All Questions

Can you say the N word While sing along to a song (Black people please answer) ?

I listen a lot of rap music that have the N word in it when I’m trying to rap with them I say the N word hole trying to rap along with the songs. Supposedly this is controversial I don’t say it toward anyone I don’t use...

Stoner710

Guru Age: 33

Does this girl like me?

Okay so this girl which is my co worker i already known her for 3 weeks she's been giving me subtle weird flirtacious signs but i dont really pay no mind to it, tbh im not sure if its flirty or being nice, so the first...

Yessir992

Xper 3 Age: 30

I'm 24, she's 18, is she too young for me?

We love each other but I told her until she's 20 we'll abstain but she got angry

Anonymous

(25-29)

Caption this picture of Patrick Star?

smahala1991

Influencer Age: 35

Girls, have you ever accepted a date just to get a free meal at a nice restaurant?

Many guys think that women only date men to take advantage of free meals. I think these guys are butthurt, probably had some bad relationships, and are just bitter young curmudgeons. I think that there are girls -...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

Why do guys not date a girl because they’re a virgin even if they like you?

My guy friend and I finally had a talk about us and our feelings for each other. As we discussed and talked about our feelings for each other past and present I had him revisit something that happened a year ago and he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What makes a guy commit?

Do you believe that sleeping with a guy to soon hinders your chances of a commitment?

Amanda2

Explorer Age: 36

Will he reach out after I cut him off?

So he emailed me after cutting me off 9 months ago and he emailed me askimg for snap. Maybe missed me so instead i asked his back he hasn't replied in 9 days so i cut him off and said best if we dont talk anymore...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Marriage & Weddings

Is it possible to rape your wife?

I guess it's impossible because consent is automatically given due to marriage.

Anonymous

(25-29)

I can't choose, Which hair style looks better?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Signs a guy you met online is stringing you along through text?

I asked him what he wanted he said he’s looking to meet someone, enjoy their company and see where it goes but he doesn’t want a friendship, definitely serious. We’ve been texting for 2 weeks non stop, he calls and flirts...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, What 1 dot and 3 dots means while texting a girl? (example in below)?

She sent "thank you dear..." when I complimented her smoothly. She sent this too when I asked her to update me about going to a voice channel with her when she's ready "Okay, lets go.", while she was completly texting...

zawarldo

Xper 3 Age: 24

Why people judge older women married to younger men so harshly (especially when compared to older men with younger women)?

I'm married to a man 16 years younger than me. I've been with him for a total of 2.5 years. Even now we still get a fair amount of judgement from many others about our age gap. This is especially true since I (the woman)...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I think I've been stood up?

I hate these men.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, how long does it take for the "wedgie" feeling to go away when wearing a thong?

I've been wearing them for a couple days now and it still feels like a wedgie. The whole point of trying them is that I've heard they are super comfy once you get used to them, but how long is that gonna take?

Anonymous

(25-29)

What a hint that you gave a guy and he was completely oblivious to it?

https://youtu.be/-DlmhaCrRTQ My life is full of stories like these but. I is dangerous to assume a girl want to sleep with if she’s just giving hints

chris_987

Yoda Age: 39

How can I get over never having experienced teen love? ?

I'm a 27 year old woman and it never really bothered me up until now to think that I never experienced teenage love. I have dated men in my college years, but seem to think what it would have been like to have that naive...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I wear black leggings to services Sunday as we are having our Thanksgiving dinner after?

likeleggings

Yoda Age: 48

Malazan Book of the Fallen? Worth Reading?

What are some pros and cons to this book series?

HelloThereAwesome

Xper 4 Age: 35

How to deal with a super nervous guy?

I met this wonderful guy, and I really liked him from the beginning. But every time we meet, he gets super nervous, he starts shaking, stuttering , and blushing. Should I acknowledge it, or should I pretend I didn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you respect virgins who want to wait for marriage? Would you date a girl like this?

Guys, would you date a virgin girl who wants to wait until marriage to have sex? I’m not talking about a girl who’s a nun — I’m talking about a girl who will do pretty much everything but go all the way until...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Is it safe to wear non prescribed contact lenses from misakicon?

