I went from trying a relationship, to hooking up only, to now just not dealing with women in general outside of regular peers and have noticed my stress levels are now really low.
With a relationship I was always blamed for things I never even did, constantly going out of my way to make a girl "feel special," and receiving very little of anything in return.
With hooking up it constantly threw my plans off. I was constantly having to deal with short term plans that threw off my already busy schedule and sometimes they were great and other times they were not so great.
Now with nothing at all I feel like neither of these can bother me now. Yet I see so many people wanting a relationship yet I feel like many don't realize that this day and age aren't as capable of even making a relationship work and only seem to approach relationships for very specific purposes.
Does anyone feel like being single's a benefit these days? With the amount of trash out there, why settle for a mediocre partner and deal with it?
With a relationship I was always blamed for things I never even did, constantly going out of my way to make a girl "feel special," and receiving very little of anything in return.
With hooking up it constantly threw my plans off. I was constantly having to deal with short term plans that threw off my already busy schedule and sometimes they were great and other times they were not so great.
Now with nothing at all I feel like neither of these can bother me now. Yet I see so many people wanting a relationship yet I feel like many don't realize that this day and age aren't as capable of even making a relationship work and only seem to approach relationships for very specific purposes.
Does anyone feel like being single's a benefit these days? With the amount of trash out there, why settle for a mediocre partner and deal with it?
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