All Questions

Why do people say big boobs don't count if she's fat?

Why do people say this? All boobs are beautiful. It is really mean to curvy women.

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to tell your ex bf you're pregnant?

Recently found out I'm pregnant & I don't know how to tell my ex... the whole time we were together he explicitly told me He's not ready for a kid... and now he's gonna be a dad :( I thought of texting or calling but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is OkCupid just for hooking up nowadays?

I had really good luck with OkC a couple years ago (met my last bf there) and went on quite a few good dates. I decided to try it again a few weeks ago & I've literally gotten NO messages. I haven't changed my profile...

Beach_lover88

Xper 6 Age: 37

Girl's Behavior

How to respond to a girl trying to make you jealous?

If your crush knows you like her and she likes you back, and she tries to make you jealous by talking a lot to another guy who she knows likes her, what signal is she trying to send? Is she trying to get you to make a...

User123456788

Xper 5 Age: 28

Granny panties?

Any girls admit to wearing granny panties presently or in the past? Describe with as much details as you want.

convo_king89

Guru Age: 37

Girl's Behavior

Ladies, do you find snail trails attractive?

I just love a nice/neat little snail trail.

moxygirl11

Yoda Age: 27

Pushing the limits on public nudity or potential public nudity (eg going commando)?

How far would you push the limits of public nudity or potential public nudity. For example have you ever: 1. Gone braless in public? 2. Gone commando in a dress or skirt? 3. Gone topless at the beach? 4. Flashed in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Can people tell if two people like eachother?

Im not sure why this keeps happening but whenever i am around this guy, people always act very strange. Ill be doing something and if he's around, people stare and smile. I work with him so we talk a lot. We usually...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why are men so mean and angry towards pretty or nice women?

this is an issue for me, a friend of mine or two and others I've heard of. im stand out gorgeous.. pretty and also nice and down to earth. I've never been stuck up in my life, but most women around me are. however, men...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

My bf aunt doesn't like me?

I have met her at the park when my bf's mom wanted to have a picnic. They're hispanic, I don't know if has anything to do with, and I'm a Filipino. Anyways when the first time I met her, I was my with my bf meeting them...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a guy says you need to relax, does that mean he is angry or that he is not worried for that anymore?

I've been flirting with this guy for a while now and a week ago I apologized to him for saying some things. He replied saying that he wasn't upset or angry with me. But I knew he was cause his previous texts were a bit...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Texted a guy with read receipts on and he hasn't read the text and it's been 3 days, but he texted my friend?

This guy is a friend of a friend. We've seen each other at pregames before but didn't actually met until about 3 days ago. It was a crazy night. We ended up making out at a bar a lot and he left and texted me and then i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy calls you Princess?

I know this sounds ridiculous but I look pretty deeply into other people's words and actions but this one stumped me.

brazen_goddess

Xper 4 Age: 36

Why do unattractive men approach me?

I'm writing this because recently one of my friends decided to play match maker and hook me up with one of her friends who thinks i'm attractive. Sadly, the feeling isn't mutual, I'm not attracted to him at all. Lately, a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are white women really prettier?

Is this really a thing? I read a article today written by a black guy saying that white women are a level up from all other races and getting a white girl is like winning a pot of gold? WTF

Anonymous

(30-35)

She said "I don't want to lead you on." What does this mean?

I started hanging out with this lady several months ago. First off we've done nothing sexual, only contact between us has been hugs and playfully bumping into one another. She is married. Their relationship has not been a...

unsureofonesself

Xper 4 Age: 37

Should I hit him up first or give up?

I've been talking to this guy for a couple weeks and we text everyday but there's breaks in between of course. Sometimes he replies quickly and other times not but I do the same. Anyways, last week I replied to his text...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Do you make it obvious when you like someone?

When you like someone are you the type to make it obvious? or do you shy away when you do?

kain7th

Xper 7 Age: 40

Hot or Beautiful?

Ok so my boyfriend and I were talking about the difference between hot and beautiful in relation to describing a woman. He told me that some girls may be hotter than me but none more beautiful. What is the difference in...

rihanna

Xper 5 Age: 33

What is your opinion of men wearing skirts?

What do people think about men wearing skirts? Me personally thinks it's fine because the skirt is made for the male anatomy. It allows the boys to breathe. What is your opinion (please explain)?

fallenangel01

Xper 5 Age: 44

When he says "we'll stay in touch" does he really mean it?

Guys I need you to shoot straight with me here. Sure, I'm overanalyzing but I'd like to hear from you what you think this means because my time is precious and I don't want to waste it on someone who really could care...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Red/Dark lipstick on a girl: Hot or not?

Red: 2.bp.blogspot.com/.../retro-red-lips.jpg https://i6.cdnds.net/12/41/152621835-medium_new.jpg Dark: www.topinspired.com/.../dark-red.jpg junkygypsy.weebly.com/.../2053994_orig.jpg

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is the biggest visual turn on for guys with cowgirl?

Obviously you can see her best that way. What specifics are the turn on the most visually in this position? I know guys like it but always curious what exactly is the biggest visual piece. Seeing her ride you? Her...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Men, do you hate apple shaped bodies?

There was a poll here recently and I believe men voted apple shaped bodies as the least desirable for women. That came as no surprise to me but then I took it upon myself to find some women who have very nice apple shaped...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Tell me, why wouldn't your block your ex ( bf / gf ) on social media after you broke up with them? Be honest! ?

So tell me whats the point of keeping your ex lover on fb, whats app etc.., if you make it clear to them to move on, that it's over, and how much you hate them and dispise them. yet you keep them on social media,...

ReneDS

Xper 7 Age: 38

If a guy's friend asks if you like his friend, what does that mean?

I was at a party yesterday, and one of his friends started asking me if i talk to "bob" or if i was currently texting him. When I said "not really", he started to ask "Why" and then asked if i "ever see him". And when i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Wavy, frizzy, ugly, and uncontrollable hair?

I have wavy hair but its the ugly type of wavy, it's very frizzy as well. I don't want my hair to be burned so I don't want to straighten it everyday and also do not want a perm. Any ideas on how I can keep it looking...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you take baths with your SO?

Somehow this came up in a conversation with my friend earlier. I told her i take baths with my SO quite often and she was like "what, I've never done that". Is it really that uncommon to bathe with your SO? Ty :)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: Do u wear thongs?

I'm just curious to see how many girls wear thongs. If u do wear them, how often do u wear them? And why do u wear them? Are they comfortable or uncomfortable? If u only wear them on special occasions, which occasions...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Would it be weird to Facebook message a guy I met at a bar the other night?

I was pretty drunk so I don't really remember how our conversation went, but I got his full name and found him on Facebook. I think he's very attractive and I really missed my opportunity. How weird would it be if I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When your friends with benefits interlock hands with you. Its meaning?

My friends with benefits been interlocking hands with mines whenever we're watching a movie. At first he's hesitant but eventually he does it. He looks at my facial expression to see if I'm with it. Eventually it leads...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, are non-athletic guys a turnoff to you?

By non-athletic I don't mean that he's fat and sits inside all day, but that he is, for example, bad at sports, not muscled, or just not really into sports.

TheOneAndOnlyBart

Explorer Age: 27

What do girls think of beards?

Would it be something sexy? Manly?

apexalpha

Guru Age: 38

My guy friend called me ugly playfully?

we are both good friends, and he just called me ugly though it was playfully but it still stung. I am not ugly. In fact, many guys call me beautiful/sexy/cute and I am definitely better looking than him. So why did he do...

Anonymous

(25-29)