My husband tried to have sex with my best friend

[Anonymous]

My husband of 5 years tried having sex with my best friend there was both drunk. My best friend didn't want to and kicked him out. We have a 2 year old son. All my friends want me to kick him out. What do I do?

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+1 y

What I didn't say my husband got into bed with her when she was sleeping naked and stared playing with her she kicked him out. I have lost my husband and my best friend how can I look her in the eyes again?

[Lesae]

I think you two need to go to therapy for your son's sake. A separation right now, to get your thoughts in order might be best. But, you both have to think about the baby first. He should be the number one priority. But, staying together for him is not good either. They can sense the happiness and love thing. Even though they are little they Know. I would consider the separation. Just to give both of you time to think about everything and if you want to be with someone who would want to be with your best friend. And, she is a true friend so I commend her on that. Good luck!! I know this a hard time for you.

[Faith18letsgo]

Totally up to you, it’s not for your friends to decide. I’d ask him for an open relationship or to not be around your bestie anymore. Personally for me the problem is more making moves on your wife’s drunk friend not so much the attempted infidelity.

[Stanley]

Being drunk is an insignificant detail. People use that as an excuse, but an excuse is not a cause. Therapy is the best bet to move past this.

Your best friend is not trustworthy. Buy her some pj's as a parting gift.

[kingbrother]

Its a shame that happened. I would say leave him, it was a very perverted thing to do.

[Chillaxitwnthappen]

Don't... Just move on. Leave her. You think you deserve a husband who sleeps with your best friend?. or tries, and a best friend who almost does it?

[a400m-runner]

Think in the best interests of your son.

Good Luck!!

[GAGSucksBalls1]

shouldn't be having sex

DURING A FUCKING PANDEMIC

[Anonymous]

A similar situation happened to me. Did any advice help?