All Questions

Do girls like being playfully mean to guys?

There's this girl who is always being mean and sarcastic to me and yet, when I suggest that maybe I should leave her alone, she tells me I'm being dramatic, which means she doesn't really dislike me. I can take her jabs...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys who let their pride get in the way of something they really want regret it?

My ex really wanted me back when I broke up with him. However in the end he let his pride get in the way of him getting me back. Will he regret letting his pride get in the way?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How come my body is growing out of proportion?

I do total body workouts in the gym (circuit training) 3 days a week (timed sets) and I go for long walks almost everyday. This is really my only exercise I do. I've since added a little bit of muscle everywhere, but my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys care if a girl has self harm scars or stretch marks?

I have both and was wondering what guys think of it. and no the stretch marks aren't because of pregnancy, I've never had a kid.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Do guys compare their new girlfriend to their ex?

If you loved another woman and dated her for a few years, things didn't work out. You have now moved on and have committed to a new woman (you have had a rebound or two between the ex and the new girlfriend), do you...

rudy37lee

Yoda Age: 41

Do you find blue/green eyes to be more attractive than brown eyes ?

It can sound like a stupid question but it seems like it's an established fact that clear eyes (blue,green, grey) are more beautiful than brown eyes. Brown eyes are average, while blue/green ayes are outstandingly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does anyone know why crab cakes are so expensive?

At a restaurant a tiny crab cake no more than 2 inches across can be around $10. But you can get a pound of crab legs for like $15 and there's like at least 3x the meat. It just never made sense to me. Can you tell I...

lolli

Xper 4 Age: 46

Why do women play with their bra straps in public?

I thought that the rest room is the proper place to readjust their bra straps. I find this very tacky.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why do most black girls have attitude problems?

For example, today was my first day back and work and this black girl was just standing in the way and I was trying to get the bread out of the drawer and I said, "Excuse me, I have to get this." And she's like, "I don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

"Hot" vs. "beautiful" vs. "pretty" vs. "cute"

Guys, what is the difference between these four descriptions when you use them to refer to a girl?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a girl touches your face?

This girl who is my friend in my class in high school who has been showing me some signs...I think she is flirting with me. But I'm not entirely sure. Anyway though she was standing beside me the other day and touched my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My Boyfriend Compliments Himself All The Time.. What About Me?

I've been with my boyfriend now, for about two and a half ish years. Over the past 8 months, he's decided to start going to the gym 4-5x a week to bulk up. Well! He succeeded. And I'm SOOOOOOO so so proud of him! Here's...

sadface123

Xper 5 Age: 36

Does anyone know what the late Mexican singer Selena did for exercise?

I've never seen anyone in as great shape as she was in. I tried searching on the internet but I was getting anywhere, does anyone know?

_marj

Xper 5 Age: 30

Do girls like random phone calls?

Or should you give them a heads up at least? Like this girl gave me a her number a while ago, but we started talking again. Would it be weird if I just called her randomly? Should I tell her something like, "You know I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Surprisingly attractive people: do you know any?

im thinking of: will arnett (actually I love him, he is my fantasy husband lol) - link link ty burrell: link jason bateman: link link jon stewart: link steve carell: link sacha baron...

esmiksaaron

Xper 6 Age: 34

He cut the date short, is it ok?

We went to a movie, had a good time (not our first date), he actually seemed less awkward than normal, held my hand, walked me to my door, gave me a kiss goodnight, etc. He's in a fraternity and I think he didn't want to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my heart hurt when I see a pic of him?

My ex broke up with my a while ago. I went through all the stages, the bargaining, the crying, the denial, the anger, and finally the acceptance. I realized what went wrong and how he had treated me wrong. I realized I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl doesn't respond to messages/texts for days, is this normal?

First, I met this girl and we hit it off pretty well. A lot of the same interests, similar personality, similar goals, share same sense of humor, etc.; overall, we have a lot of chemistry together. So, we've been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Wearing a Bra instead of Bikini Top

I have this bra that actually doesn't look like a bra. It's black, and it matches the bottom part perfectly. My other swimsuits are washing... Should I wear it, it looks ok!

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls showering together?

My bff wants to shower with me. She says it's normal because she showers with some of her bffs also. I was wondering, is this normal? How many other girls here would shower together?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are your views on fat people? Fat women, specifically?

Well, I'm fat, as in very obese. Most people don't think I weigh as much as I do, but I wouldn't lie about it so you can trust me lol I'm 5'3/5'4 and 230 lbs. So two things happened recently that spark my curiosity...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is a deep cupids bow on the upper lip sexy?

Do you find a deep cupids bow sexy? like this --> link Or do you prefer an upper lip like this Example --> link

nollie33

Xper 7 Age: 37

Girls is it a turn off if a guy gets nervous when talking to you?

If he smiles and laughs nervously but has a sense of humor would you still be mad at him for not being smooth and confident?

lonelyvirgin

Xper 3 Age: 37

Found my boyfriend on a swingers website and don't know what to do?

Hello After some advice please - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years we have lived together for 7 months, we are happy and I thought we were totally in love with one another - our sex life is still great. However,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

If a guy doesn't initiate contact ever, but shows that he likes you in other ways, is he interested?

K this guy I like never speaks to me first. So I always go and talk to him to let him know I'm interested and then we can talk for ages and he seems really into me when we talk. When I ask him for help he bends over...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is my ex-girlfriend trying to ruin my current relationship?

Okay, so me and my ex broke up obviously. I was crazy for her and kept trying to talk to her but she kept ignoring me and seemed like she was happy, until one day I met this new girl. Me and the new girl became really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think of cowboy boots + shorts?

Cowboy boots and shorts, what do you think of them? tacky? inappropriate? unfashionable? "slutty"(I don't believe in that term btw) link link link link

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

I made out with my boyfriend for the first time and...

We were lying in the grass and he started to kiss me. Then BAM tongue in my mouth. I liked it a little. My issue is mainly that I didn't feel anything inside while we were kissing. I do like him, but there were no sparks...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you ever try to have staring contests with strangers?

I was in the car outside of the gas station and I made eye contact with this guy. Neither one of us looked away for 5 seconds until I got distracted, then I looked back and he was still staring. Then it was his turn at...

Croutons

Xper 4 Age: 35

Ladies, how do you tell if a kiss went well or not?

Went on a date and we ended up kissing at the end... Normally neither one of us does that, but it just happened and felt awesome.. the whole gave me a hug good night and a kiss on the cheek and then we locked eyes and it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

How many times have you blacked out while drinking?

The question is up there. Out of all the times I've drank alcohol, I'd say I've blacked out approximately seven or eight times. Well, I know that there's been around seven or eight times where I can't remember anything...

Mr_Solo_Dolo

Yoda Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

If he makes an effort to say hello?

If a guy makes an effort to say hello and goodbye to you, how can you tell the difference between being friendly and being interested? My dilemma is that this guy always seems to make an effort to say hello and call my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

My friend's boyfriend is texting me?

I've only met him a couple times, but haven't seen him in a good six months and he's dating a pretty good friend of mine (we hangout every couple weeks.). Anyways, yesterday he made a group on Facebook asking for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

What's your reaction when you realize an old flame has blocked you on Facebook?

especially if you were mean to them like do you feel bad?

Anonymous

(36-45)