My boyfriend left our call to go talk to his friends without letting me know I’m frustrated what do I do?

[Anonymous]

I was sitting on the phone with him and he was helping me with a college assignment and we were talking about other things. Then all of a sudden I heard him say “what’s up” and then hung up on our call to go talk to his friends on discord and didn’t ask me if I was ok or even if he could. I felt he disrespected me and he could’ve at least said hey is it ok if I call back later and help and I can go play with my friends but instead he just left me. And he texted me I love you and then said you can still ask for help if you need and I’m trying to calm down so I haven’t replied. I’m not wanting to be angry with him I just felt disappointed and disrespected. Do I have the right to feel that way about this situation? Or am I overreacting?

[tesniolite]

I can definitely understand why you're feeling frustrated and disappointed about what happened with your boyfriend. It's not easy when someone you care about suddenly ends a call without giving any indication of what they're doing or how long they'll be gone for. It's natural to feel a little disrespected or hurt by that kind of behavior.

It might be helpful to let your boyfriend know how you're feeling, and to express your concerns in a calm and understanding way. By talking things through with him, you'll have the opportunity to share your perspective and hear his side of the story too. Remember, communication is key in any relationship, and it's important to be open and honest with each other about how you're feeling.

At the same time, it's also important to give yourself time and space to process your emotions before responding to your boyfriend. Take a moment to breathe and calm down, and when you feel ready, you can let him know how his actions made you feel. By approaching the conversation with kindness and empathy, you'll be more likely to find a resolution that works for both of you.

[teamvic]

I mean I get why you're mad it is kinda mean, especially if he was helping you but I don't think he did it intentionally, I think you just need to communicate what you're feeling. Don't hold it in. In theory, if he's not an asshole he should understand and not do it again or at least let you know if he's gonna leave.

[teamvic]

Intentionally as in Intentionally to get you mad