All Questions

Your opinion on pole dancing? Turn on or normal?

Hey, so I do pole dancing as a fitness exercise and wanted to know if it's a turn on for guys? I don't remove any clothes and it's really all for core and muscle strengthening. Recently I got a pole installed in my house,...

xkaylakayla

Xper 5 Age: 32

My boyfriend kicked me in the stomach, he said it was a reflex from me slapping his thigh to hard. What should I do?

Me and my boyfriend were laying in bed me horizontally and him vertically, watching tv. He farted right in my direction and I told him to please not do that. After a few minutes he did it again so I slapped him right on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My BOYFRIEND wants me to be MORE clingy?

So i've been with this guys for 8 months, and sometimes i feel it's weird because he kinda wants me to be more clingy. He will want me to message him more often or call him more. sometimes he will test me - by saying he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: Do you like sleeping in your boyfriends arms?

Girls: Do you like sleeping in your boyfriends arms

Anonymous

(30-35)

Being distant after second date, what should I do?

A question for women but guys are more than welcome to give their input. Went and got coffee with this woman and we exchanged contact information, after which we bumped into each other a few times and talked a bit. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend says I'm needy, should I leave this relationship?

He says I'm needy, doesn't that mean he doesnot wanna be with me?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does that mean he doesn't like me cause he talks about other girls in front of me?

it's weird cause he shows all the signs that he likes me. he says he loves me all the time and he is always staring at me I could go on and on about all the signs that he likes me. Yet, he mentions a girl I slightly know...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am the complete opposite of his ex?

My new boyfriend recently (very recently) got out of a serious relationship which worries me. He was dumped by her. I have been told I am out of his league, or that I'm prettier than his ex but I can't help but worry he...

Anonchic1

Xper 3 Age: 28

Do guys like it when girls run their fingers through their hair?

My (kinda) boyfriend laid his head down on my lap and I just sat there and ran my fingers through his hair. Do guys like that sort of thing? Sidenote: how can you tell if a guy wants to kiss you? And what should a...

meganscott

Xper 5 Age: 31

How to tell girl she looks better without makeup without offending her?

There are girls I know who are good looking, who look better without the makeup on. either they dont know how to put makeup or it is unnecessary. as a guy, i think she looks more attractive without it. one example is...

Ferruccio77

Xper 6 Age: 35

Other

What does it mean if a guy rubs your back?

this guy I've hooked up with before kept rubbing my back lightly when we were sitting next to each other together. we were with a group of people too. is he just trying to be affectionate or get some?

Anonymous

(30-35)

(Guys) If a girl just kissed you out of nowhere then what?

What if a girl just randomly kissed you and she was fairly attractive? One honest opinion I heard from a guy was that he would kiss her back if she was hot but if she wasn't, he would walk away. Is this true for all guys?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Straight girls, are you in any way attracted to other girls?

I don't know why it seems many "straight" girls like females as well or parts of them. Of course i see this only on internet. If a girls is straight then she doesn't like other girls, if she does she is gay or bi, that's...

Jennifer747

Xper 5 Age: 41

How Do I Look?

I've never been called pretty by a guy my age, do I not look pretty?

No guys have ever called me: cute, pretty, hot so does that mean I'm unattractive? I feel like girls get called it by guys even ones they don't know! This is what I look like if you care: (I love taking pics with my dog haha)

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend saw me with my legs unshaved?

I have extremely hairly legs. My boyfriend saw them unshaved, would he get freaked out by this?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Girls, can you lift and carry me?

I am 5'8 tall and 117 lbs. Please list your height, weight, age and for how long you can carry me.

StyleRxD

Xper 4 Age: 30

Break Up & Divorce

Why hasn't he filed divorce yet?

I been with my boyfriend for 6 months. I knew he was separated from his wife and not going back. He said he wasn't happy and felt pressured to marry her. With knowing this I felt secure getting with him. Everything is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

How did/do you get rid of your love handles (oblique fat build-up)?

