Why is the average modernday western woman more adept at being a "b****" to be blunt demanding respect rather than a woman worthy of respect?

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I'm not western by birth, I just live here.

But I've noticed a trend among western women. They're more a bitch, and a loudmouthed one at that, demanding respect rather than women worthy of respect.

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As example yesterday I was leaving the bank & held open a door for a woman about my age - mid 30s. Walked right through. No thanks, no smile, nothing. I could've been her slave.

I turned around and said "you're welcome" and her response was "what's your problem".

She was dressed in typical mid-level work clothes. More than likely a receptionist or maybe an admin assistant. Nothing in her hands, no obvious means of being distracted.

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I give that example because this is how many western women act. Not just towards other women but oftentimes towards men. Comically

a) I probably make three maybe even four times her income as an industry specialist but I assume she thought herself better because I was wearing track pants

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b) I always say thank you, etc. when talking to others. I never feel obligated or demand respect and for that reason I earn respect from all sorts of people.

ZamerZ · Accepted Answer

I've only experienced this in big cities, regardless of gender or origins. I'm from a smalltown and while we also do have impolite people, this doesn't happen often. If women behave badly and entitled under the guise of feminism or entering their "villain era", it is a very skewed way of living. Nobody deserves disrespect and rudeness, especially not when you try to do something nice, but ultimately, strangers don't owe you a thank you! - even if it is the right thing to do.

So, I understand why it threw you off. But you also sound like a pick-me here and there and obviously, demand respect from rude people - or rather, women - like the one you've encountered here. So that contradicts the last part of your point b). You won't come out higher by putting other women down and calling them whores, just as they don't come out on top by acting like a complete asshole.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

Depends where you live.. if you live in a big city most people don't care about anyone and usually will ignore you. Smaller communities tend to be more friendly. Men will always be nicer to women then women to women. Don't take it too personally it just is how the world is..

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

Women in more modern and wealthy countries have been taught that being a "bitch" is necessary or the way to go in life to get anything. Put a silver spoon in their mouths and they're 10x worse. When I went to study in D. C. you saw them everywhere, and the ones on the Metro were appalling.

It seems to be that western women are the only women in the world who do not see the way they behave. Or don't want to. You and other women from other countries see how terrible it is and how unnecessary. Western women refuse because in their minds humility is weakness. Not realizing that they're losing western men to foreign women, while no men around the world are trying to get a western wife.

inhua · Accepted Answer

everybody gets a baseline bare minimum level of respect. outside of that any extra respect has to be earned. not given

nobody should get special privileges because they were born a certain way

and no amount of shame tactics will change this either

Lionman95 · Answer

Because modern western culture is built on the idea that everyone is great they are. That everyone should be given more praise and interest than they give other people aka you deserve more than you yourself. People expect others to love and praise them way than they would give vice versa.
People that are humble at looked bad at but instead the one that attracts the most attention is praised.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Probably the way they were brought up: being taught the world owes them everything, they're special and don't have to work for anything and it will just be given to them, you know, like, getting a $15.00 an hour minimum wage and getting trophies and praise for coming in dead last.

Anonymous · Answer

Because today's women have been taught that they deserve respect, and that the way to get respect is to demand it. In reality there is a world of difference between being treated respectfully and being respected. Respect is earned, not given, and many/nost women today are not worthy of the respect they feel entitled to.

LazerBean · Answer

That's more of a northerner/big city problem than a Western problem. Most places in the south, it is customary to be polite to strangers and wave/hold doors for them/ say thank you etc...

Pete671 · Answer

Yes and they demand equality, but don't like it when they get treated truly equally!!!

_piotr · Answer

I blame wokeness and feminism.

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