Why does my boyfriend always ask if im pregnant when he knows im not?

[Anonymous]

we want kids more than anything but he says he wants to wait until we have our own house. So whenever I'm not feeling well he asks if im pregnant. we always have protected sex so there's absolutely no chance that i could be. when i tell him that im not, he gets all disappointed and says that he wishes i was. I dont understand this. he knows im not, why does he ask? and why act all sad when we could be trying to have a child but he wants to wait? i feel like he's teasing me or something. its not nice and i dont appreciate it. why would he do this?

[enigmatta]

Wot the hell?

Set your priorities straight. Having a kid is not like having a pet that you can have at almost any time whether you're single or not, whether you have a stable life or not, whether you are financially stable or not. A pet is relatively easy to handle: you grow fond of it, you play with it and the pet's needs won't vary greatly as years go by, which means food, vet, vaccines, toys and... that's practically it.

A kid is serious business and as something serious you have to be on the same page and truly aware of what you are wishing for. If I were you, I would ask myself many questions prior to actually having a kid.

Is this the guy you want as a father to your kid? Is he mature enough? Is he responsible enough? Is he really working toward a safe and promising future for you as a couple? Is he loyal, caring, grounded? Is he sure of what he wants?

Are you sure of what you want? Do you think you are mentally ready to be a mother? Because you may be physically ready, but do you think you have lived all that you wanted to experience as a single person? Education, traveling, feeling right about where your life is heading?

You talk about what HE wants, but what about what YOU want and feel? Just as valid to discuss. Now, I personally think that waiting until you have a place to live in would be a good idea. Maybe not until you literally 'own' a house, but if you're living together and have got to known each other enough to know that you're walking in that direction, then... work for it. I don't know how old you are, but I'd wait at least until I were 25-26, because you want to be convinced you're happy as an individual right now, and that you have sketched your plans consciously, which at 19, for example.. is not likely.

[igofortakenwomen]

kids do grow up, you will one day get your freedom back.

[enigmatta]

yeah, but your youth?

[smallestofsix]

He wants a baby. He might not want to try for one, but is hoping it'll happen by accident. Or he's hinting that he's ready but won't say it bluntly because he thinks you're not ready.

[Theguyoverthere]

Do not have kids until you're stable enough in your life to do so. Waiting to have a house is a legitimate idea. You don't want to have a kid without settling down first. At the rate you're going you'll risk fighting and ending up a single mother and he'll be gone.

One big error I notice girls keep trying to do is having a child when they're not ready.

[Sexualchrist]

He might be paranoid about you getting pregnant because he doesn't want you to.

[NaturalBornFiller]

guys have no logic... just fetish!

WAIT...WAIT...WAIT... till you are in your mid thirties (30's) and then see who your with and how you TRULY feel!!!

Pls dont become a part of the young mainstream pregnancies

[igofortakenwomen]

if you want it and he wants it take the damn condom off waiting is for suckers.

[zombiebabe]

if he really wants kids so just have unprotected sex and cum

[ledfoot64]

tell him bareback and leave it in every time you make love

[Anonymous]

I think he really just wants to have kids with you.

[BalthazarKing]

Next time tell him to take the damn condom off.

[Mark706]

wait until you are at leasf 25