All Questions

If I were you, I really wouldn't read this.

My brain is like a large ocean of questions and answers. I've just been answering unanswered questions for about an hour and I've realized that holy sh*t, this site is intense sometimes. Of course, you've got the...

falendove

Xper 3 Age: 34

My boyfriend used to self harm...

I'm just wondering if there's anything I can do to feel like I'm helping when he gets depressed? He said he hasn't cut in about eight months and I believe him, but sometimes he gets close and it's a struggle. I just wanna...

iminlovewithcam

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

How can I stop being insecure about my height?

Ok I'm gonna try and say this without sounding big headed, or like a woman lol. I'm very smart , talented, funny, sweet (I'm not Mr Nice Guy or anything though), romantic when given the chance. All my girl friends say I...

Dylan1989

Xper 3 Age: 37

Girls: What Skin Tone Do You Prefer In a Guy?

I need BRUTAL DEAD HONESTY Please, women. For once be truthful in what you prefer in a guy. Just this once, be totally honest. In real life, which guy do you prefer to date/eventually possibly marry. If its more...

Lockjawx27

Xper 6 Age: 37

Flirting

She keeps saying she wants to see me, but she ends up blowing me off

I started seeing this girl from school 3 weeks ago, she's 22 I'm 30. She had her eye on me the whole semester and so did I, eventually I made a move and things seemed great. We made out early on and totally hit it off, we...

guv2201

Xper 5 Age: 46

Why are guys so mean to me?

I notice when I talk to certain guys (who are known to be silly), they're mean to me. Not in a cruel, down-right insulting way, but in a joking way. There's this one guy who is in two of my classes who can be nice to me...

corset-tise

Xper 5 Age: 33

Why can't men be like Edward Cullen?

50 Edward Cullen Characteristics That Every Guy Should Have 1. Be inhumanly attractive 2. Drive 200 km/h 3. Save you from death 4. Have an amazing body 5. Be incredibly wealthy 6. Be too much of a gentlemen 7....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why won't my ex add me back on facebook, but will talk to me over and inbox message?

i deleted him about 4 months ago, when we broke up. he has a new girlfriend. we did meet up a month ago, and we are on good terms...so why can't we be friends on facebook?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

When a girl asks you to be her boyfriend?

I've been seeing this girl for roughly a month. We've gone on a few dates but mostly we have a lot of sex, has to be over a dozen times now. The other day she asked me if I thought we could be more serious like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are some cute nicknames that girls can call their boyfriends?

Guys usually call their girlfriends nick-names like babe, sexy, hotty, pretty, beautiful, ect. But what are some cute nicknames girls can call their boyfriend?

xoxogirl252

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why did my ex delete me off Facebook?

After about 4 months of being apart (she broke up with me for her ex)...moved back home out of state with him. She wanted to be friends and said she loved me when she broke up, I agreed. We just haven't contacted each...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Once a woman is in a relationship why do some women let themselves go?

They don't take as much with their appearance? They stop being as charming... Do the men even care? Does it make them less attractive? Has this ever happened to you?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Can a guy be too perfect?

Well me and my girlfriend recently borke up and she told me that I am too perfect and she only could stay mad at me for 10 seconds lol so here's my question can a guy be too perfect? I am content on getting her back even...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I regret rejecting my best friend!

I turned down my best friend years ago because he picked the worst possible moment to tell me (I was being bullied about being desperate at the time and that I would take the first offer I got) and I lost my temper...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex boyfriend's flatmate (and friend) is hitting on me...

so I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years a fortnight back. his friend keeps on calling and messaging me everyday and asks me to hang out with him. yesterday he invited me to a pub. I told him that perhaps his friend...

confused_gal

Xper 3 Age: 39

Shopping & Gifts

What would you do if your boyfriend didn't get you a Christmas gift?

Well that's what happened to me. My boyfriend of now 2 months didn't get me a Christmas gift. He doesn't have a job. It's not easy for him to get money. I told my bff and Dad that he didn't get me anything yet and they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

I'm a failure with women... what to do?

I don't believe I am that bad looking, just average. skinny with blue eyes. But I am not a body builder, as I am skinny. I figure I must have other problems (personality or something) than looks because I can't even...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I ask him if he is seeing someone else if are not exclusive?

