationship or had sex. What am I doing wrong?

Ok, so as you can tell I am not too busy in the romantic department. I have dated guys, the longest time I have dated someone was for 8 weeks, he ended it. I am told that I am a very attractive girl ( I don't believe it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is being serious a turn off?

If a guy has a serious manner in general do girls find that to be a turn off?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend won't let me break up with him

last night I tried to break up with my boyfriend of 8 mo. we've had two major problems/fights in that period of time, both of which destroyed my trust in him completely. I realized that I cannot trust him and the promises...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is it with guys and liking short girls?

What is with guys and liking shorter girls. I'm really short and I hate it, but if I'm talking to a guy they seem to say its okay I like short girls.. I just don't understand.

rsweet

Xper 3 Age: 35