All Questions

If a girl has high expectations, is it a turn off for guys?

Okay, so I am the kind of person that has VERY high expectations from people, whether it’s a friend, a date, a boyfriend, or a business partner. I don’t expect people to be perfect, because no one is and I’m not either,...

FunnyHunnyBunny10

Xper 3 Age: 38

Why Do Girls Put Other Girls Down?

to make themselves feel better? Like when they ask a question on here, they word it so they can get the answers they want?Or if they give the fat girls battle cry?Or put down skinny girls and automatically label the girl...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

What object would you compare yourself to and why?

the question is explained

estrellita

Xper 5 Age: 35

How can I find out if my dance partner likes me without making things awkward?

I do ballroom dancing and my partner is a year older than me and goes to a different school. Monday-Friday I live at my boarding school but come home Tuesdays for dance lessons. I really like him and I know him quite...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls pee in the shower?

just wondering. cause to go from a warm shower to a cold toilet seat can't be that great!

jdmguy

Xper 5 Age: 46

Why does he always stare at me, but never smiles or comes to talk to me?!

So this guy is in quite a few of my classes, and we have never talked before. He caught my eye a few weeks ago, and this was because he was staring me down one day. In class if he speaks up to answer a question he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What causes emotional attraction for us guys?

for girls it seems to be the troubled guy that triggers her emotions, but guys don't operate like that, so what causes emotional attraction for us in a girl?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls how would you feel if your boyfriend dated a lot of girls before you?

Just wondering how you girls would feel about your boyfriend having several girlfriends before you? I don't know the exact number but I know it is over 11 girls. Am I being stupid for letting it bother me?

raina1580

Xper 3 Age: 45

Why do I feel compelled to emotionally torture myself?

I guess it's like emotional cutting? Every so often I need to hurt myself by reliving emotionally hurtful incidents or scaring myself by reading about heart wrenching accounts of aviation disasters or something. Needless...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is he avoiding answering my question?

the guy I like knows I like him. I got the feeling he may have liked me too so I asked him straight out and he didn't give a straight answer but instead said how he was happy being single for now since his ex girlfriend...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Do guys like thoughtful gifts?

like homemade ones?

marymaryy

Xper 5 Age: 33

Why do guys/girls play games with each other?

I'm just curious to see how people respond to this question. I don't understand why if two people like each other they would play games. Like not calling,mind games etc etc. note-I'm not in a situation where games...

BrentDude33

Xper 5 Age: 39

Should I send him a message, or wait for him to talk to me?

I added this guy on facebook that I have had a few classes with, but never talked to and he accepted my friend request. Should I send him a message or wait for him to say something to me? What should I say to him if you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, why drink alcohol to 'loosen up' in front of a girl you like?

There's this guy who I know has a huge crush on me. I'm actually considering giving him a chance. His best friend told me though that he intends to get drunk when we meet up next. .. and I've noticed any time we spend...

Anonymous

(36-45)

We've been dating for a year, still not official, is this right?

I've been talking to this guy, it will be a year in November 13. Now these are the pros and cons of the relationship. PROS: -He lives 2 minutes away from me, so we spend a lot of time together -My parents love him. -I...

awesome_arlene

Xper 4 Age: 35

Guys, why do you try to make girls jealous?

If you and a girl are actively flirting and it's clear enough that she likes you and you like her why would you all of a sudden start trying to make her jealous by flirting with other girls right in front of her. Doesn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: Do you find musicians attractive?

Curious, since I've seen a lot of patterns where girls seem to be oddly interested in people with artistic abilities. What makes them special or if you're on the other end of the spectrum, what turns you off to them?

Apocalypticality

Xper 6 Age: 35

Relationships

How do I say 'yes' without sounding desperate?

this guy suggested through email that we grab drinks sometime soon. he's always telling people close to me how beautiful I am, etc etc. I think he's cute and would love to. but how can I say 'yes'? should I just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Whats it mean when a girl looks you smiles then puts her head down and looks away.... and has been smiling?

this girl every time she see's me she smiles I don't know what it means and its kind of starting to annoy me...is she interested is she laughing at me any1 know?

Anonymous

(30-35)

"Girls don't like boys, girl like cars and money." Accurate song lyric or jaded viewpoint?

That line was sung by Good Charlotte. Is this accurate or a jaded viewpoint?

BobSacamano

Xper 4 Age: 45

Break Up & Divorce

Ex boyfriend's friend contacting me?

Okay so I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago. The other day his friend, who I had only met twice messages me and asks what happened to me and my ex. I told him and blah blah blah he was like 'I'm sorry but o...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

This guy is putting the ball in my court. Why would he do that? Please help!

Okay I need some opinions fellas. There is this guy I really like who works at this store I shop at. I've known the guy for a while and he's started to get to know me for the last couple of months and we've been having...

Gypsytattoo

Xper 5 Age: 38

Relationships

Can you use earring cleaner to clean your belly button piercing?

I have almost a whole bottle of it that I didn't use and I was wondering if it's okay to use for my new belly button piercing that I got today. Thanks in advance!

GypsyGirl

Xper 5 Age: 33

How do I get my boyfriend to wash his hair more often?

i love him to death, but I HATE his greasy hair! he doesn't smell bad or anything, but his hair is just...ugh. I've honestly tried everything. as a gift once I gave him a "manly spa kit" which included shampoo, body wash,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are most people just average looking?

just asking...

studmuffin-perfect10

Xper 3 Age: 40

Why do girls chase when guys ignore them?

Why do girls chase when guys ignore them? I have found this experience kind of true. My first time was with a girl I have ignored and have no interest in. My friend married a girl that he had no interest in at first, but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

He won't return my stuff.

Short story is that we were off and on for a few months about being friends after he told me his feelings changed and he still has some of my things that I want back. A few days ago I told him I didn't want to be friends....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Why did my best female friend just stop talking to me for no apparent reason? Ladies please help and way in ?

To start off I became really close with a female friend of mine and yes I really liked her but she had a boyfriends so I never told her how I felt because I didn't want to mess her relationship up with him even though he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

More time spent together, more feelings will develop?

Do you think the more a guy and a girl spend time with each other and hang out, that one or both will eventually develop feelings for the other person?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy pretty and girl pretty?

Do you think there's such a thing as being guy pretty or girl pretty? If so please explain what you think makes someone either one. An example I think is Selena Gomez and Demi Lovato, for the most part I think Selena is...

Badfish07

Xper 3 Age: 35

Should your boyfriend think you're the most beautiful girl in the world?

So my boyfriend basically said (when I was being insecure) that I am "more attractive than most people". At first I thought that was a nice thing to say but then I really thought about it and it kind of hurt my feelings....

princesscaroline87

Xper 3 Age: 38

FOR THE BOYS: Why do guys stop talking to girls they 'like' out of nowhere?

s a guy who has already confessed he liked me stopped talking to me all of a sudden ( after an evening playing football with his friends to be precise), his friends don't know me as we had only met recently. I was just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does he miss me? Will he start missing me if I ignore him?

Me and my boyfriend were dating for 2 years. we broke up about 2 months ago (mutual) because we were starting college and he had too much to deal with. 2 weeks later he already has a girlfriend and its my best friend...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Dating a guy HEAPS hotter than yourself?

i am currently dating a guy who is totally out of my league...he could get ANY girl he wants...his body is perfect..etc etc WHY is he with me? am I just like, a hobby until he finds a better girl?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend talks to my friend a lot more?

So its the beginning of the relationship and my friend loves to **** block and I already shouted at him for talking to her so much more than I do. I shouldn't have to compete with him and he continues to talk a lot to her...

Anonymous

(30-35)