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Was it a pocket dial or an intentional phonecall?

I left a guy after 2 months because he was dating other girls behind my back and was a liar and a player. I was really crazy about him but I still let go and have deleted him from my fb and cellphone and never called him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you pronounce the personal smart phone messenger "KIK"

Do you pronounce it as "keek," "kike," or "kick" I thought it was pronounced as "kick," but I've heard other people pronounce it the other 2 ways as well. So how do you pronounce it. Not looking for the correct...

Jas93

Xper 4 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Reasons for an ex-boyfriend to hide his new relationship?

There of course can be several reasons. But I am still curious as to why some ex boyfriends do? And when I mean hide, I mean hide it on Facebook, in person, everywhere. If the man is no longer in love with his ex, why...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Cute bus driver...how do I approach?

The bus driver on my usual route is so damn cute and very nice! I asked him directions and he was very helpful and we talk sometimes when I get on the bus. Usually when I get on he'll smile and say "how are ya :)" like he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my Ex-boyfriend texting me everyday?

My ex boyfriend broke up, (after a year and half of together,) almost 2 months ago. About a month after the break up and no contact since, I texted him. Saying I found some tickets from when he took me (to a really nice...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think of guys who wear Superman shirts?

Title pretty much sums it up - what do you think of guys who wear Superman shirts? When I was younger I used to think they all were just muscled up jerks who thought "Look at me and my bulky muscles, I crush you like...

FlightAuror2

Xper 7 Age: 38

Fashion & Beauty

Why would a guy keep glancing at you from across a table?

It was a typical dinner table. There were people sitting all around the dinner table eating and talking I was sitting at one end of the table, and the guy was sitting at the other end. I do not know who the guy is and he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Was this just a friendly hug or something more?

I was saying goodbye (for a long time, possibly forever God forbid) to a guy I like (he likes me too, I think). I gave him a hug - he is taller than me and kind of leaned his head down on my right shoulder and wrapped his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Tinder - just for hookups or for dating? Guys mostly.

Have any of you used Tinder? I know there was a question about it a few months ago, but I figure more people have heard of it by now. It's the hot-or-not type app where you can message people you match with. So I just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was the waiter interested or just a flirt?

I was at an Italian restaurant the other day and this really cute waiter kept flirting with me--joking that he wanted to join me and kept coming over to chat (he wasn't my waiter so wasn't getting a tip from me). I was at...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

She said she had to solidify our relationship.. what does solidify mean?

What does solidify mean? I know to turn something hard or to make solid. What is the definition when used for a relationship /friendship?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Girl at work is comfortable around men, but not me

This very polite girl at work, who is comfortable around men will aviod me at the reception area but will carry on around other men including women. Anytime I approach the desk she will turn away even when she not doing...

Andrew1983

Xper 4 Age: 43

Why would a guy start calling me Ms. then my last name when he was just calling me my first name all along?

He use to call me my first name, and other people have called me by my last name but he decided he was going to start calling me miss then my last name.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why aren't you dating someone right now?

As I get older I hear a lot of, "don't you want to get married?" Why aren't you dating someone? I seriously can't stand it when someone says, "you're not getting any younger" If you're single and when people ask you this...

RealDeal

Xper 7 Age: 42

Friend zone: temporary or permanent?

If a girl puts you in the friend zone after you tell her you like her, and you tell her you still like her but will be friends, what are the realistic chances you could grow on her? Considering she really likes you as a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is this just a FB setting or did he hide my post from his timeline?

Ok so a guy I am seeing/dating, not officially my boyfriend but we totally act like a couple, sent me flowers today. I was SUPER excited and took a picture and posted it on my FB wall, tagging him in it. Just said...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean if someone calls you "emotionally scarred"?

Someone called me emotionally scarred. I've been hurt so many times by guys. They usually approach me, soon after I fall for them, quickly begin to lose myself while with them (meaning I become so emotionally involved...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my best male friend pulling away from me?

My best guy friend and I are usually really great friends. Until recently we would hang out at each others' houses a lot and spend our breaks during school together. We've both been taking two six-week summer courses...

RedSmartie

Guru Age: 32

Heightism in dating, exaggerated for men?

I've seen so many dudes complain about being below 6 ft and how it's the primary reason why they're single. For my friends and I, we don't get this notion at all! I'm 5'6, buddies are 5'4 and 5"2, and none of us see this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He never initiates text messages, but replies back.

I just met a guy on an online dating website. He gave me his number and told me to text him. When I text him, he replies back within a second, I kid you not!.. Anyway, I am always the one who initiates, sometimes during...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend won't stop doing silent and deadly farts

So I've know his guy for three years and the farting is annoying. I've dated him before and he always does it. He does it in class too and doesn't admit it. When clearly its him. I mean I have siblings who fart so I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy responds with a smiley face?

What do guys mean when they respond with just a smiley face?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it OK for me to discuss a troubled relationship with a mutual female friend?

I have a female friend who I dated for a short time. Being non-religous and somewhat liberal in a very religious,very conservative city I know a lot of people, but I truly connect with very few who share my values and...

Kevin1a

Xper 5 Age: 38

Ladies, would you date a postal carrier or UPS/FedEx driver?

I've been considering going into one or the other, considering the fact that they both pay pretty well for jobs that don't require college degrees. But I'm wondering if that would be a turn-off in my dating pursuits. I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are the majority of guys only polite to girls they're attracted to?

I wanted to know if guys will generally only be polite to women they are attracted to. In my experience, whenever I try to be polite to guys they always either stare at me blankly or make a weird face at me, and this is...

purpleballoons456

Xper 6 Age: 37

Boys, what you think about Asian girls?

i'm just curious as an Asian girl. because mostly I saw lots of people who are not Asians are dating Asian women. but for me Asian girls are not as pretty as girls from other continent. so what do you guys find...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Stan Laurel and Oliver Hardy vs Bud Abbott and Lou Costello?

Do you know Bud Abbott and Lou Costello?they are less famous than Stan Laurel and Oliver Hardy,but they are great comedians! so if you know them whom do you prefer?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)