What do you think of girls who throw their bras at a concert?

[AleDeEurope]

We've all seen videos of girls throwing their bras at a stage for... who knows what reason, but they do this. Fortunately I haven't seen any panties being thrown xD
My ex told me she did this once, and seemed to look at it as something normal, but I lost a lot of attraction towards her when she told me this, I think it's immature and a lack of self-respect, like, the fuck? hahaha

So what do you think of girls who do this? Girls, have you done this? xD

[teawrecks]

They probably wear cheap bras. But, I guess I'm curious as to why you lost attraction for her? It's not like she was throwing herself up on stage or onto the artist's dick or anything. It's just an article of clothing, and she's still wearing a shirt, so she's still covered.

Don't really know what is has to do with self-respect, either. Having fun = not respecting yourself? It's a concert, chances are only the five people behind and next to her even knew she removed the bra.

[AleDeEurope]

It's the meaning behind it. To me, a girl doing that is like saying "I would let you fuck me without having to earn it". She would have taken all her clothes if it wasn't illegal.
It's also the sense of degrading yourself for someone who doesn't even know you. You're putting them on a pedestal, thinking they're better than you. It feels like they're worshiping them.
To me, that's lack of self-respect.
I'm not saying having fun = lack of self respect, and I think you can have fun without throwing your bra to a stranger.

[teawrecks]

I see.

[ChocoLada]

I've never done that, such girls are so childish and conceited, I mean, what do they think to accomplish by throwing their bras? Nothing, they are just being empty-headed bimbos.

[AleDeEurope]

Amen!

[AzureGirl]

No, bras are quite pricy sometimes and I'm not about to toss mine anywhere outside of my own home. I just think it's weird some girls do that.

[AleDeEurope]

What if bras were cheap, would you do it? xD

[AzureGirl]

No lol my bra! I paid for it! XD

[Bandit74]

I think its kind of sad when girls go crazy and expose themselves just because the guy is a celebrity.

It would probably make me lose respect for her.

[AleDeEurope]

I agree.

[tyber1]

Yeah for sure

[StickStickity13]

If my girlfriend did something like this, I'd lose respect for her.

[AleDeEurope]

Yeah, that happened to me too, I lost respect for her, cause clearly she doesn't respect herself :/

[StickStickity13]

Yup, one thing I look at is how a girl respects herself.

[ClaudeMachiha]

Truth be told, that is just a natural feminine response. In order to get an understanding of why a woman would throw her expensive bra at a Rapper or Celeb, you have to go deep into the dichotomy of masculinity and femininity.

Women, whether they are currently wives, girlfriends, romantic partners and the like, are naturally attracted to strength. There are only a few strong males on Earth in comparison to the number of weak men. That is what creates the fervor, and quite frankly sexual tension, within these women that throw their bras. It's because they see these men as such rare species, because of the status and success they've amassed, that their numerous male counterparts failed to.

Please note, just because only 10 out of 1500 women at a concert threw their bra on stage, doesn't mean the other 1490 didn't want to. Like you'll see in some of the female responses on this page, many women care about how they are seen in public. BUT this doesn't mean that they don't want to throw their bras, they just won't do it because of the way the know for example, their jealous and insecure boyfriend would negatively react.

That feeds into the problem many young men have, which is how they fail to see what women want. Women have for centuries restrained and restricted themselves, even though less so in recent times, and therefore have created the cryptology of 'knowing what she wants'.

To all the male responses here, chill out lads. Her throwing a bra on stage is the same as her blushing when her 'dream boyfriend' or an alpha male walks past. This is how things are, and as a man myself, I'd rather acknowledge that, and look to build myself in a way that is worthy or respect from my family, friends and community, and maybe a few girls who scream and wet their panties when they see me (lol). But all in all, your status as a man dictates how women not only perceive you, but also how they are sexually attracted to you.

[YEAHBacon]

I know this is old but lol I have too much free time

I don't know how much of this i'd consider lack of self respect, but there's definitely a lack of respect and consideration for others. I know it's a tradition, but throwing clothes that have your sweat and body odor at people is creepy.
Everybody's got different limits but since we live in a society that trivializes men's experience with sa and women's sa crimes, there are a lot of men who'll say stuff like that doesn't bother them because if they do they'll get dismissed and even made fun of.
Maybe some celebs enjoy this or take it as a compliment but there are also people who convince themselves they enjoy these kinds of creepy actions as a defense mechanism. So even if they say it's fine it might just be part of an unhealthy cycle. (I don't know the chances of that, prolly higher for men)

Since it's a tradition it probably won't go away anytime soon, so I guess I'd be ok with it if the bra was unused and bought solely for this?
Make it a gesture rather than actually doing it in the heat of the moment?

