He calls me just to say hi

[exoticbaby]

Ok.. so there's this guy i've been hanging out with. He complimented me and he is handsome too. We made out. I haven't seen him in like 3 months. But sometimes when he'd call me, i'd ignore him. So he started to call me like once in a week and whenever I don't pick up, he leaves a voice message and says I just called to say hi. I mean if he liked me, wouldn't he just ask me out? or is he just playing with me? and he's much older than me. at the beginning he wanted to ask me to be his gf, but he feared the age difference. Ok so why does he still call me anyways if we can do nothing about ourselves. Im 18 soon, but I don't think a guy could wait. Anyways I still like him, really like him, but his actions with calls are getting me crazy. does he like me or not?

[Anonymous]

I would say if he is calling you then he likes you. I know that I'm really shy and that if I did really like a girl then I would call her to gage her interest towards me. If she didn't answer then I would probably get nervous and call more frequently :) and if she didn't respond to my voicemails I would lose interest. Girls need to let guys know that they are interested by responding I think. No guy wants to put himself out there if he thinks you are just going to reject him. Some girls use guys phone calls or messages to make other guys jealous and other stuff like that. You have to let him know that you like him or he's walking.