All Questions

How does a non-preppy guy flirt with a preppy girl?

I'm a nice kind of non-preppy guy who wants to know how he should flirt with the preppy girls. Any advice from guys or girls will greatly help.

PcPanther2010

Xper 4 Age: 35

Hispanics and Asian Dating?

Since the Hispanic/Latino culture is similar to the Asian culture in terms of family values, parenting, and the likes, I'd like ask this poll/survey to see the likelihood for the two cultures date interacially. In all...

WindChaser

Xper 6 Age: 42

What does it mean when he says, "we should do it again sometime"

Guy asks girl out. They have a good date (nothing great, nothing bad). He ends the date by saying "we should do it again sometime." Does that mean he's not interested or what?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Why is my ex-boyfriend emailing/sending me cards?

After a year of dating, my ex boyfriend broke up with me. He is a divorced man and had trouble committing to me throughout which caused me a lot of stress and confusion because he was so in love for the first 6 months....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

He calls me just to say hi

Ok.. so there's this guy i've been hanging out with. He complimented me and he is handsome too. We made out. I haven't seen him in like 3 months. But sometimes when he'd call me, i'd ignore him. So he started to call me...

exoticbaby

Xper 5 Age: 37

Other

Girlfriend doesn't want me to join Army

I am 18 and in high school and I have a girlfriend of 10 months. And when I get out of high school I am going into the Army, but my girlfriend does not want me to. So what should I do?

paintball2483

Xper 5 Age: 36

Freckles and blond hair cute?

Ok, so I have too many freckles for me to count on my face. And I have Blond hair. My hair is naturally blond, but I have so many Blond highlights that my hair is basically blond. It's a dirty blond. I don't wear any make...

famous

Xper 5 Age: 34

Other

An affair with a married man?

I am seriously considering having an affair with a married man that is almost 30 years older than me. I am on a non-profit volunteer board of directors with him & we talk on the phone often for a long period of time &...

giageor

Xper 5 Age: 55

Does he have feelings for me?

Why are guys protective of their girl friends? I was wondering why guys are so protective of their friends that are girls? One of my guy friends tends to be very protective of me. When it starts to get a little dark...

Living-the-ADvenTURe

Xper 7 Age: 34

The guy can't dance

How important is being able to dance? I know girls really like a guy who is smooth on his feet, but is it something that he just has to have some skill at? I can't dance at all, besides really slowly swaying hips slow...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do women think of submissive guys?

What do women think of a guy who is more submissive? I'm not talking about, "wanting to be your slave." And I'm not talking about some guy that is going to let you push him around. I'm just talking about letting you have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My husband tried to have sex with my best friend

My husband of 5 years tried having sex with my best friend there was both drunk. My best friend didn't want to and kicked him out. We have a 2 year old son. All my friends want me to kick him out. What do I do?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Would women date a 32-year-old virgin?

I am a 32-year-old man and I have never had sex. To make matters worse, I have never even been on a date or experienced any romantic relationship. They are several reasons for this for this state of affairs, such as 1)...

amon1998

Xper 5 Age: 51

I cheated on my boyfriend and have so much regret. What do I do?

My boyfriend and I have been together since we were 16. We are now 24, and have been living together for just over 6 years. It has been tough as sometimes you can't help but wonder if you've missed out on something or you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is she not ready to date, or just not ready to date me?

I am serious about a girl who just broke up with her last boyfriend last month. He drank a lot and cheated on her. I am fairly good friends with her, and on Christmas day, I asked her out. She was ok with that up until...

lostsoulmusic

Xper 3 Age: 56

What type of body do girls like in guys?

What type of body do girls like in guys? Every girl can answer what she thinks I'm not waiting for a particular answer.

hy7y8

Xper 5 Age: 37

Flirting

Does holding hands mean anything nowadays?

