Hot Christian girl invited me to her church or whatever and im atheist?

[Anonymous]

She was all smiley at me, they're always like that though.. Like a cult... Anyway i told her
"im not christian..."
"Oh thats okay!"
"Haha but im an atheist"
"Thats fine! We meet here (hands me paper an smiles big) i hope i see you there!"

Should i go? I mean I'll be bored and my skin would prob burn from her god or whatever stepping in there haha is she interested or trying to save another soul

[Anonymous]

:P With that kind of attitude, I can tell you right now: she is not going to be interested in dating you.

I mean, aside from the fact she's Christian, can you imagine how most girls would interpret your kind of mindset? Basically what you're saying is, "I don't care about what your fundamental beliefs are. In fact, I think they are boring, weird, and stupid. BUT I think your body is awesome. So I want to go on a date with you to get a chance to get to know your body better, and if you agree to go out with me - I hope you decide to keep quiet, so I don't learn anything more about who you are as a person".

From a girl's perspective, yeah you sound like great boyfriend material... :P

So should you go?
Well that depends on how serious you are about liking this girl. Do you just want to bang her and dump her? If so, then leave her alone. Forget about her. Respect her beliefs and respect your time by finding an easier girl who shares your interest in a casual hook up.

Or are you actually interested in her for more than hooking up? Are you looking to be in a relationship now? Would you be willing to be a little extra patient in letting her get to know you and having to learn about her? If yes, then go as a way to learn about how she thinks and who she really is.

It kinda sounds like you are not going to change your mind about your philosophy though. (For the record, I think you may be completely missing the whole point of Christianity - but it's your job to do that research, so I won't bother explaining it here). If that's the case and you truly do not think you're going to change your philosophy, you will save yourself and this girl a whole TON of frustration by forgetting about her and finding some secular girl who's more like you.

Hope that helps.

[Asker]

Dont know what kind of trash guys you talk to but thats either who you hang out with or thats the biggest stereotype.. Also making assumptions about me, do i believe she's stupid or boring for believing in her religion? No i believe everyone has a right to love and their beliefs.
"Getting to know her body better" maybe the trashy guys you talk to, not all guys are after that one thing.. How am i to know if i like her if we only had that interaction.. Kinda why i wanted to see her but if it was up to me, not there.. But its the only place I'll know she will be and I'll see her again.
Again "trying to bang her" or whatever ur trashy guys do that
And for the "research" i dont believe in passing judgement on material you have no idea on, I've read the bible twice.. Do they have good lessons and morals and such? Yes, very well written literature and life lessons, do i imagion gods up there in the clouds? As much as i do big foot.

[LovelySerene]

Don't go, don't force yourself to do things you don't like just because a girl is hot...if she was interested in you, she wouldn't ask you to go AFTER you tell her that you're Atheist.

[Asker]

But she was so pretty :/

[LovelySerene]

Take my word for it dude, it's not worth it...there are plenty of hot girls out there who won't try and convert you. Cause if you go...you will regret it, lol, I remember the last time my friend dragged me to her church thing

[Asker]

Haha your right.. I got told off by some guy because i was texting the entire time when my parents dragged me to the Christmas one

[LovelySerene]

lol my friend dragged me to a church group and I was honest, I told them that I don't believe in god and that I don't need to. "God" isn't the one helping me get through my disabilities, I am. No "God" can heal me. I'm not "blessed" I'm just freaking awesome...I was never invited again.

[Asker]

Same! Haha

[Bep1998]

Don't go if you feel its wrong, but you could go to support her. It's all up to. :) good luck

[Agrojag]

Don't. She's going to be trying to convert you the entire time. Then she'll probably tell the congregation that you're atheist so they'll all be focused on you for the entire sermon. Women aren't worth compromising your beliefs for or the trouble of masking them just to make them happy.

[CellLuddite]

Yeah, but he can try to convert her the whole time too. Ever think of that? I'm telling you, corrupting a naive nubile Jesus-Freak... Making her scream "Oh God!" while she orgasms... Best feeling in the world.

[Agrojag]

Haha! Perhaps, but I'm giving the edge to the woman here. She has superior ground as Sun Tzu might have said. :P Still don't think it's worth the trouble.

[indian_empress_91]

True

[parkway]

Go you might learn something. Worst case they might hang to a pole.

[26ukdude]

Hahaha I love this "her church or whatever". I wouldn't go, you may burst into flames when you walk in if you have sinned, she probably wants to convert you and the only thing she is insterested in bashing is the bible and not your bishop

[Asker]

Hahaha good one

[AndyWes]

Christian girls love playing missionary and trying to bring men to church... gives them warm tingles, lmao.

[Asker]

So she wants to like do me in the bathroom is what your saying? Haha ;)

[AndyWes]

Don't be ridiculous. More like find an empty meeting room.

[Asker]

Hahaha!

[AndyWes]

You think I'm kidding?

[AndyWes]

Dude, people hooking up in/around church is not uncommon. I know one girl at a church I used to attend (Church of Apostles Atlanta) who found an empty room and banged her bf. And given that these things would be handled with utmost secrecy both by the couple, and by any mortified church staff that found naked teens in their building, I'm guessing it's not uncommon.

[divisionbell]

For the love of god, don't do it man. Even if she was at all interested, she's much more interested in converting you. Former Christian here.

[Asker]

I know :/ but she was so pretty haha those Christians can be tricky

[Daph81]

agree. former christian here too, but not an atheist.
She might not try to convert you at first, but she'd definitely be hoping that by going to church, you'd be warming up to the idea of accepting Jesus.

[springocelot]

She's proselytizing. You shouldn't go unless you're broke and they happen to have some really good free food at the event.

[LovelySerene]

I never thought of that, free food is good

[Asker]

They usually only have small cookies as tea haha

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

She's prothe... prote... protr... protothelysizing.

[Asker]

You spelled it wrong

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

Dammit.

[Asker]

Haha no worries bud

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

Anyway, don't go. I'd hate for them to think that when you burst into flames it's a Holy Fire.

[Asker]

Haha right.. Or as soon as i walk in she screams "thats the one!" and starts throwing water at me hahaha

[Asker]

Holy water

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

Exactly. So unless you want a rather forceful and unruly baptism you might want to sit this one out.

[Asker]

Haha do Christians do exorcisms

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

Oh yeah. Exorcisms are a very Christian thing.

[Asker]

😳 haha im not foing

[Asker]

Going...

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

Foe-ing is a good word.

[Asker]

You see that smart ass i fixed it going*

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

Well "Foing" is a dumb word. I like the idea of having someone "Foe-ing" though. Going around and being a foe! Pho? Now I'm hungry.

[Asker]

Its the fucking iphone that did it with auto correct..

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

I know what you mean and I feel your pain. I really do. My tablet has made me say some rather insane things.

[Nightingale]

She knows you like her, and she's using that to convert you.

[DodgersGM]

This does not sound like a good idea. I'd skip it if I were you.

[willshere]

I've been there before. Honestly you should just save yourself the time and find a girl who has similar beliefs

[willshere]

She probably isn't interested honestly. Christians get more power by each person they convert

[legalboxers]

look out! holy water to convert you and turn you into something else.. your melting...melting...

[Asker]

Haha what if she told everyone an an atheist was coming, they get their holy water all ready and i come in a rain coat haha

[legalboxers]

well go for it

[Powdude43]

Hey, what's it going to hurt? You should go.

[Asker]

Honest question could i eat candy in there if its not loud? I feel like itd make it go faster haha i prob can't text in there i assume