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My boyfriend complains he's fat but he won't do anything about it?

My boyfriend has gained about 40 lbs since I first met him. Yes he's gained weight, yes he's a little chubby but I don't think he's fat and I'm still attracted to him. The problem is that he complains almost everyday...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do men call women "fat" as a default insult?

I've noticed that men (and some women even) seem to like using "fat" as an insult, even when the person they're talking about is clearly a normal weight. Like, when men get rejected especially they retort with shit like...

cipher42

Yoda Age: 29

Entertainment & Arts

I need a badass name for a modern day female assassin character. Any ideas?

I don't want it too on the nose or girlie, but I want readers to be able to tell that it's still a girl. So Jessica, Luna, Sheena, Elizabeth, things like that are not want I want. Any ideas? Also, Saige and Terra...

Elarra

Editor Age: 36

Why is my ex boyfriend still nervous when he sees me? He still gets aroused when I talk to him but says doesn't want a relationship?

Why is he getting nervous/aroused when we're talking if he doesn't want a relationship any more? I broke up with him first but when I wanted him back he rejected me.

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you normally wear when you're at home alone?

What clothes, and do you wear shoes, socks/pantyhose, makeup, jewellry?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Have you ever been tied up to a chair?

If so, why and how?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are there any signs that show a guy is cheating?

I know the cliche obvious 'staying late at work' and 'not being in the mood' but is there a way to know he's seeing/ taking to someone else. My my partner has been acting strange the last few weeks and I have a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I hate being loved?

I know this may sound strange but it's true. I get a sick feeling in my stomach and I just get kind annoyed and i try to change the subject when someone shows any signs that they like or love me. It holds me back so much...

ExperimentalMale

Xper 5 Age: 26

Trending & News

Is YouTube star Onision wrong for doing this?

For fear that I'm going to be in his next video, I'm posting this anonymously, but you probably know who I am anyways. ;) ☺ So Onion boy is getting a lot of criticism for his new style of videos that he posts on his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If a guy asks to take you out on a date, should he pick you up?

If a guy asks to take you out on a date, shouldn't he pick you up? Not meet you somewhere? I'm 18, this guy is 24. I haven't done any casual dating or whatever. I had a boyfriend in high school for 3 years so I'm not sure...

Gabriellafaith

Xper 5 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

Some girl wants me to buy alcohol for her for something she is doing without me?

A girl I met online a few months ago and hung out a couple of times texted me and asked me if I could buy her alcohol before January 1st because she needed it. I asked her what she was doing and she said she had plans....

Crazypete3

Xper 5 Age: 32

Do You Have Trust Issues?

pervertedjester

Editor Age: 47

Flirting

What does it mean when some girls have tight lips when I walk by sometimes?

Ladies and gents this happens enough that it has made me curious. I have noticed as I'm walking by some girls have whats called tight lips or it seems like they are drawing or sucking their lips inward. I know you are not...

LeFrogDog

Explorer Age: 33

Why does she keep contacting me and then canceling?

Sorry about the length and grammar i was kind of in a rush I had been hanging out with this girl for awhile we had a falling out when she told my friend she was not talking to me until my feelings for her go away i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do people get angry at unattractive older men dating attractive young women?

I just dont get it. There's one thing if a guy deliberately leaves his wife for a younger woman. But if a guy is in his 60s and gets divorced, why on earth should he be forced to date a unattractive women his own age if...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Why is my ex boyfriend uncomfortable around me?

My ex and I dated for 3 years and then he dumped me 6 months ago because he doesn't love me anymore. But he insisted we'd stay "friends" and he insisted I keep the keys to his place to use his hot tub. Occasionally I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What is the male equivalent of make up?

And please dont say beards. Beards are a natural part of your face, make up is not.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is Sarcasm mostly an English language thing?

Is it just me or does it seem like *most* people, for whom English is not their first language, do not pick up on sarcasm very well. I understand that it's often hard to know for sure in writing (on the Internet) - but...

CheerGirl38139

Guru Age: 31

Family & Friends

When do you STOP listening to Christmas music and watching Christmas movies?

When do you and your family stop listening to Christmas music and watching Christmas movies? Most retailers stop playing Christmas music the day after Christmas. My family watches and listens until the Feast of The...

BCRanger10

Master Age: 38

Relationships

Guys, Guys who are slim to average, would you date and/or have sex with a curvy girl that's the same height as you?

So basically, would having sex with girl your height who is curvy be disgusting or would it be okay? For the reference, this is what I meant when I said slim to average guy >>...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, Why you send Selfies to Girls?

I mean not in a sexual manner... Like a selfie of you doing a hobby or something. Do you only send to girls you like or send to everyone? I'll text a guy and he'll send a pic of him golfing or something with a reply...

Lioness

Yoda Age: 45

Family & Friends

What were you passionate about as a young child? Did you follow those passions?

Are you still chasing your dreams? Don't ever stop! Think about that one...

miamigirl1970

Editor Age: 56

If a guy wishes you a Merry Xmas?

If a guy wishes you a Merry Christmas via text, does that mean he cares? Not a group text but a genuine text to you. Does it show they were thinking about you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

When should you give up on a girl on Tinder?

If they aren't interested, or if you had a first date which didn't go well, why won't they unmatch? How many messages should you send without reply before giving up? What could an 'ultimatum' question be for example?...

henryconnors

Xper 4 Age: 36

Do older men actually feel attracted to younger women?

I've always been curious if older men (40+) might feel attracted to young women (25+)? If so, why is this? What is attractive young women? Feel free to share your opinion, thank you! 😊

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you consider dating opposite sex version of yourself?

Someone of opposite sex who has many (if not all) personality traits same as you.

Schrodingerscat

Guru Age: 30

My boyfriend wants to have sex with another girl on his birthday?

My boyfriend who I've been with for half a year asked me if I would be cool if he had sex with another girl on his birthday since I have a competition so I can't be there with him. He said he doesn't want to cheat and be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it time for sports like tennis to deal with the Gender pay gap and become a more gender equal sport based solely on ability?

Whilst Djokovic, Nadal and Federer earn huge amounts of money, travel the world and live like kings, in 2012 the 150th ranked player earned just $75,000 in prize money, and the 200thranked player just $20,780. If you are...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, Do girls like more serious and mature guys?

Soph in college. I have never stepped into the dating circle until now. I've been chasing my dreams/goals, not anything else. The girl's my age seem too immature.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this a glitch or is he ignoring me on meetme app? doesn't make sense because his last active date is dec20 can u help me out?

Ok so i met a guy on meet me we talk for 2 weeks untill we had an disagreement , I was hasty and block him then unblock the next day when I wasn't mad anymore, I've been messaging him everyday the last 5 days now and no...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I have a crush on an upperclassman?

Hello! For starters, thank you for taking the time to read this, I'll keep it short and sweet. I am a competitive swimmer (freshman) and there is this junior that I occasionally get rides to practice with. I got out...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is he chasing me if he has a girlfriend?

I met this guy through one of my closest friends. He is the boyfriend of one of her other closest friends as well. He started calling me, texting me, and snapchatting me after we hungout for the first time (all four of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do white people have an obsession with black women's hair?

For centuries black people were ridiculed for their hair and to this day there are laws in countries and states saying black people can't wear their hair natural. It goes back to slavery when in 1789 black women were...

Anonymous

(25-29)