I have been dating someone for six months. He is a merchant marine and has been out to sea for the past three months. We continued talking through email, text, and telephone the time he was away. We had a talk before he...

tiffleigh5

Xper 5 Age: 46

Fashion & Beauty

When you see girls wearing shorts with stretchmarks on their legs, what goes on your mind?

I have freaky stretchmarks on my calf and sometimes, I get conscious when I wear shorts. I just wonder how do you (especially GUYS) react and what goes on your mind when you see those scary stretchmarks on girl's legs.

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to deal with playful guys?

i met a guy at my work place who's been playful/flirty around me since day one. more playful than flirty I think. ie he'd pinch me on my cheek,stuff paper into my shirt.mess with my computer and he often stands very close...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Too set in my ways for a meaningful relationship?

Pushing my thirties longest relationship ever was a year. Met someone that is really wanting a serious relationship with me. Has anyone else ever found it kind of hard to mesh into that lifestyle after being single for a...

whiskeygirl33

Xper 6 Age: 45

Fashion & Beauty

How does the girl next door compete with the hotties?

I have 4 very close girl friends who are token hotties (3 brunettes and 1 blond, in case it matters). They have perfectly styled hair, tanned skin, perfect smokey eyes and patent shine lips, big boobs, and skinny bodies....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Deal Breaker? You decide

Here's a question for everyone. Let's say you have met a great person. They are nice, fun to be around, attractive, the chemistry is great. Then you find out they smoke/dip/snooze/chew tobacco. Deal breaker? Yes or...

Thanatos

Xper 6 Age: 38

Why do I get butterflies every time I seem my ex, a picture or even when people say his name!?

its been 5 months since we broke up. He is dating a new girl now... and I think I still have feelings for him. I actually can't stand it. I'm not obsessed with him, and the fact that he's with another girl doesn't really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

GUYS; do you find tall girls attractive?

I'm a 6 foot teen and it seems like guys are afraid of my height! I have a few guy friends,but never had a boyfriend. So my question is do guys find tall girls attractive or are they intimidated? Thanks for the help :)

boland94

Xper 5 Age: 32

How do I tell my boyfriend I have no friends?

I never really had that group of close friends everybody seems to have . I had friends over the years but no one ever stick around . The truth is I might hang out with a few people but I really do not have friends . I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a guy cheats on his girlfriend with a sudden FWB, could he be falling for his FWB?

My friends with benefits partner already has a girlfriend for about 3 months before we met and had one night stand. We became friends and communicates through chat, sms, and calls. He always want to talk with me over the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He says I'm acting "different"... wtf?

what is THAT supposed to mean? I have not changed my personality at all... besides becoming more headstrong in college... there is something going on with his family (besides his parents going through a nasty divorce) and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you say when a girl asks if you miss her?

text convo: me: know what I heard? her: what? me: you miss me her: miss me? what should I say? we've gone out twice, I've seen her a couple other times when she was with friends, and I don't wanna sound weak by...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I correct this spelling? HAY vs HEY

I added this guy on facebook and he messaged me but instead of typing HEY he typed HAY. Hay as in grass that is cut and cured hay. I don't want to be rude but I want to say hey (the correct way) back. Or should I just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

How do you know if a guy likes you over the phone?

like what are some things he might say or mention ? what would be something he would talk about ?

countrybarbie

Xper 5 Age: 32

Health & Fitness

Is an 18 year old with dentures unattractive?

i just got a full upper denture due to an accident and some naturally bad teeth. is it a turn off or deal breaker?

Anonymous

(30-35)

She's never alone, always has a female friend?

Wanna ask out a girl in college but she's never alone. She's always with someone when I see her, and I mean ALWAYS. Every day this week. She has a close female friend in school and they go everywhere together. I'm not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are men so tempted by women?

If I happen to see a very attractive man, I don't lose control or even lust after him. I just acknowledge he is attractive & forget he is even there. I might approach him if he seems like a cool guy, but he doesn't have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

GIRLS: do you have a texting strategy?

Do girls wait for the guy to text them first? because personally I"ll be waiting for her to text me first sometimes and she never does. Whenever I text her though she always reply's back right away but, she will never...

Anonymous

(36-45)