[CHARismatic110]

I think that their bras are not expensive. When you have to pay $40 for a bra, tossing it away at a concert is the last thing on your mind. #nobodygottimeforthat

[AleDeEurope]

True hahaha But what do you think of the girls that do that?

[CHARismatic110]

I don't really see the point lol. It's not like the performer is gonna keep it. Or even know it's from them.

[mr90skid]

$40 FOR A BRA? Just one? What the? No wonder y'all trying to free the nipple, it cost too damn much to keep em covered

[CHARismatic110]

@mr90skid lmaoooo yes. That's what you pay when you have big boobs. And $40 is on the low end.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

I've never done it but now that you mention it I'll fucking try it!!! Sounds so cool, hopefully Hardwell catches my bra on January lol

[AleDeEurope]

Pfff hahahah I knew you would be down for it xD I saw Hardwell last June... total disappointment, I thought he was gonna be awesome, but he was just nothing special... though I do gotta say, going after Jack U and Flosstradamus, didn't help him xD

[WhatTheHellAmy]

I didn't know this was your question! XD

Yeah, you told me that but I dieeee to see him, I really really wanted to go to his concert last year but I couldn't 😭😭

And diplo is good, I really like him but I just love Hardwell, his first tracks were drug to my ears. Maybe now he's totally overrated and lost his talent lol but still XD I need to see him.

And also, why in the fuck do you think it's so bad? Fuck you ale! XD

[ConsultantIsBack]

Hardwell ❤❤❤❤👍👍👍

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@ConsultantIsBack fuck yeah <3

[spuitkaas]

Only thing I think is that it's a waist of a good bra. Bras are expensive. Why the fuck would you throw it away?

[AleDeEurope]

But if they were cheap, would you do it? xD

[spuitkaas]

Still wouldn't since finding my size takes 3 hours of shopping. Time = money.

[KRIEL55]

i think thats just doing the absolute most i personally wouldn't do it, but if i see a girl doing it i dont really care. just dont get what it accomplishes. its not like at the end the singer will pick it up and want to meet her or something

[loofah]

i wouldn't do it. some girls are fiesty though. i think its kinda funny and cartoony. but if anyone threw their panties or male underwear up there, that would weird me out since I've never heard of that.

[Luci1602]

I would not risk my poor bra just for that hahaha. I mean, sometimes bras can be damn expensive.

[AleDeEurope]

But what do you think about girls who do that?

[Luci1602]

They are tacky.

[maria96]

Desperate attempt to get the singer's attention with sex.

Would I do it? Nope.

[daintydollface]

Animalistic instincts?

Waste of money throwing a bra away tbf...

[Carliexo7]

They're gross! Girls don't know what elegance is anymore

[ConsultantIsBack]

And this is why Italian women do well in the US lol

[Carliexo7]

@ConsultantIsBack hahah thanks I guess? 🎀

[Hans222]

That they must be cold :o
It's their own responsibility. And I guess most guys around them who already have consumed a few glasses will not complain 8)

[MissNowhere]

I wouldn't do it, not my kind of thing and I don't see the point. But I don't care what other chicks do. If it makes them happy, okkkaaaayyy.

[BeautifulWreck]

I think its trashy. Just goes to show that some women will lose all self respect and dignity to be noticed by people who will never know they exist.

[ninetynine]

I've never done this or seen this. It does sound pretty unclassy, haha.

I'd imagine the reason would be for attention?

[Imafreespirit]

Oh no no no bras are expensive haha and even they werent I dont think I'd to that , I wouldn't like to expose myself like that

[9mfeo]

They must be rich. There's no way I'm throwing my bras away. Far too expensive.

[BelleGirl21]

I think they must be loaded because bras are not cheap! 😎

[front2back]

"Let me throw my undergarment that is full of my sweat and body odor at you!"

[mr90skid]

Subconsciously imaging themselves removing it for the guy in bed?