There was this girl I fell hard for, it was love at first sight for those of you who believe in that. I told her I liked her a lot, I held her hand in a movie and she held mine too, that was the second time we hung out...

gthcsmt

Xper 5 Age: 42

What does it mean when a girl says she needs a time out?

My girlfriend and I once had an argument, and she got offended by some things I said. She told me she wanted to take a time-out in our relationship. We have since worked through it, and never did have that time out....

lovebird01

Xper 7 Age: 74

Nice things girls want to hear?

Couple of exes, and my current ex, one way or the other, always tell me something to the extend of "tell me something nice"; normally I come up with something they did, or mention something I like about them, or give a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Other

Why am I so unappealing?

I am a student at a good college, I work out, I don't drink or smoke, I coach at a high school, I am studying to be a teacher, I am hopeless romantic in every meaning of the phrase, I'm not Hideously ugly, I love what I...

a400m-runner

Xper 6 Age: 39

Family & Friends

My boyfriend doesn't like to go out to dinner.

So, I'm normally a fast food kind of girl, but people get tired of that after a while, you know? So, one day I asked my boyfriend, why don't we go to olive garden? he said no, I was like o.k. well, how about sweet...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can you have a purely sexual relationship?

Guys only - Can you have a long term sexual relationship, (just sex, not dating or hanging out) without developing feelings for the woman? I'm talking about 18 months, of having sex with her and only her.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Tired of the Dating Games?

Is anyone else but me tired of these "rules" and "games" that you're supposed to play in the dating pool? Don't call a guy or you'll look easy. If he's too shy to say something then let him go. Don't say how you feel for...

glowgirl3

Xper 6 Age: 42

24 year old never been kissed.

What would a women think if I guy was 24, going on 25, and he'd never been kissed? In fact he's never been on his first real date. This is mostly just bad luck. He's extremely shy and hasn't really found anyone to date...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I've always had very low confidence?

How do you know if you're ugly? For security reasons, I'm not gonna put my picture on the internet, but hopefully you can still help I've always had very low confidence and I never thought I was attractive. Basically...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does brief/casual touching mean?

Do guys usually touch a girl a lot when they are in conversation with them? Even when they don't find them attractive? There is this one guy in particular that I know and pretty much every time he speaks to me he touches...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I send him a birthday card after break-up?

I am wondering if I should send my ex a birthday card (can't text cause don't have his number anymore), it will be a month since we broke up at his birthday. I am thinking about funny card with just happy birthday,...

kiamia

Xper 5 Age: 43

How to ask a guy what's wrong?

So I have this guy friend before he went on vacation he was really fun and out going and would sometimes sit really close to me or stand really close to me. He would wait for me before walking, and ya. Well, when he came...

hapa18

Xper 6 Age: 37

Flirting

Exchanging numbers....who should call first?

If a girl happens to initiate exchanging phone numbers, would you say its the guys duty to call or text her?

mellowmood

Xper 5 Age: 37

What does cute mean?

Ladies what do you mean when you call a guy cute? Every time I'd show a girl a picture of myself or get a response to my appearance I'm always being told I'm "cute." This isn't even by women that are always older than me....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do women become distant from a guy they like?

Just wondering if women back off of guys if they like the guy or know that the guy likes them.

Dominole

Xper 5 Age: 45

Puppy Dog Eyes

Guys: When you're looking at a girl with "soft eyes", what are you thinking about ? (This isn't a lustful look I'm talking about.) Thanks !

Lady-in-Waiting

Xper 5 Age: 58

When he says forever...

Does he mean it? Because forever is a long time, and I would love to be with him forever because I am absolutely in love with him. But when he says forever does he mean it?

babygirlx3

Xper 5 Age: 35

Even shy guys will make a move?

Even shy guys will make a move and approach women if they really want to? I was brought up in an old-fashioned way and I think the guy should always ask the girl out and the guy should pursue the girl. I think that if...

ALWAYSclassy

Yoda Age: 38