All Questions

My boyfriend is 3 years younger than me, is it ok?

We love each other but I have doubts because : - he is younger, but much more experienced ( I was virgin when we met) - some friends tell me "ah he is younger, leave him find someone serious " or laugh when become to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Accidently Slapped my Boyfriend

My boyfriend of 8 months and I got into a heated argument outside of a concert the other night. We both had been drinking and things just got out of control. I told him he was being rude to me, he said he wasn't I wanted...

bcampbe6

Xper 3 Age: 38

What do you think about men who shave their armpits?

i go to gym. some men don't have armpits hair. so I shave too. what do you think?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Been dating this Jewish girl for about 2 months..

OKay so, let me start this off. So I've known this Jewish girl since high school. We actually started talking about 2 months ago. And have gone on plenty of dates. Now I'm not rushing anything, so I'm cool with the pace...

mshaker

Explorer Age: 40

Girlfriend doesn't want to exchange Christmas gifts.

She says I'm too hard to shop for. She can't think of anything that I want, and doesn't want to get me something that I need, and so she doesn't want us to exchange gifts. Part of me understands this. I am, indeed, a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

If a guy is talking to you almost everyday, does that mean he is interested?

So I have been talking to this guy for about 3 weeks now, we have gone on a couple of dates and I really like him, but I am not sure if he feels the same. The one thing I know is we do text almost everyday, he even texts...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I stop acting stupid in front of my crush?

There is a guy at my gym that I have a big crush on. The problem is I start to act stupid in front of him. Like just a couple of days back my dumbbells fell on the ground when he was around... Then the other day I almost...

Nitzee

Xper 5 Age: 38

Family & Friends

Is it OK to ask your female friend for a makeout session?

I have a female friend that is really hot, and obviously she has friend-zoned me, but I really want to make out with her. I'm not even aiming too high, I'm not trying to make her my girlfriend or even have sex with her,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like it when girls worry?

This guy I like text me and told me he had a bad fall and had to get stitches and staples in his back. He told me it was pretty gruesome so naturally I worried. I asked him if he was still going to go work or if he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I want a girlfriend so bad?

For the past year or so I've been thinking about this girl going crazy about her but she doesn't like me so I'm just going to give up since she will never be my girlfriend. But for some reason, when I see a girl I've met...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does he like me and is embarrassed I caught him looking or is it nothing?

I have a crush on a guy and we have been exchanging glances and stares for about two months and then the other day when I was doing something about thirty feet from him, he was talking to another person and I looked up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Do Timberland boots make you taller and by how much?

Do Timberland boots make you taller and by how much? like by an 1inch and1/2 or 2 at the most

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are muscular legs attractive on a girl?

I have large legs and my calves are square. My legs are fairly short but full of muscle. Do guys know the different between the legs of a biker and the legs of a fatty?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Cheating out of spite?

Has anyone done this? Be honest, that's what the anonymous feature is made for. When you get angry with your lover, do you really want to cheat on them? I'll be honest, when I get very hurt and feel belittled,I want to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why was my date so nervous tonight?

I went on a first date tonight with this guy at a restaurant it was our first time meeting each other. He was so nervous to the point he was talking and talking and talking. Lol it was kinda cute seeing him get that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls like a loud stereo system with bass?

I drive a 03 4runner. I doesn't have any bass to speak of, so I would like to get 2 12' subs etc. I was wondering if girls would appreciate this or just see it as a waste of money, or worse to think of me as a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend has been complacent lately, what can I do?

If you start to call and text a lot and you do it first most of the time will that cause a person (boyfriend in this case) to become complacent and lazy? If so, what are some things you can do to make him not so...

carmelc003

Xper 6 Age: 35

Where do the 35-45 year old men hang out?

Can't seem to find this age group anywhere! gyms, pool halls, hiking trails, beach, coffee shops, under rocks...you're not there. where ya singles at?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How to find an American boyfriend since I am a Chinese girl?

I am a traditional Chinese girl and works in Singapore as a nurse,I always want to find an American boyfriend in SG.However,it seems quite difficult for me. I prefer staying at home or going out with my Chinese staffs.in...

polariszuo

Xper 5 Age: 39

Why does my boyfriend find me less attractive after having a baby?

I just had a baby 3 weeks ago & might I add I look damn good. I'm 5lbs from my pre pregnancy weight which is 115(I'm 120). I do obv have a small stomach because my skin hasn't gone back yet & I cannot start going to the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I be mad that my boyfriend went to a strip club?

My boyfriend went to a strip club last night. Him and I had a fight and we had made up so I thought he wanted to stay in but he just left and said he would be back soon. He said he was going with his friend for a beer. He...

crina

Xper 3 Age: 43

Why do men spend so much time at the gym when muscle mass is not a large factor to women?

I mean you can't get taller at the gym, you can't get a better face at the gym, you don't get a more charming personality at the gym, you don't make money at the gym. In real life women always say that they like cut...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

I just found out my best friend is a lesbian! What do I do now?

I've known her for nearly two years and we became great friends. We actually are a group of three best friends, I´ve known the other girl for like 5 years and she has a boyfriend. Well, a couple of weeks ago she and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm a 34 year old woman, and I'm dating a 21 year old guy. I'm attractive and look like I'm in my 20's.

What do guys think about this? Will it work or just end badly?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I can't keep up financially with my boyfriend?

How do I explain this to him? We've been dating for a little over a year. I am a 19 year old broke college student who is unemployed at the moment. My boyfriend is an 18 year old high school senior whose parents...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend is a racist-why is he with me then? wtf

I am dating my guy for about 6 months now and he has been great and respectful, he treats me like a lady. we have been open with each other about "race" issue from the start. We make jokes and talk about racial...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Is anyone dying to move out but can't afford it? (rant)

I'm 22, I live at home, I have one more year of school to finish and it's really time for me to move out. I had to come back home because I didn't graduate in 4 years, my school is too expensive so the plan was to finish...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Gaze Into My Eyes, Is He Just Being Polite?

There's this guy, every time I talked to him, 90% of the time, either I look at him or not, he will gaze deep into my eyes while talking to me. He only dart of his eyes to his right on and off when he's trying to think on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Moral dilemma: Would you rather save your dog or your baby?

If you had no choice but to save one, which would you save? Let's say you've had the dog for a long time and have grown very attached to it, while the baby of course is a new born. You can only save one of them...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Signs of being too skinny?

Although I still have a healthy BMI of 18.9 people are commenting that I'm getting too skinny. I don't think I look skinny at all but I noticed my periods are getting irregular and my skin is getting drier can this be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

My girlfriend is texting guys late at night and deleting the messages?

The people she texts she had sex with in the past and one she had cheated on me with. She feels like its not wrong because its just a text message. I just don't want her texting them period. Am I right or wrong. Are...

dmegaa

Xper 5 Age: 37