All Questions

Are guys attracted to shy and innocent girls?

I have trouble speaking up and saying what's on my mind and I don't know how to show that I'm attracted to someone without creeping him out or just seeming completely uninterested...

Daggersanctuary

Xper 5 Age: 33

Double standards about height in men and feminine women?

So I overheard a conversation today... First off this does not apply tp me because I am really tall but I want to make a case and question for the shorter guys. Well a guy was having a conversation with another dude about...

Love2Ball

Yoda Age: 33

Flirting

Why do I always attract the "ugly" ones?

I'm not gonna make this some long drawn out story. Simply put a little about myself, I'm out going, fun, cheerful and an all around nice person. I keep good friends in my life, dress well, good job, good money, good car....

djbreal87

Xper 6 Age: 38

Dating

Guys: If you stop texting, does that ALWAYS mean you're no longer interested?

Can you describe your "relationship": friends but you like them, FWB, friends with benefits that you fell for, just friends, girlfriend...etc...? What caused you to stop texting, and did you still want to but just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend doesn't show much interest in me

First off, I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 27. I'm kinda at a loss at what I should do. Currently, my boyfriend lives in my home, for a long time already. We seem to be leading completely separate lives, though, and I'm not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys: What do you think of girls in blazers?

I love to wear them and own 7. No, not one for each day of the week. I probably wear one 3-4 days a week. So, I was just wondering...What perception do guys have of this key item in my wardrobe?

PrityNpink

Xper 5 Age: 44

I think my girlfriend is too perfect?

My girlfriend has the perfect package she's gorgeous, hot, out going, smart. I just can't see any flaws in her, and I can predict her behavior always, she never does anything wrong and she's all I ever wished but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I've lost my confidence in asking out girls?

I guess I was lucky because the first girl I ever asked out said yes. I was confident at the time, really comfortable with myself that although I have disadvantages in the looks department, I could make it up with my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this nervous laughter (a good sign?) or a polite way of saying no?

The guy I like...(CRAZY about really) lives next door, I am 30, he is older than me. He moved home to care for his ill mother. We hit things off because of our common bond of dogs, and I had some that he loves, as he...

dodgersmom11

Xper 4 Age: 44

Health & Fitness

Guys Opinion - Birthmark on girl's butt - cute or ugly?

I recently asked a question regarding a birthmark on my friend's bum and some people said without a picture they couldn't advise! I obviously can't post a picture on here but I will tell you how this all came about. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

My crush's best friend is hitting on me big time!

i really like this guy and I think he likes me too by the way he was acting .. anyway he has this friend and they are really close and 24/7 with each other . me and his friend started talking but nothing that would give...

Anonymous

(30-35)

"You really just know how to push my buttons...."

I finally had it out with a guy who has apparently been flirting with me for four years now, always implying that things were leading to something till one afternoon when he realized I only saw him as a work colleague --...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is wearing tank tops in the summer considered douchey?

This is mainly directed at girls but guys can chip in to if they want to. Now when the summer is upon us, at least where I live, the weather starts getting very hot. I as a generally warm person even in the winter, get...

Hyrule

Xper 3 Age: 33

Shopping & Gifts

I think reading is overrated as hell....anyone else with me?

obviously I don't mean being literate, that's VERY important, and I'll concede that you need to do some reading in your early years to be literate. I'm talking more about the idea that the more you read, the smarter you...

WhiteSteve

Master Age: 47

Society & Politics

In Friends, why are Monica and Rachel considered the hot ones?

What about phoebe? Isn't she just as pretty? I guess I want a guys opinion. Is it cos they are skinny? And phoebe is normal size? Or what is it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I stop getting treated like I don't matter?

I'm not a special person by any means. I am very normal. Like most normal Americans, I get up every day and go to work and then I go to yoga or TKD and then I come home and play with my cat. I don't deserve special...

Red_Raconteur

Yoda Age: 36

Would you say a guy was overdressed if he wore this to a club or bar?

The question is up there. If you saw a guy wearing this link or this link Would you think he was trying too hard or that he was overdressed or would you think it was appropriate or attractive?

Mr_Solo_Dolo

Yoda Age: 34

What makes a man womanly/feminine?

And are these traits in a guy a good or bad thing? For kicks if you want to add what makes a guy manly/masculine go ahead. I guess it could be both physically and personality-wise. Which do you prefer?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys like it when a girl bites her lip?

It seems like a lot of guys go crazy when they see a girl biting her lip. Why is that?

Quorra89

Xper 6 Age: 36

When your boyfriend is a very inconsistent texter?

I usually wouldn't mind at all because I'd be seeing him in person, but he's been on vacation for two weeks and he'll be on vacation for another two weeks and he's really inconsistent with texting. LIke I said I don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

What's it mean if a guy friend is very protective of you?

Like he tells you to watch what you say and do on the internet because of all the creeps out there, or he won't tell you how to do something that could get you in trouble and just stuff like that(I can't think of any more...

Katy_16

Xper 3 Age: 30

Why are sweaty girls at the gym attractive?

Why are they attractive and a turn on? I always sweat a lot, even my chest/neck area, and my face turns kind of reddish, but I feel nasty about it. So, why is such thing a turn on?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why does this girl only text me at work?

Ok, so me and this girl work together...sorta. She works inside and I work right outside (actually, she can see me out her window but I can't see her lol). Anyway, we were kinda introduced by a mutual friend and I asked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl wears white jeans/pants in a club or bar she is looking to hook up?

Many of my friends say that, do you think there's some truth to it?

CAN_I_HAS_BA

Xper 3 Age: 34

Just found out the guy I've been seeing has a girlfriend :'(

We've been emotionally and romantically involved for several weeks now. We kiss and act like a couple and I've been waiting to make it official. He came over last night and things happened... I then noticed his cell phone...

alisondaniele

Xper 5 Age: 31

What type of socks do you usually wear?

Low cut socks Knee socks Crew Socks Ankle Socks I usually wear, ankle socks just because I find them to be a lot more comfy and not too thick, but usually when I wear them, they tend to slide off my feet which I hate...

LexiNinja

Xper 4 Age: 30

Is the term "sloppy seconds" being phased out?

Well for those who don't know what that means, its a sexual/dating term for saying your getting someone who was already "deflowered". In a lot of music today, people say things like this " I hook up with this girl then I...

Phoenix1991

Guru Age: 35

Society & Politics

Is it painful if a chicken's feather is plucked?

Can any of your country gals and girls answer this for me? Does it hurt them if you pluck one of their feathers? Does it bleed? Or is only mildly painful like when we pluck hairs? Once the feather is plucked does it...

Anonymous

(36-45)