Anonymous

(25-29)

If you were a transsexual woman what would you do to make your heart hurt less?

My heart hurts so bad every day!! 🥺Not just because I feel awkward in my body but because people are super mean!😭 Over the past 12 years that I’ve been living as a girl people have said the cruelest things to me even my...

ElizaPam

Yoda Age: 31

Other

On average, how many people do you guys text almost daily?

I am just wondering how many people actually text people on a daily. I don't text anyone daily or weekly.

cherryblossomXD

Xper 7 Age: 27

Do you like this hair colour?

MoonNieve

Xper 6 Age: 37

My boyfriend is mad at me, what should I do?

My boyfriend keeps getting mad at me and I don't know if I can't take the stress. He gets mad at the little things, and I usually understand where he is coming from but the reaction from him can be really mean. I usually...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

What are you currently obsessed with?

I'm currently obsessed with: Learning about Jesus, Catholicism, and Apologetics. Physics and Astronomy. Anything having to do with East and Southeast Asia, including culture, languages, products, music, etc....

Physics-Man

Guru Age: 36

Can you fall in love with a girl because she has an amazing butt?

I-ren's song "Butt", the song goes "The butt you fell in love with sees another man". And I have to say some Korean women have amazing butts. The kind you could get married to. https://www.youtube.com/embed/mFSchD4Yr2I

John_Doesnt

Master Age: 35

Girls, Would You Date Someone My Height?

Hello, everyone! I'm 18 and I'm joining the air force. So, lately, I have been bitching about my height. I'm 5'7.5 and I really dislike this height. I've been stuck at this height since I was 13 (yeah, 5 years straight of...

MrSpine

Explorer Age: 24

Guys, Do You Like Girls In Tights?

What do you like about them? Ladies, do you wear tights?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are sociopaths just "angry losers"?

fonduegirl

Guru Age: 25

This guy didn't wish my a happy birthday?

This guy and I almost never text or anything, but we discussed our feelings once and he knows that, at least some time ago, I had a slight interest in him (I actually was in love with him, but I couldn't tell him) and I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

RIP Avril Lavigne. Do you miss her?

They replaced her with a dobbleganger around before her 3rd album was recorded and released 2007. The real Avril Lavigne is likely dead. Hard to believe its been 20 years since she first came on the scene singing country....

Ivory_Princess

Xper 5 Age: 24

Break Up & Divorce

Can anyone give me advice on my confusing breakup? Why did my ex go to the girl he told me not to worry about?

I hope that everything I say will make sense. I will be using fake names to ensure privacy. Let’s say I am “Rachel”, my ex-boyfriend is “John” and the side-girl is “Emily”. John and I began our relationship almost...

Lucy45

Xper 3 Age: 26

Girls, What's your favorite color?

LOGESHKUMAR

Guru Age: 32

What does it mean when a guy says he doesn’t know how he feels and he can’t process his emotions?

I know he’s attracted to me, and previously before this we were talking about me coming over and watching a film together, which he was very up for watching :) ( once lockdown is over ). This guy has been back and forth...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can I as a 31 year old go out with a 27 year old?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does a woman like you if she intro herself to you at work?

She doesn’t give me a lot of interest indicators other than sometimes giggle when I talk to her. She acts like I’m not there sometimes, she turns around to look at me

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to forget someone you can't have?

Xlionen

Xper 4 Age: 31

In a platonic male-female friendship, do you think women put more effort into staying connected?

He's been my friend for 6 years. We've called each other best friend, I believed it with all my heart. We've seen each other through some real tough times. No, there is no romance brewing. It never will. We agreed...

CassaBlanca

Xper 4 Age: 34

What kind of girl am I, in your opinions?

Just curious what kind of vibe I give off, for those who know me. Or think they do #lanadelrey25 #vibes

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do you recognize a twin flame?

Can the initial contact be so overwhelming you end up pushing each other away?

Femmefatale97

Xper 6 Age: 29