Why don't men like western women?

Question

There seems to be a undercurrent of distaste toward western women from a lot of guys on this site, why?

As a western woman I find myself in the minority in that I'm family focused, and in my future household expect to do the "women's" work like cooking, cleaning, laundry while my husband will do mans work like physical repairs and yard work. Is my thinking so rare in western women these days? Is the lack of women who think luke this the reason western men seem to dislike western women?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

lol Throw out a derogatory term towards people when you have no real argument. As if guys couldn't be displeased with you...

I'm just going to do a few things that irk me personally. I'll be generalizing American women, and I don't feel this way about all of them. I have never been around that many women that are western (other than American) or women that aren't western.

-First and foremost, women only like gender roles when it suits them. The most common example is the fact that most are unwilling to ask a guy out. I know what most girls are thinking when they read that "He's too scared to ask a girl out, so he wants girls to do it for him." Not true at all for most men (some, I agree with), but I see nothing wrong in wanting to meet half way. I am afraid of rejection, but I still try it. It would be nice for girls to approach a guy that they're interested in.

Women are making more money than they ever have, but they only want guys that are on their level or above, which I believe is the opposite of guys. Some girls are thinking "You're broke and want to get with a girl that has money." Nope, I'd just like to be seen as more than just my job and how much money I make. I generally see women as greedy in the dating world, and I'll touch up on that again later.

-I don't think women value intelligence as often as they should (this is mainly for younger girls). I see some of the smartest girls get caught up with the uncouth, thuggish, "going nowhere" types. I don't get it. Some girls are thinking "You're unattractive and/or can't talk to women." I'm average, just as most other people. I am not a social butterfly, but it'd be cool for a girl to get to know me, yeah?

-More and more of them are sleeping around. They have one night stands, friends with benefits, sleep with guys early on in relationships. I wouldn't have a problem with this if there weren't so many. I also read an article that some girls aren't happy with that either and drop their panties so they can hold a guy's attention. Girls are thinking: "You're not getting any, so that's why you complain about it." Only partially true. I am not getting any but by choice. I would just like a girl that doesn't do that and actually feels something for that guy before f***ing him. I'm not being hypocritical about it at all.

-Similar to the last two, I think women settle for a certain kind of guy in their late 20s into their 30s. They have their fun early on and want a stable partner later in life and it seems like they usually bring their kids along. Not very appetizing.

-Not only are divorce rates high, but 2/3 of divorces are initiated by women. Very few of them say it's because of a cheating or abusive husband. Usually it's because of financial issues or their just want a new guy. I'd actually like to be cared about.

There's a few more I could mention, but I'm running out of space. Question: when you say that you want to do those things, do any other women give you crap about it?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You are in the minority of women these days, and for that, I say good for you.

Many women (though I hesitate to say a majority, that might be pushing it) in the western world these days are very entitled.

They don't seem to mind or be concerned that from a very young age, boys are failing in school and don't graduate.

They don't seem to mind that fewer and fewer men are attending college.

They don't seem to mind that men are a minority now in the workforce and can't make a decent living to provide for a family.

These same girls don't seem to think there's nothing wrong with sleeping with dozens of guys and then expect one guy to settle down with them when they are done "having their fun".

These same girls if they do marry, are very likely to take all a man's assets in a divorce and custody of their shared children.

There are magazine articles by women now published in the west that are entitled "Are men really needed any more?".

For all these reasons and more, many men are rightfully very suspicious of the average western woman. I don't think all of you are bad, but many of you harbor very anti-man thoughts and behavior. You sound like a wonderful exception. There are other cultures in the world that still value men by a majority of the women in those countries. I hope that you do find a man who can take care of you and treat you with the same respect you treat men. Seriously, I wish you the best!

peace-love-couture · Accepted Answer

I think the guys on here feel like western women have been ruined by feminism to the point of blatant discrimination and belittling of men.

Women from other parts of the world such as Asia, are very submissive and lack a voice(typically). I don't think you'd want to associate with a guy who wants that anyways. Plus, most dudes on here are just bitter and like to blame their failures on women and they somehow think that women in other parts of the world want them LOL cause if a woman in America wants a dominant dude, clearly the submissive chick from China doesn't want a dominant dude.

This is all a generalization though.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Misogyny.

These gems usually like foreign women (usually Asian) because they're submissive and can't talk back, and are easily threatened by women who hold any kind of power.

There are a lot of them on this site.

sixstring · Answer

Because a lot of men turn bitter when they deal with bitches. Not all of is justified, but there is also another reason.

Because Western women still act victimized by men, using all sorts of bullsh*t and distorted statistics to "prove" it.

Yes there is still discrimination against women, but not nearly as much as most women like to pretend, and more importantly, in the West there is much more discrimination going on against men.

handsomejackk · Answer

I don't really discriminate between Western women and the rest of the world. I judge individually.

But I do fully understand the importance of traditional values. Without going on an anti-feminist rant, which is tempting, I'll just sum up my thoughts by saying that there are a whole lot more options for life directions these days that both women and men have kind of forgotten about starting a family.

Anonymous · Answer

Because most Western women are catty, self-entitled bitches. A (former) female friend of mine, who is living off of a trust fund, once said to me "Ummmm...I'm hot, I'm not getting a job. Once my money runs out I'll just marry a rich guy."

Another female friend of mine told me "I love bars! All you have to do is walk in, grind on some guy for a minute until he buys you a drink, then just walk away!"

Yeah, you Western women are a real catch.

Anonymous · Answer

Feminists won't like you, however most men should cherish you. I think most men just want you to feel like you don't have to do it, that's why they say they don't like it..just have a hard time mouthing how they really feel

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