I want a slimmer waist and less fillings (fat) in my muffin top area (obliques). Can someone recommend some workout routine or plan to burn that fat and slim down my waist size? My body looks like this-...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Ladies, what do you really mean when saying "i will always love you" ? What does that imply for the FUTURE of US? (read details)?

I confessed to this girl i love because she was showing interest and i told her i can't have a relationship now because of some things going on in my life. She says "there's no goodbye between us. i will never forget you,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: How important are perfect teeth in a guy?

Just wanted some feedback from girls, how important is it for a guy to have perfect straight/white teeth?

David932

Xper 5 Age: 32

Does any find Caribbean Men attractive?

I'm Generally speaking about men from the islands like Jamaica, Trinidad, Barbados, St.Lucia, Guyana, Bahamas and many more... Please give me your opinion, I would really appreciate it. :)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys care if your stomach isn't flat?

Like not too big, just not perfectly flat? If a girl is still physically active every day and eats right, but her stomach isn't perfect looking.

Anonymous

(30-35)

How should I confront a guy that kicks my chair Or should I just keep ignoring it?

It's really getting on my nerves, I mean he doesn't need to stretch his legs out that far to hit my chair. I can't tell if it's intentional but I'm sure he can tell I scoot in more when he hits my chair so that he can't...

Keenisha

Yoda Age: 30

What scent do you like on girls?

which scent do you like the most? sweet, sexy, fresh, or any other scents. I heard that guys like vanilla scents is that true?

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do guys think of girls who can't dance? Or are a little uncoordinated?

I'm not the most coordinated person in the world, I'm a petite build, but tall for my size, so just a little "lanky", but not overly. So I feel a bit self conscious about my arms, and what to do with them etc. Usually, I...

bethanyyy

Xper 7 Age: 39

My girlfriend called me "disgusting fatso," in an argument. Do you think that's how she truly feels underneath?

Me and my girlfriend had a fight she initiated, she has been very antagonistic lately. When I wanted to give in and end it she said " I don't even know why I put up with you you disgusting fatso". That's when I had to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Gym shorts under pants? and sagging?

Guys why do you wear gym shorts under your sweatpants or jeans [And you're not even going to the gym or play sports] & then sag you pants so we see the shorts? Like why do you wear so many layers? Why do you sag?

Bubbles40

Xper 7 Age: 37

Why is he outgoing around others but shy and quiet around me?

I really like this guy, but I'm not sure of his feelings toward me. He speaks softer and quieter around me and he seems more reserved when with me. When he is with other people he is more chatty, louder and seems more at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should a 22 year old female wear?

I am turning 22 this week and I want to start looking and acting more my age. I struggle with looking my age since I am extremely petite, I am 4'11, and naturally look younger for my age. I am a college student, I am...

jenlovee

Xper 6 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

Why do women hate on men for objectifying them when they seem to want it and even do it to themselves?

It seems pretty clear that women want to be objectified because it makes them feel desired and boosts their self-esteem. There’s no question they dress and behave in ways that objectify themselves, and that is their own...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I sent him cute pictures of myself and he didn't say anything at all! I HARDLY ever do this, why would be blow me off?

I was just in outfits and they were TOTALLY casual. I know he is attracted. I feel silly now. I was trying to be "flirty," although it was quite a tame attempt but I was feeling good and I knew I looked good. He's sent...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is difference between hug and cuddle?

English dictionary gave me same definitions for both of them.. but when I read posts here it seems they are different.. is hug with friends? and cuddle with boy friend? "hugs are a great way to express affection"-from...

meibay313

Xper 7 Age: 40

Half-Asian people (mixed Asian heritage)?

What's your opinion of them? some examples: pds.exblog.jp/.../f0089299_2011390.jpg img24.imageshack.us/.../...0504171209151245636.jpg

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do guys like it when women play coy or do they prefer to know they are liked?

Do guys really like it when women play hard to get? I mean, if you were dating a hot girl, would you be turned off if she made it obvious that she was into you? At what point do you cross the line between flirty and...

perfectlypinup

Xper 6 Age: 44

Do guys ever hide their true feelings, and if so why?

Is it ever possible for a guy to really like you, but not do anything about it

Anonymous

(36-45)