All Questions

What does he mean by he wants things to stay the same with us but doesn't want to be in a relationship?

I dated this guy things were going great we never fight or argue. One day out of the blue he broke up with me(in a text message)we didn't speak for almost a week then he texted me telling me he had strong feelings for me....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he pretend as if nothing happened?

I was texting my crush at around 2 am and he tells me that he's been thinking hard for a while now about dating me, and is hesitant because he doesn't want to be my first bf. He didn't say that he liked me though, and I...

HopeIessRomantik

Xper 6 Age: 36

Can a frat really ruin your boyfriend?

i fell in love with my boyfriend nearly two years ago. he just started attending a college about one hundred miles away. I can't drive so I can't go see him on the weekends and even if I could drive he's always so busy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why doesn't he ever call or ask to hang out?

I met this guy about 2 months ago and started dating about a month a half ago. I have had my eye on him for about a year and when I saw him, I asked him for his number and initiated a date. I didn't want to waste any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Girls, what would you think of guys who wear Playboy stuff?

A recent question by Kelly talked about girls wearing playboy stuff, so I wanted to know what you thought about guys wearing it. Most people thought those girls would be trashy, but I'm a guy and can't be "trashy". Also,...

mortonc57

Explorer Age: 37

Other

Help - this girl is driving me nuts.

this is a follow up to this question I asked so you get the background story link its very interesting I think the way this ends Anyways since then I have been talking to her on and off, almost everyday, and...

LelouchLamperoug

Xper 5 Age: 37

She loves me but has a boyfriend? Extremely Complex Situation!

I was hoping for help with my current situation. I've known this girl for a little more than 1/2 a year--at first we'd meet just to do schoolwork together, but over the past few months, we've spent more and more time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Asking people who smoke pot..what does it mean to blow smoke at someone's face ?

my crush and I were on my bed smoking weed together. I was laying down and he was sitting up. I barely smoke so I got high right away. so anyways I started falling asleep as he kept on smoking. I was dozing in and out of...

Fierce

Xper 5 Age: 37

Shopping & Gifts

I might buy football tickets for my boyfriend's birthday ..what's the best seats?

its at the new Dallas stadium ..i was just wondering what's the best seats to get for a football team? I'm sure front row is the best of course but I have a price range.lol. is behind the goal good or horrible? clue me in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Why does my girlfriend only text me when she is bored rather than talking to me at other times too?

My girlfriend started texting me when she was bored at her best friend's sporting event, and when it was over she said she had to go and couldn't talk anymore although she very well could. It breaks my heart knowing she...

tomkin

Xper 3 Age: 35

Why do girls look away when walking by?

I'm like amazing looking, but when I walk past them on campus they look away and act like they are looking at something else!

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can a crush on someone go away just like that?

This guy in one of my classes last year liked me, it was clear as day. He was constantly looking at me trying to catch my gaze, smiling, etc. He had never actually talked to me though. I found out later he had a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

I had a dream about a guy I've never met

hey everyone! I had the most amazing dream this morning..it was about a guy I have never met..but I knew instantly that we're going to be together,i didn't understand how this happened.. his touch gave me tingles,and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do black guys tend to hit on me more than white ones?

I'm not racist or anything, it just makes me wonder. I don't date black guys and never have. I had a black girl tell me one time, that I look like I date them because of my body..? I just don't understand. help please!

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

When do girls wear thongs/G-strings? When do you wear them the most?

Is there a special type of clothes that you prefer when you wear them?

Partyboy69

Xper 5 Age: 33

Boyfriend's dad in the hospital; I don't know what to do.

so I have been dating my boyfriend 10 months almost 11 and his dad went into the hospital a couple days ago. his dad has pneumonia and he is in pain but the doctors don't know what it is. I have told him that I am there...

nikkijoe616

Xper 4 Age: 39

No-Pants Party ?

Anyone have any good ideas for outfits for a no-pants party ? Don't bother suggesting skirts or dresses, the invite clearly reads: "...just remember: NO PANTS! NO SHORTS! NO SKIRTS! NO DRESSES!..." And I don't think...

jellyfishh

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why are women so makeup obsessed?

Like seriously, I don't mind a little makeup, but some women can be pig-headed when it comes to make up. I understand the "gotta look good" and all, but some are spending close to an hour in the bathroom. Some girls...

bellybuttonlint

Yoda Age: 42

Guy's Behavior

Why do girls think they have it harder than guys when it comes to love, dating, and relationships?

Why do girls complain a lot, whine, and think that they have it harder than guys do when it comes to love, dating, and relationships, boyfriend/girlfriend, etc.? Seriously, more girls should realize that they have it so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Guys... Would you give a girl you are dating a key to your place?

Hi. I've been dating this guy for about 2 months. We have known each other and been close friends for well over 10 years. That being said... he recently announced that he is giving me his spare set of keys so that I...

vice-chix

Xper 3 Age: 46

My girlfriend is very independent and we hardly see each other. What do I do?

My girlfriend and I have been serious for two months and I have deep feelings for her and she has them for me. But one thing continues to bother me. She is very independent and likes doing a lot of things by herself....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Why do random girls know my name?

Several times, random girls knew my name and were like "hi nick" and I never talked to them a day in my life. What is up with this? This happens more than once, and I'm beginning to think something bad is going around...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are blue eyes considered more attractive?

Green and brown eyes are so under-rated :(

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Recovering from being the crazy ex?

It's been about a month since he broke up with me over something hurtful I did. I spent the first chunk of weeks profusely apologizing (letters, emails, two visits, calls) all of which he responded to. Then I called him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys crush on girls even in their thirties??

There is this cute guy at work who is funny but waits till he has a lead to be outgoing. He's commented on how I have a great personality and he stares a lot. I catch him sneaking glances and checking me out when I look...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Do girls like guys who can dance?

This can be any sort of dancing, slow or fast or just dancing in a club... Personally I can't dance in a club, I don't mind slow dancing with a girl, other than that I hate dancing, can't dance won't dance sort of thing...

Jonny_

Guru Age: 36

Health & Fitness

Push up bras

What do guys think of push up bras and padded bras? Are you disappointed when it comes off and you find out they are not as big or as perky as you expected?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

She left me, I'm with someone else now, she's all shocked?

Okay so, 7 months ago she left me for another guy, I chased her for 3 months, begging for her back, she didn't care, she acted like a B****. Now that I'm dating some1 else, she's all worried. She keeps asking my friends...

mshaker

Explorer Age: 40

How do you get over height issues?

So, I usually won't date guys that are shorter than me. I started talking to this guy recently (I met him from a dating site and he lives down the street from me) and I really enjoy talking to him and I think he could...

punchxcore

Xper 3 Age: 41

Shopping & Gifts

My ex girlfriend invited me to her birthday party... should I go?

We dated for 4 years and broke up 6 months ago. She broke up with me and I was devastated for a while and begged for her to come back for a while (which I now know looks pitiful) I stopped all that about 2 months ago...

stlguy5

Xper 5 Age: 37

I think I freaked out my crush...

Well I started crushing on this guy who I don't know very well. I thought he was very attractive and seemed like a decent person. I never really gave him a second thought until I kept seeing him all around school. A lot...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Scared to tell my parents about my girlfriend.

How do I tell my parents about having my first girlfriend? My dad question me a while back as to if I talked to girls in my school, I don't know if that was cause he thought I was gay or what, I'm kind of a feminine guy,...

Anonymous

(30-35)