Number 6 is soooo important. That alone time helps you really be okay with being single. Once you get that it's okay to be alone, you're freakin golden!
Shift your focus from the person you broke up with to yourself. People tend to dwell on the other person, especially men. Realize that they are not important anymore. You are #1 and always should be.
No im not saying being desperate. Im just saying lower your standards a little bybgoing for someone who has 50-70% of the qualities you like rather than 100%
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Thank you. I'll keep it in mind if I ever get in that situation
Hopefully you never have to go through with that
Number 6 is soooo important. That alone time helps you really be okay with being single. Once you get that it's okay to be alone, you're freakin golden!
Yes!!
Wow amazing write up! Especially the 5th and last point is so true.
Thank you :)
These are all good things, but one does also have to think over what caused the breakup and draw some lessons from it as part of the healing process.
I mentioned that under #2
I have to write all these down and whatever else someone mentions in this question. I have never had to do this. I dont even know where to start.
I just want to help :)
Thank you. I need it
Great article🙃
The best way to love is by loving yourself.
I love myself all the time so much I'm worried about going blind. Good stuff
Shift your focus from the person you broke up with to yourself. People tend to dwell on the other person, especially men. Realize that they are not important anymore. You are #1 and always should be.
Yep i mentioned that above
Yeah not much else you can do. I wish there was a quick fix but there isn't really. I am still going through it now and it has been over a year.
Nice list. The rebound tip has worked for me.
Thanks
Me too
@Meh18 I'm happy for you!
I totally agree. I always rebound way too fast.
Same. I made that mistake this time around cause they overlapped like a week apart
I'm afraid to be alone. I think a lot of girls are.
Guys too thats why they move on just as easily
Makes sense.
Man G@G edited my stuff. Its not posed to be 10 tips. Its only 8
When you have a lot of spare time, you find yourself thinking about your ex. So it is better to find yourself some works to do.
Yep thats what the last point mentions
I’ve found that the two main things you’ve got to do are figure out exactly why you broke up, and go and meet new people.
Yep i listed both above
Yeah I know I’m just saying I think those two specifically are the most important
You don't always get closure. I certainly agree with #4.
Yepp
I tried to move on but I couldn't. texted her recently she replied politely. I know she's done with me. I just wanna be friends with her
Its not good to be friends
I don't know. But I'm feeling well since texting her.
I feel some og these tips are good for life in general
True
I'll try it won't be easy😖
Its a new year. Let go of her
I just get more and more jelly other days she comes through and I get lost with her
but there are 12 thing in the first picture? ? ? ? ? ;DDDDDDDD
The pic is just a pic. Its not part of the tips lol
If you can't forget the past, you'll never have a future
with time i got to know self love is the best
Same
Jerk off. The end.
(To someone that looks completely different)
Go over to a friend's house.
No im not saying being desperate. Im just saying lower your standards a little bybgoing for someone who has 50-70% of the qualities you like rather than 100%
I wasn't replying to one of your tips, I was just adding on 2 more.
you women get over guys real quick
so why is this post even here